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To ask how into 'stuff' are you?

181 replies

Missmarple87 · 15/04/2024 15:18

Seems like a weird question and I'm asking from an impartial position because I find it so intriguing! I suppose I'm also asking because how much we should spend Vs save is a point of discussion in my marriage 😉 .

At a party at the weekend of people all in professional jobs and with decent amounts of disposable income (I know you can't know about people's finances, really, but it's clear most have some cash left over at the end of the month). From conversation it was clear that some really liked 'stuff', ranging from the latest tech to fashion to interiors stuff to cars etc. and that acquisition was important to them. Others clearly weren't into at all - completely genuinely just not bothered (old phones, old cars, old clothes). Others weren't into it as a point of pride e.g. my old car, despite being able to afford a new one, is a status symbol in itself.

Where do you stand on this?

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Catza · 15/04/2024 15:23

As little stuff as possible. I change my phones every 6 years or so. My car is 14 years old, most of my tech is 8+ years old and I think my mac is approaching teenage years.
I just refuse spending money on stuff, I'd rather pay for a nice day our or for an interesting course. Oh, and books.

TunaCrunchy · 15/04/2024 15:22

I’m really not into stuff, my house is quite minimalist.
I spend my money on eating out, holidays, see friends and other experiences.

SlowlyLurking · 15/04/2024 15:22

I love interiors. I'd say that's where my money goes - decorating, making the house to my taste, lovely candles and textiles etc.

Not interested in the latest tech, fashion etc. Would much rather buy a lovely casserole dish in Homesense or TK Maxx than buy a new jumper.

TokyoSushi · 15/04/2024 15:21

I do quite like 'stuff' - new things make me happy. I also like nice holidays too and prefer to have less, but nicer things.

Some people that I know have quantity over quality, so loads of stuff but maybe not what I would necessarily choose and I know others as extreme as 'I'm not buying any new clothes in 2024.'

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 15/04/2024 15:19

Don’t care

MiddleAgedDread · 15/04/2024 15:19

I'm in the genuinely not bothered camp!