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How often do you wash your bedding?

213 replies

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 14/04/2024 07:49

YABU Every 2 weeks

YANBU Once a week.

If you wash your bedding more or less please let me know why.

OP posts:
sobercuriouskind · 15/04/2024 22:44

A couple of times a week. My medication and being perimenopausal means I sweat a lot. I have to shower morning and night and wear clean pjs each night too for the same reason.

nothingsforgotten · 15/04/2024 22:23

hottchocolatte · 15/04/2024 09:30

I am curious about using a top sheet. It would be easier to wash!

what are the downsides?

None that I'm aware of. I don't live in the UK and people usually use two sheets here, in fact most sheets are sold in packs of two, one fitted and one flat. Having to constantly take a duvet cover off, wash it, then put it back on sounds like utter madness to me.

theteddybear · 15/04/2024 15:28

In winter more like every 3weeks (I aim for 2 weeks doesn't happen often) it's such a hassle trying to dry sheets/duvets. I end up with them draped over chairs in dining room or play room. In summer more every 1-2 weeks as it's easy to dry them outside.

kitsuneghost · 15/04/2024 14:07

Bigearringsbigsmile · 15/04/2024 10:24

Trust me, after 3 months, it smells, regardless of who you are

How would you possibly know this
Do you visit people and sneak into their bedroom to sniff the bedsheets
How many have you done this to in the aid of research
Do you have spreadsheet of friends beds whiffiness to when they last changed the bed sheets

BlackStrayCat · 15/04/2024 12:47

Towels and pillow cases once a week.
Sheets once a month in winter. Once a week in summer.
I sleep on my own and do not get into bed dirty.

Do whats best for you.

Towels once a day is nuts. Utter waste of time.

SabreIsMyFave · 15/04/2024 12:44

Bigearringsbigsmile · 15/04/2024 10:24

Trust me, after 3 months, it smells, regardless of who you are

Yeah this ... I don't really like the 'competitive cleanliness,' that you get on these types of threads, and I think washing the bedding every 4 - 7 days (as a few people have said,) is a bit much. I can't imagine anybody needing to do it that often, unless it's very, very hot and they're sweating a lot. And washing towels once a day? WTF? Who does that? Confused No-one I know!

But the other end of the scale is batshit. Only washing your bedding every 3 months? Really?! That is actually gross. There's no way in hell that the bedding won't stink after that amount of time ... No matter what time of year it is, and no matter who you are/what age/what weight etc...

I know this word's overused on Mumsnet, but it is actually grim to only wash your bedding* *four times a year. God, it must stink by then. 😬

thepastinsidethepresent · 15/04/2024 12:36

OP, personally I think the towel-washing is excessive too, but that aside (and I don't mean this to sound snidey) you're defending your choices so robustly that it appears they're working for you... so maybe just own your choices and don't bother what anyone else thinks? I mean, if you ask for opinions you're going to get them... just saying.

crockofshite · 15/04/2024 11:26

SpamFritterSandwich · 15/04/2024 08:21

And they say feminism is dead. What a depressing thread,....

What's the connection between clean sheets and feminism? Aren't feminists allowed to want clean linen?

SpamFritterSandwich · 15/04/2024 10:53

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 15/04/2024 10:17

And yet you commented on it.

I started this thread to ask a question because a group of women on her belittled and judged me, hence the question hope that helps.

Why wouldn't I be allowed to comment?

K0OLA1D · 15/04/2024 10:46

About every 10 or so days for ours. Kids around 3 weeks ish. Sometimes more in summer, or nice weather.

Have started washing DS1s more around 2 week mark as he's almost a teen.

bowlingalleyblues · 15/04/2024 10:45

Every couple of months.

I wear pyjamas and change them regularly, the sheets don't smell. Or at least they don't to me and I'm the only one smelling them.

Blarn · 15/04/2024 10:41

Once a week and sometimes I change the bottom sheet during the week too if it is warm. Only because I am a very sweaty sleeper! I've tried going two weeks but I could smell the sweat Blush

In summer when it is very hot and dh is on nights I might change it twice a week because between the two of us it is being slept in constantly.

gonegrl · 15/04/2024 10:32

When I was at uni I gifted my (then) boyfriend a duvet, as his was rubbish. Sent it with white bedding for the whole bed. About 10 months later I pulled back the duvet to see a brown smear all down the centre of the bed. I asked when the last time he had washed the bedding was... he said never 🤢🤢

gonegrl · 15/04/2024 10:27

I use my bedding two nights before it gets washed. I get really bad night sweats though, so it gets a bit smelly quickly. If I left it two weeks or even a week the whole bedroom would reek...

Bigearringsbigsmile · 15/04/2024 10:24

exomoon · 15/04/2024 08:36

Some people just don’t smell.

If you do, then that’s you.

Trust me, after 3 months, it smells, regardless of who you are

TheSpoonyNavyReader · 15/04/2024 10:17

SpamFritterSandwich · 15/04/2024 08:21

And they say feminism is dead. What a depressing thread,....

And yet you commented on it.

I started this thread to ask a question because a group of women on her belittled and judged me, hence the question hope that helps.

OP posts:
EBearhug · 15/04/2024 09:37

hottchocolatte · 15/04/2024 09:30

I am curious about using a top sheet. It would be easier to wash!

what are the downsides?

It can get tangled, especially if you're the sort of person who cocoons themselves in their duvet. Otherwise, it's the same as hotels, or using sheet + eiderdown/blankets used to be, before duvets became common.

hottchocolatte · 15/04/2024 09:30

I am curious about using a top sheet. It would be easier to wash!

what are the downsides?

Toasted · 15/04/2024 09:27

Janetime · 15/04/2024 09:19

I don’t get folks pointing out they shower before bed, so? You sweat in your sleep, shed skin. It also attracts dust mites and bacteria, you don’t launder your bedding as you don’t shower before bed,

Well the reason I said it was for context in terms of cleanliness, not to suggest that people only launder their bedding as they don’t shower before bed. I may sweat in my sleep (although not noticeably), and so wash my pjs regularly, but I’m willing to risk any shed skin that might remain after my shower and towel dry.

PrincessHoneysuckle · 15/04/2024 09:27

Once a week,twice in summer

EBearhug · 15/04/2024 09:20

Clothes…I used to change them each day but I now consider the environment and get a strange thrill out of wearing them as many times as I can before washing…

I mostly change them every day, but I'll hang them to air rather than washing them before wearing them again (unless they are actually dirty, like yesterday's trousers have mud on them.)

Janetime · 15/04/2024 09:19

I don’t get folks pointing out they shower before bed, so? You sweat in your sleep, shed skin. It also attracts dust mites and bacteria, you don’t launder your bedding as you don’t shower before bed,

Toasted · 15/04/2024 09:15

Bedding- around once a month…I come to bed clean after a quick shower! Towels, keep the same two all week and hang them to dry then wash weekly. Clothes…I used to change them each day but I now consider the environment and get a strange thrill out of wearing them as many times as I can before washing…this depends on whether I’m working from home or out, or I consider if I’ve been on public transport etc. Each to their own I guess but perhaps this thread could invite people to consider if they really do need to wash their clothes/towels/bedding quite as often - less detergent, less water usage, electric etc

exomoon · 15/04/2024 08:36

Bigearringsbigsmile · 14/04/2024 23:07

🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
Doesn't it SMELL?

Some people just don’t smell.

If you do, then that’s you.

theduchessofspork · 15/04/2024 08:28

SpamFritterSandwich · 15/04/2024 08:21

And they say feminism is dead. What a depressing thread,....

Oooohh give over