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Sciatica /slipped disc

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Allofaflutter · 14/04/2024 14:29

Posting here for volume of answers.
Yesterday I moved normally and my lower back suddenly felt like it was being compressed and the pain was awful. Since then pain down one leg. The pain is like cramp but the worst cramp ever. Leg is much worse than back.
I have been screaming all night, literally in so much pain I couldn’t help it, worse than child birth. Couldn’t sit, lay or even perch. Even standing which was when it was best, it was at 9 out of 10. Hubby called 111 and paramedics were sent as I had a pulmonary embolism in Jan and I was screaming with the leg pain and he wanted to be sure it wasn’t that again. They told me to take codiene and paracetamol but it’s not doing anything really significant. They said it was sciatica, possible slipped disc causing it. What can I do to calm the pain. Obviously I’ll call dr tomorrow. Can’t take nsaids as I’m on blood thinners for blood clots. I’ve had no sleep either. Can’t use topical creams for the same reason. Anyone had similar? Can anyone tell me what worked for you? Can’t stand for days though I can just about not cry if I stand. Can’t lay to sleep. Help please? I’m exhausted but the pain won’t let me lay or sit. How long will this go on for?

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bombastix · 14/04/2024 23:05

I have had this twice and all I can say is you have my sympathy because the pain is unbelievable and secondly, be very pushy with the NHS on pain relief.

If you are lucky this may resolve in six weeks. But it can be brain bendingly painful so push for drugs, insist, and get the MRI. Keeping warm will also help you avoid tense muscles which can make it worse.

Allofaflutter · 14/04/2024 23:02

Leg feels pins and needles and heavy. Foot feels huge

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Allofaflutter · 14/04/2024 23:01

So had the finger up the bun and needle round my bum and it’s normal. Been given Oromo rpm and diazepam but not working. Not sure if I can get mri today or if it’s going to be another day.

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DuesToTheDirt · 14/04/2024 22:42

weekfour · 14/04/2024 14:39

Can you lie on your front?

It's bloody awful. Or maybe a bath? It doesn't help long term but maybe takes your mind off it a bit. I realise these are shit answers which are probably making you swear but they might help a bit.

Bit late now for the OP as she's at A&E but for anyone else with sciatica I'd be wary of baths - I tried to have one, got in and the pain got even worse as I couldn't find a comfortable position. I also couldn't move to get out without making it worse still; for a while I thought I'd be stuck in the bath.

Jennyjojo5 · 14/04/2024 22:21

Allofaflutter · 14/04/2024 14:40

DH would take me it’s just coping with the extreme pain for 30 mins when I sit to get in car. I couldn’t even sit on loo for 30 secs to pee. I had to pee into a jug.

Oh god I’ve had this multiple times with a degenerative disc in my back. Many times I’ve just had to go into the shower to just stand there and do a wee cos physically impossible to sit on seat; worst pain ever . Hope you feel better soon

ItWillBeDone · 14/04/2024 21:27

Sounds like you're in the right place and finally having the right investigations OP. Good luck with whatever comes next. I've had spinal surgery and was terrified but all went well. I've heard so many success stories too.

Chitterchatterer · 14/04/2024 21:18

OP the paramedics got it wrong. The person I know had no pee or poo problems, but they had cauda equina. As a result of not having pee and poo problems, It took almost three weeks for them to get a drs appt, then go to the hospital, where they were scanned and were then sent through urgently to see a neurologist at a different hospital. All that time of waiting they were at serious risk of permanent disability.

Gcsunnyside23 · 14/04/2024 20:47

Glad you've went to hospital, at least the MRI will give you answers and they can give you some better pain relief

Neverpostagain · 14/04/2024 20:26

Yeah I had this. After about two days the pain disappeared but I was left with permanent numbness and weakness in my right leg. Balance is also really effected, but no pain as the nerve is dead. Sorry you have this x

USaYwHatNow · 14/04/2024 20:22

@Allofaflutter cross posted! Glad you're being seen!!

USaYwHatNow · 14/04/2024 20:21

I had a slipped disc at 16 and was operated on at 18.

My husband had a slipped disc from his service in the military and was generally manageable, but one day he was exactly as you described you have been today. His med centre military GP pumped him full of strong prescription medication and I gave it to him like clockwork for 24 hours, as he cried and rolled around the bed, it was horrendous.

In the end he couldn't stand make it to the toilet and I called an ambulance who gave him gas and air and IV paracetamol and took him in.

After a lot of arguing between the Consultant and I we got him admitted for a few days and he was given pregabalin, tapentadol and oramorph to deal with the pain, then booked in for a root nerve block in order for him to be well enough for us to get married, then when we returned from our honeymoon he went pretty much straight into surgery.

My argument was that they initially gave him tramadol, which had no effect whatsoever and they were still going to send him home. As a health professional myself, I would be negligent if I sent a patient home in that state and I really had to advocate for him.

Sadly we experienced one cock up after another with how the military initially handled the slipped disc when he first presented to the med centre, and he was awarded a five figure sum in compensation.

If you are screaming in pain and need further medication I would urge you to go to A & E at least just to manage the pain until you can see a GP and go through the referral channels.

I feel for you though, it's absolutely shit.

Allofaflutter · 14/04/2024 20:17

Not sure the wait times for mri or results but they are going to give me muscle relaxants. Thank goodness.

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Allofaflutter · 14/04/2024 20:16

So waiting for that. Results will be ages as another hospital reviews the results. Strange I thought.

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Allofaflutter · 14/04/2024 20:15

Now been seen doing a mri

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Sunnysal · 14/04/2024 17:28

Don't let chiropractors near your back. A few are good, many do damage and can leave you unable to walk. Try curling up rather than laying straight .

Bit of a sweeping statement! Mine keeps me working, and got me pain free after two weeks, so speak for yourself.

pelotonaddiction · 14/04/2024 19:13

They will probably do a finger up the bum so don't panic!

Allofaflutter · 14/04/2024 18:56

Work aren’t going to be pleased. Haven’t been back for that long since the pulmonary embolisms ffs! Not my year.

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Allofaflutter · 14/04/2024 18:54

2 hour wait so that’s good. Living rurally does have some pluses fewer people! Car journeys was bareable thankfully. Painful but bareable.

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wheresmyshoe · 14/04/2024 18:29

Huge sympathy, it is excruciating. Diazepam took my back out of spasm but recovery took months and normal movement years. I'm still wary as I never want to feel that again. Wish you well.

abracadabra1980 · 14/04/2024 18:11

Oh bless you-I've been there with a sacroiliac joint and it was horrific. All I could do was lie across the back seat of the car and be driven - and walk with a stick until I got sorted. It took about a year to get better - Pilates was amazing. Drug wise I was on Tramadol, Codeine (I prefer Tramadol during the day as they don't make me sleepy), Codeine at night as that does sedate me mildly, and also Diazepam for the initial spasm. I also took Naproxen but obviously that's out for you. Good luck and please keep us updated.

Allofaflutter · 14/04/2024 18:04

Thanks for all the tips. 111 sent me to hospital for scan. Wet myself and legs feels numb and weird like I’ve got a high heel on. On route now. Car not as bad as it could be to sit in .

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Flowersandforests · 14/04/2024 17:30

Ahh OP you poor thing, sounds awful.

I slipped a disc end of last year. Probably not the best long term, but I found lying half slumped on the sofa was the only way I could get vaguely comfortable. I also found a
hot water bottle helped too - but it needed to be really hot.

I would strongly recommend seeing an Osteopath rather than a physio, the physio made mine worse but Osteo has honestly made the world of difference.

Sunnysal · 14/04/2024 17:28

Don't let chiropractors near your back. A few are good, many do damage and can leave you unable to walk. Try curling up rather than laying straight .

rickyrickygrimes · 14/04/2024 17:23

Tens machine helped me a lot. Also ice - frozen peas. And lying in my front with pillows under my stomach, and head dangling off the bed.

i tried every painkiller mentioned here and the only one that really worked was prednisone (cortisone steroids).

HappyKatieA · 14/04/2024 17:19

The only thing that takes my pain away when like this is ice. I literally have an Ice pack on all the time, we've hit about four that I rotate.
I hope this helps, it's awful pain.

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