He leaves his chair out most of the time after a meal .
… drive s me mad .
I have asked and asked that he put it back - remind him
most days- or many days -sometimes call to him upstairs to come and put it under.
it infuriates me beyond measure !
it feels inconsiderate to me .
Its silly but it really stresses me out now - i have developed a learnt reaction and i get angry.
does it really matter?!!
dh says he tries but forgets daily.
he is semi retired so this can happen 3 times a day at meal times ultimately.
he has suggested that i “ work on my reaction” ( it is ott)
and
that he does not use the table - which will affect out life !!
my thought is you are a grown man and you can put a chair under a table !!!
he also moves the coffee table daily and does not put that back either. Every day or many days i move it back.that bothers me less.