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Unexpectedly single - should I go on a cruise on my own?

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Leavingbyebye · 13/04/2024 17:29

As above, have had a special trip planned for a couple of years but H and I have split up and I will either lose quite a bit of money or have to rebook for something of greater value

I’m generally happy enough in my own company but with the formality of dinners etc I’m really unsure about going solo and whether I would feel awkward.

I am mid 40s and the trip is for 7 nights, couple of stops but mainly at sea. The weather should be good. I’ve never been on a cruise before but it’s one of the prestige operators who appeal to an older demographic (rather than families etc)

I’m really at a loss as to what to do. Any honest advice or experience?

Thank you
lonesome cruiser

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InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 13/04/2024 17:32

My partners mum goes on a cruise or 2 on her own every year, loads of people do, and she always makes friends really quickly.

I wouldn't hesitate to go alone.

nocoolnamesleft · 13/04/2024 17:32

I've been cruising solo for over 20 years. And would heartily recommend it.

JMSA · 13/04/2024 17:32

Seriously though, I'd do it in a heartbeat if I were you. I'm really sorry about your split, and hope you're ok Flowers

mrsbyers · 13/04/2024 17:31

There will probably be loads of other single passengers , they might be elderly but great company

JamSandle · 13/04/2024 17:31

I would go :)

JMSA · 13/04/2024 17:30

Right, give me the dates and I'll let you know if I'm free Grin

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