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How often do you wash your bedding?

213 replies

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 14/04/2024 07:49

YABU Every 2 weeks

YANBU Once a week.

If you wash your bedding more or less please let me know why.

OP posts:
TipsyKoala · 14/04/2024 09:57

Once a month or when I remember. Actually I’ve changed them today because your post reminded me 😁 . Actually I’ve read your other posts OP and although we’re poles apart on our approach to these things, I say each to their own. You received a pile on for your previous post and you took it in a really good natured way, I don’t think you deserved so much shit. Just do you.

Infectiousdisease · 14/04/2024 09:55

Alwaysalwayscold · 14/04/2024 09:02

They've clearly never met a gypsy then 😂

I also change hand towels at the end of every day OP. I think using a towel for a week and leaving it there damp in the bathroom is disgusting so let them lynch me.

No one is saying leave it damp and stinky for a week though, you are being deliberately obtuse

Infectiousdisease · 14/04/2024 09:53

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 14/04/2024 08:30

Hand towels in the downstairs loo or guest bathroom that have guests/visitors/trade people using them are washed everyday without fail.

It's unbelievable. What in God's name do you think will happen if you don't wash them every 2 minutes?

It's a total environmental fail yes. You clearly don't give a hoot.

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 14/04/2024 09:49

exomoon · 14/04/2024 09:36

Sounds like OP has little else going on in her life than washing barely used things and starting countless threads on MN about barely used things.

I have lots going on with life, hobbies, going out with friends, washing takes less than 5 minutes to put on but that fact that you respond in a sneering way on a thread you don't like says that you need more of a life.

Move on if you if you don't like it.

Countless threads, 3 not countless......

OP posts:
Happycow · 14/04/2024 09:48

Id like to say fortnightly, but honestly if its monthly im happy. I always wear t-shirt at night, and am single. I change pillow cases weekly. And do change the bedding more often in summer.

YeahComeOnThen · 14/04/2024 09:45

exomoon · 14/04/2024 09:36

Sounds like OP has little else going on in her life than washing barely used things and starting countless threads on MN about barely used things.

And look, you're here too so I'm guess you have little going on in your life?

your post was horrid & unnecessary.

Mischance · 14/04/2024 09:40

Once a month. I am widowed, so no nights of wild passion. I wear pyjamas which soak up any sweat. I am trying to avoid using the washing machine as much as possible to save the planet.

Those who wash sheets frequently because of germs are carrying those germs around with them all the time anyway - they are meant to be there.

IrritatedB3dM4ker · 14/04/2024 09:40

Alwaysalwayscold · 14/04/2024 08:10

Every Monday.

And FWIW I also wash towels after every use OP.

That's very wasteful - why is it necessary?

YeahComeOnThen · 14/04/2024 09:39

Iusedtobeapenguin · 14/04/2024 09:30

Am I the only person who doesn't have a routine for this kind of thing? I haven't got a clue what day I last changed the bedsheets, just that I do it when I think they need it 🤷‍♀️

@Iusedtobeapenguin

i don't have a 'routine', I go by the weather, I can get them out on the line pretty much year around and it's a bit of a wind tunnel. Even if not bone dry it gets most of the water out and I finish them on the airer.

I just pick the best drying looking day & do them between 4 & 8 days. It just happens, no rota.

so once a week in winter & twice a week in summer (Sometimes more if really hot. Duvet usually sits folded on the chair all summer, so it's just sheets & pillow cases. the mattress protector maybe once a month in summer every spontaneously on a good drying day in winter!

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 14/04/2024 09:37

OhBeAFineGuyKissMe · 14/04/2024 09:00

So why start the thread?

I care about the environment. I can not control what China or the USA emits but I can alter my own emissions and I choose to do so. If you look at the UK’s emission per person we are quite high up there.

Why do you think a tradesman drying his hand on a towel makes it gross? What do you think is happening on the towel? Your extreme reaction is odd!

I do laundry at the weekend, usually a dark load, a light load and sometimes a red one. Sheets every other week or so, don’t pay particular attention to it. Towels between a week and 2. That is a family of 3 adults. I also use the longer eco setting (which seems to upset a lot of people on here) as it uses both less electricity and less water!

If you look at the population per head we are about 24th in the world and a lot lower than the Netherlands.

OP posts:
exomoon · 14/04/2024 09:36

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 14/04/2024 09:08

OP you've now started a number of threads breaking down each of your cleaning behaviours to try and garner support you didn't get in your original thread, the cumulative effect of your habits and product consumption was what drew comments in the original thread, you're not giving people the whole picture in each of the individual threads, 12 toilet rolls a week, the volume of shower gel and shampoo etc, which is what people were commenting on and what your own husband thinks is excessive in addition to the utilities cost, glad to hear you're cutting down the washing and no one has died of dysentry yet.

Sounds like OP has little else going on in her life than washing barely used things and starting countless threads on MN about barely used things.

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 14/04/2024 09:34

Alwaysalwayscold · 14/04/2024 09:02

They've clearly never met a gypsy then 😂

I also change hand towels at the end of every day OP. I think using a towel for a week and leaving it there damp in the bathroom is disgusting so let them lynch me.

I am with you, we can be lynched together.

OP posts:
Iusedtobeapenguin · 14/04/2024 09:30

Am I the only person who doesn't have a routine for this kind of thing? I haven't got a clue what day I last changed the bedsheets, just that I do it when I think they need it 🤷‍♀️

Nannyfannybanny · 14/04/2024 09:30

Duvet,sheet, pillow cases weekly. (Yes, the dog sometimes sneaks on the bed) Duvet and pillows,mattress cover.a few times a year, already done them once this year.

Lavender14 · 14/04/2024 09:21

Monthly in winter
Fortnightly in summer

We both shower before bed so are going to bed clean and we're not overly sweaty people. If they need done sooner then I do them sooner.

We have a small house and no tumble dryer so to wash more than that monthly would really affect my general laundry routine and I'd fall behind. In summer when I can get sheets on the line it's so much easier to get them dried quickly. Also try to reduce water wastage.

YeahComeOnThen · 14/04/2024 09:21

Alwaysalwayscold · 14/04/2024 09:02

They've clearly never met a gypsy then 😂

I also change hand towels at the end of every day OP. I think using a towel for a week and leaving it there damp in the bathroom is disgusting so let them lynch me.

@Alwaysalwayscold

why are your towels damp?

I hang mine on the towel rail & they're dry by my next shower (if daily) when showering again the same day, if it's not yet dry I'll get a fresh towel & alternate Until they all go in the wash.

no need to put the damp one in the washing

do you air your bathroom?

Waitingfordoggo · 14/04/2024 09:18

Once a week. Would probably do fortnightly but the dog sleeps on our bed so weekly it is.

SittingBackAndWatchingTheClowns · 14/04/2024 09:18

I like to do mine twice a week - not because I'm sweaty, but I love getting into a fresh bed. My sister-in-law does hers once every 3 weeks, which I think is grim.

Beginningless · 14/04/2024 09:17

I commented this on another thread recently. I love how MN opens my eyes to how different people are. It seems that many people are very preoccupied with hygiene. I just don’t think like you do OP! And that’s ok. But the idea that my neighbour using my hand towel is ‘gross’ - I don’t get that.

I wash hand towels more often than body towels due to hygiene but never on a premise that a normal healthy person touching them is ‘gross’.

I wash bedding when it starts to feel like it needs it in my mind! Sometimes that’s after a few days if someone ill, sweaty or spillage, sometimes it’s a month. Towels about weekly. And - gasp - our family all share them. I know that is scandalous for many of you but we survive it somehow.

ObliviousCoalmine · 14/04/2024 09:12

Probably not often enough. We're still alive.

Headabovetheparapets · 14/04/2024 09:11

Ifailed · 14/04/2024 08:06

once a year, whether it needs it or not.

What even in a leap year!!🤣

TheCatOnTheBedIsAllMineAllMine · 14/04/2024 09:09

ErnestCelendine · 14/04/2024 07:58

Aim for weekly, sometimes this slips to fortnightly.

Same x

shoppingshamed · 14/04/2024 09:09

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 14/04/2024 08:14

Because of another thread that seems was just filled with people with one opinion, where people were getting themselves in a twist, using hysterical language. I was out for dinner with friends and it seemed my habits were usual.

Hope that helps.

Have you got some kind of laundry obsession, who discusses washing on a night out and what kind of persin gives two hoots about anyone else's bedding?

Don't waste your life on this

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 14/04/2024 09:08

OP you've now started a number of threads breaking down each of your cleaning behaviours to try and garner support you didn't get in your original thread, the cumulative effect of your habits and product consumption was what drew comments in the original thread, you're not giving people the whole picture in each of the individual threads, 12 toilet rolls a week, the volume of shower gel and shampoo etc, which is what people were commenting on and what your own husband thinks is excessive in addition to the utilities cost, glad to hear you're cutting down the washing and no one has died of dysentry yet.

Tereseta · 14/04/2024 09:07

Honestly every few months...