Mine isn’t too bad when it’s just me. If someone else - mostly dad but anyone really - is around, he’s horrible to me.
Mostly he ignores me if I ask a question. I have to keep asking to get a response.
The ignoring me is really a problem, today for instance we were on a green and I said to him that we’d just quickly go to the toilets and he just walked off and kept walking. I was following him repeatedly saying his name. Touched his shoulder and he shouted ‘get OFF me.’ He often shouts this or ‘stop it mummy’ if I hold his hand or whatever.
He snatches things, pulls my hair and speaks to me like shit. I don’t expect perfect manners at this age obviously but it really gets me down.
I don’t know where I’ve gone wrong, I speak nicely to him and others. I do correct him and discipline him but it’s hard as he doesn’t really care about much and the firmer you get the more defiant he becomes, just laughs at you 