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Liking another girls photos

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Pinkboxglitter · 15/04/2024 08:33

I have been dating a guy now for around 5 months. We are exclusive but taking things slowly.
A couple of months ago, I saw on social media that he had liked a girl (about twenty years younger than him) photos, infact all of them. These included photos of her in a bikini, seductive photos etc.
As you can imagine i wasnt impressed and i raised it with him saying i found this behaviour disrespectful. Turns out its a work colleague and they regularly go out etc...ive never met any of his friends or this person. He said it was good i said my boundaries but it was nothing to worry about. He then deleted social media because it wasnt worth upsetting me, which i found really strange. Anyway, low and behold hes got social media back, liked all her new bikini photos and to make things worse, none of my posts (i feel abit childish for saying this). He says i read to much into social media but i just cant stand being made a fool of.

Am i right to confront and say something? I feel so disrespected and upset.

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MermaidEyes · 15/04/2024 08:49

It's all a bit cringe isn't it? And only 5 months in. I'd be taking every opportunity to comment on hot males when he's around. See how he likes it. Then dump him.

Beezknees · 15/04/2024 08:45

I'd find it very cringe if a 40 year old man was liking bikini photos of a woman 20 years younger.

Pinkboxglitter · 15/04/2024 08:44

Thats true. Im tired lol

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lightmuller · 15/04/2024 08:43

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Pinkboxglitter · 15/04/2024 08:41

Im 30 hes 40

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MiddleagedBeachbum · 15/04/2024 08:36

He’s showing you who he is, and what his priorities are.

Why bother saying anything? I’d just walk away from this man and his behaviour, he will never change so you either accept it, or walk from it, no point being in battles with him about it.