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To not think loans for luxury items are a good idea?

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ReallyBadEyeDeer · 16/04/2024 16:22

As in expensive watches, designer handbag, sports car, aesthetic surgery.

Things that someone might really really want and arguably could make them much happier in life, but involve taking a bank loan to pay over a length of time.

Even if you do have the income to pay it off monthly without causing financial strain. What if something changes in future?

OP posts:
CaribouCarafe · 17/04/2024 13:23

notacooldad · 17/04/2024 11:58

Buying things you don’t need with money you don’t have to impress people you don’t know is the absolute height of stupidity. With the exception of a mortgage, if you have to take out a loan to buy it, you can’t afford it

Wrong. I could afford to to pay cash for a piece of art I love. However it made more sense to buy it on credit. It was 0% purchase and I was protected by credit card ts and Cs.
The piece cost me £3000 5 years ago and I absolutely love it! It makes me smile every time I walk into the room it's in and it wasn't bought to impress anyone

I don't see anything wrong in having a splurge now and again if you can afford to pay it back.
You just need to be wise which payback option you use.

Completely different. You could afford it just a different way to pay.

It's not completely different when the premise of the post is
To not think loans for luxury items are a good idea?
I don't think it is the worst idea in the world to be honest.
The op says Things that someone might really really want and arguably could make them much happier in life, but involve taking a bank loan to pay over a length of time

Everything we do in life is a risk. If something will genuinely make you much happier in your life and you have thought things through and looked at best purchasing options ,why not?

Even if you do have the income to pay it off monthly without causing financial strain. What if something changes in future?

and what if something doesn't change? You've not been significantly happier and you didn't gain anything.

My biggest non purchase regret is the most fabulous painting I saw about 15 years ago and thought I couldn't afford it. If I took a loan out it would have been paid off within 18 months.
I didn't take a loan, it would have given me joy and I regret not buying it.
Obviously dont take a huge loan out if your job is looking shakey or if it is going to compromise your budget significantly.
However if you are a reasonably functioning adult that can handle money I don't see the problem.

@CaribouCarafe
But this makes no sense - they've paid for the luxury item + additional costs in interest over the duration of the payment plan. They'd be better off saving money each month to go towards a luxury item once they have the funds to pay for it, rather than buy now and pay (substantially more) later.
But the op was talking about something that isn't going to be available long term. What is the problem with taking an interest free loan to secure the item.

I still think it's a terrible idea - you never know when your boiler or roof will pack in, then suddenly you have debt over a frivolous item to contend with as well as the new boiler/roof repairs and you're likely to then resent having bought that handbag/jewellery etc.

You can always put a few quid in per month into a 'fuck it fund' for when such an off-chance luxury good comes along that you simply need to have now. But getting a loan with an interest rate for a piece of expensive tat is not worth it in my view. And the problem with interest-free loans is that it primes you for just taking more loans in the future (and potentially ones with an interest rate). It's better to get into a mentality of 'I can't afford that' and move on with your life, not ruminating for years over something that you wish you bought.

On a similar note, it never ceases to amaze me how many couples overspend on weddings only to start their married lives in debt or on the bones of their arse - one day sets them up with months or even years of additional stress.

People honestly need to just be content with less, not striving after the latest gadgets, trends, or vehicles

Youdontevengohere · 17/04/2024 13:21

I wouldn’t do it myself, but unless I was the one expected to bail them out if it went wrong I couldn’t care less how others choose to spend their money/organise their finances.

Sandwichblock · 17/04/2024 13:14

Where are people getting all these interest free loans from? I haven't seen 0% credit offered for years not that I'm really looking

Pedallleur · 17/04/2024 13:12

Daisy12Maisie · 16/04/2024 16:53

For a Rolex it would probably be worth it as they go up in value so much but I wouldn't do it.

No they dont. certain models may increase in value over time but that bubble is bursting now. However, an interest free loan for eg 2 yrs is a great way to buy the item (as long as you can afford the repayments)

AlwaysGinPlease · 17/04/2024 13:09

Comedycook · 16/04/2024 16:30

It's pathetic. I'd only ever get into debt for essential items. Utterly pathetic to get into debt because you're desperate to look rich.

Agreed. It's actually quite sad.

SheerLucks · 17/04/2024 13:04

Comedycook · 16/04/2024 16:30

It's pathetic. I'd only ever get into debt for essential items. Utterly pathetic to get into debt because you're desperate to look rich.

Absolutely this!

Hoppinggreen · 17/04/2024 13:00

We did our kitchen on 0% finance and stuck the money we had earmarked for it into our ISAs instead. We are making enough in interest (Shares) to pay the monthly repayments and we still have the money

notacooldad · 17/04/2024 12:57

For home improvements it felt like it could be justifiable as an investment. It wasn't ideal but not quite the same as some luxury products.
Many luxury items will out last things home improvements.

I would rather have something that will last than an expensive holiday that needs financing and go for a cheaper holiday.

Ds1bought an expensive watch on 0% fiance about the same time as we had a new kitchen quite a few years back.There wasn't that much difference in price.
His watch has gained value and my kitchen is getting ready to be refurbished.

Rosti1981 · 17/04/2024 12:48

We once took out a bank loan for flooring too. That wasn't 0% and I wasn't delighted, but it was fairly low interest (4ish % I think, and our mortgage is capped low so it didn't feel too wild... we were making regular monthly payments and eventually paid it off as a lump sum). For home improvements it felt like it could be justifiable as an investment. It wasn't ideal but not quite the same as some luxury products.

Rosti1981 · 17/04/2024 12:45

I use 0% credit cards and loans sometimes. But the cc debt is capped and I have plans to repay it before the rate changes, so it makes more sense for me to invest the £ in a way that earns interest and pay back the cc before it comes off 0%. I've also got a 0% loan for Invisalign. Again I am making the monthly payments so no issues and I've budgeted for it over the next few months.
Debt with high interest rates or no plans to pay off doesn't make sense though.

Hoppinggreen · 17/04/2024 12:41

I agree OP
I got into a lot of trouble with credit cards some years ago. I ended up still paying for items I no longer owned.
If you cant afford expensive things buy a cheaper version cash or do without

Allfur · 17/04/2024 12:36

I always assumed that's how lots of people paid for their fancy cars

ememem84 · 17/04/2024 12:16

loans for renovations to homes i'm ok with. I'm not ok personally with loans for cars - given then depreciate in value so much.

i have a friend who took out loan and bought herself a Hermes handbag - a kelly which whilst it is lovely and really really wonderful quality - to spend around £20k on a handbag is ridiculous. i know they have good resale value, but she also never uses it. it's just to have. to show off about.

i like a nice bag. but i draw the line at spending that muc

Verv · 17/04/2024 12:13

Bank loan / credit card - No, the interest isnt worth it.
Interest free credit on a single item (eg luxe watch) if you can afford to cover the repayments - yes, but I would say only if you have enough in savings to pay the loan off in full at any given moment should circumstances change.

6Y5T · 17/04/2024 12:12

Depends on your circumstances.

I've recently bought a used car (just under £10k) on 0% credit card. I have the cash in a savings account earning 4.9% interest.

I'll pay off the credit card just before the 0% rate runs out in 25 months time (or transfer to another 0% rate card depending on savings interest rates).

mondaytosunday · 17/04/2024 12:07

Nope. How can a watch make some one happier to justify a loan?
I can see putting a holiday on a credit card if one is confident of paying it off over a few months. And of course a car - but if needing a loan it has to be a sensible one, not a vanity purchase.

notacooldad · 17/04/2024 11:58

Buying things you don’t need with money you don’t have to impress people you don’t know is the absolute height of stupidity. With the exception of a mortgage, if you have to take out a loan to buy it, you can’t afford it

Wrong. I could afford to to pay cash for a piece of art I love. However it made more sense to buy it on credit. It was 0% purchase and I was protected by credit card ts and Cs.
The piece cost me £3000 5 years ago and I absolutely love it! It makes me smile every time I walk into the room it's in and it wasn't bought to impress anyone

I don't see anything wrong in having a splurge now and again if you can afford to pay it back.
You just need to be wise which payback option you use.

Completely different. You could afford it just a different way to pay.

It's not completely different when the premise of the post is
To not think loans for luxury items are a good idea?
I don't think it is the worst idea in the world to be honest.
The op says Things that someone might really really want and arguably could make them much happier in life, but involve taking a bank loan to pay over a length of time

Everything we do in life is a risk. If something will genuinely make you much happier in your life and you have thought things through and looked at best purchasing options ,why not?

Even if you do have the income to pay it off monthly without causing financial strain. What if something changes in future?

and what if something doesn't change? You've not been significantly happier and you didn't gain anything.

My biggest non purchase regret is the most fabulous painting I saw about 15 years ago and thought I couldn't afford it. If I took a loan out it would have been paid off within 18 months.
I didn't take a loan, it would have given me joy and I regret not buying it.
Obviously dont take a huge loan out if your job is looking shakey or if it is going to compromise your budget significantly.
However if you are a reasonably functioning adult that can handle money I don't see the problem.

@CaribouCarafe
But this makes no sense - they've paid for the luxury item + additional costs in interest over the duration of the payment plan. They'd be better off saving money each month to go towards a luxury item once they have the funds to pay for it, rather than buy now and pay (substantially more) later.
But the op was talking about something that isn't going to be available long term. What is the problem with taking an interest free loan to secure the item.

Beatrixslobber · 17/04/2024 09:12

@Lily193 sorry, but that’s my point. He absolutely cannot understand why we wouldn’t use credit. I can see that we are all different hence saying that I don’t care what others do. He can’t understand why we wouldn’t hence him saying that it’s a no brainier. Does that make sense?

Sandwichblock · 17/04/2024 09:07

ReallyBadEyeDeer · 16/04/2024 16:50

No an actual loan directly from the bank.

If you're going to take debt, a bank loan can be better and cheaper than some of the other ways of doing it. That makes no sense at all.

Sandwichblock · 17/04/2024 09:05

calligraphee · 16/04/2024 19:39

I think it is irrational, unless it is an item that will increase in value.

I've always taken the view that, apart from a mortgage on a house, if you need to borrow for it, you can't afford it.

I don't take any debt and repaid the mortgage early, by paying my bonus in every year and it's saved me thousands over the years and is basically the reason I'm now looking at retirement at 54.

Some will obviously say I've been able to do that because I had "enough", which is true, but IME some people will never have enough no matter what they earn.

NeedToChangeName · 17/04/2024 09:02

CaribouCarafe · 16/04/2024 17:51

But this makes no sense - they've paid for the luxury item + additional costs in interest over the duration of the payment plan. They'd be better off saving money each month to go towards a luxury item once they have the funds to pay for it, rather than buy now and pay (substantially more) later.

I've always been very debt cautious though - the only good type of loan in my view is one that will ultimately improve your financial situation (e.g. a (sensible i.e. not overstretched) mortgage, or buying a reliable (not luxury!) car to be able to commute to work in, or buying tools for your trade etc.). Anything else, you'll be paying out your eyeballs just for the convenience of getting it earlier.

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@CaribouCarafe agree with you. As a society, we need to be better at living within our means. It's madness to incur debt for unnecessary items

Janetime · 17/04/2024 08:59

Meadowfinch · 17/04/2024 08:55

I only borrow money for an appreciating asset, a home or a tool I need in order to work.

So that's my mortgage and, if necessary, my car, because it allows me to have a sensible income.

Nothing else makes sense, unless you have had a really bad year - illness, stress etc - and you genuinely need to sleep in the sun for a week to regain your strength.

Otherwise - I try to stay within my budget.

I strongly disagree.

i shall give an example. We needed a new boiler. The cost was 4k. Genuinely, we could easily have afforded that. The money was in a high interest account. We took an interest free loan. Cost was about 50 quid a month, barely noticed.

the cumulative interest we earned on the money reduced the price of the boiler by quite some, as such it was the best financial decision for a depreciating asset.

Bournetilly · 17/04/2024 08:56

I have a loan for my car as I previously had cheap ones that didn’t last very long. It wasn’t a brand new car when I got it. I’m not sure if I will keep this one once the loan is paid off or if I will get another one as I need the car for work (drive a lot of miles) and obviously as they get older there’s more chance of problems.

Up until recently I’ve had a phone contract for the last 10ish years. I decided not to upgrade this time and just keep my current phone with a sim only plan (no contract). I’d just got used to always having the latest phone which is probably the same for a lot of people. People get used to having the latest items or having new things.

Meadowfinch · 17/04/2024 08:55

I only borrow money for an appreciating asset, a home or a tool I need in order to work.

So that's my mortgage and, if necessary, my car, because it allows me to have a sensible income.

Nothing else makes sense, unless you have had a really bad year - illness, stress etc - and you genuinely need to sleep in the sun for a week to regain your strength.

Otherwise - I try to stay within my budget.

Janetime · 17/04/2024 08:52

I think it depends.

if you are financially savvy , can afford up front but an interest free loan can be a much better idea than paying, if your savings earn interest, the money is better in your account than it is in the sellers.

its really not as simple as it’s always a bad idea. It is often about managing your money in the most prudent way, paying out and losing the interest on your savings v an interest free loan is usually optimal as long as you are in control and don’t over commit.