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To leave and live my last moments in Spain

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CocoBellaSparkle · 13/04/2024 16:35

Hi my friends
I am nearly 40 and now dying of incurable ‘c’

former hard working career .. lost house and my debts are nearly £100k through the fat evil monster

Put my kids through the best education .. trips abroad, dream holidays

n fortunately oldest has become dad no 2
Broke my nose .. chases me (I could write a book)

my question is

and my vision is going as I’m dying my mortgage in Buckhurst Hill was £1k a month and now my private rent for a small apartment in Chelmsford is £1800 a month

should I get a one way ticket to the sunshine?

OP posts:
fieldsofbutterflies · 13/04/2024 16:42

How will you get a Visa and finance your stay?

I'm sorry you're so unwell but I don't think this will be possible Sad

YourSnugHazelTraybake · 13/04/2024 16:41

Sorry to say op but with that level of debt you're unlikely to get through the entry requirements for residence ☹️

KTheGrey · 13/04/2024 16:39

I am sorry to hear you are so ill.

It depends on the finances and treatment options. If you can afford to rent/live in Spain, and can access whatever treatment you will need, absolutely go.

Perhaps it's worth going for a holiday anyway. 🌹

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