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To hate taking toddler round peoples houses

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Jenny245 · 15/04/2024 19:36

It’s my idea of hell. My friend who has a baby doesn’t get it. She says oh bring him along! I say I don’t want to because he’ll destroy your house. She laughs it off. But it’s not enjoyable for me, I’m up and down every 2 seconds because he’s into everything. I don’t want to spend my time saying no repeatedly, I’d rather meet outside and let burn off energy.
What’s put me off also going around is the gathering is at 4pm. Would you take a toddler somewhere at 4pm even if their bedtime was at 6pm and had nursery the next day?

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ButterflyKu · 15/04/2024 19:49

I often read about toddlers going to sleep quite early and think I must be doing something wrong😅 my 1&2 year old go to bed around 8:30/9!

Anyway OP I just wouldn’t go. Sounds like a hassle and there’s nothing worse than being all stressed out watching the little one when you’re wanting to relax/socialise. I rather just stay at home

Mandarinaduck · 15/04/2024 19:47

4 pm is a good time I’d have thought - between nap and bedtime.

But if you have a toddler who needs a lot of supervision, no it’s not fun. You can’t socialise with your friends when you’re ‘ on duty’ - but why not go just for an hour and take a favourite toy or activity with you?

TinySaltLick · 15/04/2024 19:42

No I wouldn't bother tbh

Sadiee0 · 15/04/2024 19:41

I wouldnt put myself in a position where I couldn't go out after about 3pm because of a toddlers bed time.

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