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How often do you wash your bedding?

213 replies

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 14/04/2024 07:49

YABU Every 2 weeks

YANBU Once a week.

If you wash your bedding more or less please let me know why.

OP posts:
exomoon · 14/04/2024 09:04

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 14/04/2024 08:53

So if a trade person or neighbour popped in for a cuppa, and they used your towel in the bathroom you would not wash it. Gross.

You know that that towel could be throw into the washing machine with other items, its not on a boil wash by itself.....

You know being rude and virtue signaling does not help your cause, a towel being washed or not is not going to help the planet. Go and protest about China, USA, the UKs emissions are around 4.5% of the world emissions and that is most caused by heavy industry not my hand towel.

It’s not just trade persons though, you’re washing towels after every time someone that visits the guest loo.

You also wash all family towels after every other day.

And clothes after every wear.

You are a MASSIVE DRAIN on the environment.

If everyone thought like you the planet is even more fucked.

Shame on you. NO ONE admires you.

Musiclover234 · 14/04/2024 09:03

Ideally once a week sometimes more like ten days. Because life and long shifts!

Alwaysalwayscold · 14/04/2024 09:02

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 14/04/2024 08:26

Do not admit that you will have a lynch mob after you.

I have been told I am ruining the planet and have mental health issues, all as I like things to be clean.

They've clearly never met a gypsy then 😂

I also change hand towels at the end of every day OP. I think using a towel for a week and leaving it there damp in the bathroom is disgusting so let them lynch me.

Thepeopleversuswork · 14/04/2024 09:00

Generally once a week. Occasionally it slips to once a fortnight.

KvotheTheBloodless · 14/04/2024 09:00

Fortnightly generally, but more frequently of late (night sweats - bloody peri-menopause).

I'm loving that the weather is better and I can dry bedding outdoors, it smells so nice when it's line-dried.

OhBeAFineGuyKissMe · 14/04/2024 09:00

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 14/04/2024 08:54

321... the silly comments start.

So why start the thread?

I care about the environment. I can not control what China or the USA emits but I can alter my own emissions and I choose to do so. If you look at the UK’s emission per person we are quite high up there.

Why do you think a tradesman drying his hand on a towel makes it gross? What do you think is happening on the towel? Your extreme reaction is odd!

I do laundry at the weekend, usually a dark load, a light load and sometimes a red one. Sheets every other week or so, don’t pay particular attention to it. Towels between a week and 2. That is a family of 3 adults. I also use the longer eco setting (which seems to upset a lot of people on here) as it uses both less electricity and less water!

EveSix · 14/04/2024 08:58

Change bedding weekly, but wash bedding fortnightly as alternate clothes washing and textiles, towels, flannels etc as week 1/ 2.
Only one laundry day / week, doing 3-4 loads.

GigiAnnna · 14/04/2024 08:57

Once or twice a week. Once a week for hygiene reasons, ( sweaty husband, baby sick etc) more if I feel like a change of duvet cover. I really like getting into a fresh bed.

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 14/04/2024 08:56

PauliesWalnuts · 14/04/2024 08:50

Do you wash them daily or do you have seven towels, change them daily and wash once a week?

Bed done weekly here due to night hot flushes and we sleep in the nip. Towels changed in the middle of the week as we do sport or cycle commute most days - washed together in a load at the end of the week. There’s just me plus other half who stays a couple of nights a week.

We have 3-4 hand towels that are put into the basket and then washed when there is a whole load.

The hand towel is not washed by itself.

OP posts:
RickyGervaislovesdogs · 14/04/2024 08:55

Once a week.

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 14/04/2024 08:54

321... the silly comments start.

OP posts:
TheSpoonyNavyReader · 14/04/2024 08:53

exomoon · 14/04/2024 08:41

without fail

It is a fail though.

It’s an environmental fail.

It’s a common sense failure.

It’s not admirable or aspiring behaviour.

I’d feel sorry for you but it’s the environment that needs our sympathy.

So if a trade person or neighbour popped in for a cuppa, and they used your towel in the bathroom you would not wash it. Gross.

You know that that towel could be throw into the washing machine with other items, its not on a boil wash by itself.....

You know being rude and virtue signaling does not help your cause, a towel being washed or not is not going to help the planet. Go and protest about China, USA, the UKs emissions are around 4.5% of the world emissions and that is most caused by heavy industry not my hand towel.

OP posts:
PauliesWalnuts · 14/04/2024 08:50

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 14/04/2024 08:30

Hand towels in the downstairs loo or guest bathroom that have guests/visitors/trade people using them are washed everyday without fail.

Do you wash them daily or do you have seven towels, change them daily and wash once a week?

Bed done weekly here due to night hot flushes and we sleep in the nip. Towels changed in the middle of the week as we do sport or cycle commute most days - washed together in a load at the end of the week. There’s just me plus other half who stays a couple of nights a week.

hottchocolatte · 14/04/2024 08:50

Mean to say @exomoon That there needs to be a balance surely between environmental considerations and hygiene

hottchocolatte · 14/04/2024 08:50

@exomoon

I would do the same @Alwaysalwayscold if anyone else has used the towels otherwise I leave hand towels and bath towels a few days

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 14/04/2024 08:50

Closer to 2 weekly. The beds do get aired every day.

hottchocolatte · 14/04/2024 08:48

I need to get out of bed so I can wash the bedding!

hottchocolatte · 14/04/2024 08:48

I aim for weekly but it's often fortnightly however I usually wash the pillows and sheet after a week even if I don't get around to doing the duvet.

Boomer55 · 14/04/2024 08:46

Once a week in Winter, sometimes twice a week in Summer, if it’s not at night.

ViciousCurrentBun · 14/04/2024 08:44

As little as possible, around every three weeks in winter and two in summer. I like doing anything as long as it’s not a domestic chore. I also have a set of clean clothes on the go that turn in to my scruffs for a couple of days for hiking and walking.

I am retired before that I had six years in a nurses uniform, this was in the days of the belts with silver buckles so that was a wash every day. Then smart casual for most of my career.

mondaytosunday · 14/04/2024 08:43

When my husband was alive it was weekly. Now every couple occasionally longer. Should do it today in fact....

exomoon · 14/04/2024 08:41

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 14/04/2024 08:30

Hand towels in the downstairs loo or guest bathroom that have guests/visitors/trade people using them are washed everyday without fail.

without fail

It is a fail though.

It’s an environmental fail.

It’s a common sense failure.

It’s not admirable or aspiring behaviour.

I’d feel sorry for you but it’s the environment that needs our sympathy.

Tumbleweed101 · 14/04/2024 08:37

Between 2 weeks and a month depending on when they seem to need changing. I’m the only one in the bed and pets are banned from the room. My daughter does hers weekly because she lets the dog up with her.

QueSyrahSyrah · 14/04/2024 08:35

When we had a double, usually once a week.

Now we are staying somewhere temporarily that has a Superking it's once a fortnight as a) it doesn't all fit in the machine in one go, b) I don't have space to hang it all to dry in one go and c) I'm heavily pregnant and feel like I need two weeks to recover from putting the sodding duvet cover back on, even with DH's help!

When the weather is warmer so we're sweatier and it will dry faster I'll try to up it to weekly again.

SpongeBob2022 · 14/04/2024 08:32

Once every 2 weeks.

It would be more frequent if I didn't wear pyjamas. I think once a week is fine too, though.

If you look online I think there'll be guidance that really it should be once a week or maximum every two. With towels it's recommended 3-4 uses, I think (I don't do this though). I think what this shows is that after every use is just not needed, but equally perhaps most people 'should' wash towels more than they do. But what is it that people think will happen if you don't...there are millions of people washing less frequently than what would be considered hygienic, but nothing bad is happening to them because of it!