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Prostitute checked into our hotel!

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GrumpyL · 13/04/2024 15:13

Ok, so away in London for a couple of days with DH and DD (10). We were staying in a 4* Hotel which is part of a large chain of hotels, not a small independent. We went to reception about 10.30 on the 2nd morning and was met with a lady (who was very obviously a prostitute) being told her room would be ready in 5 mins and her handing over £100 in cash to the receptionist. The hotel is £250+ a night and check in is 3pm!

AIBU to this this made the hotel feel a bit icky and sleazy after I saw that? Husband and I spoke briefly when DD wasn’t listening and he said “well they have to work somewhere!”. Not sure if I’m turning into a prude in my old age, but I really didn’t feel comfortable in the hotel after I saw that. I’m sure for her, it was a safe and comfortable place to work and I know this goes on in hotels, I suppose just seeing it in broad daylight shocked me a bit. We knew what she was there for, the receptionist knew what she was there for, the man behind us in the queue knew what she was there for, maybe I thought she and the hotel should have been a bit more discreet if they allow this to go on in their hotel, especially when it’s a family friendly hotel and there were a lot of children around?

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beAsensible1 · 13/04/2024 15:19

all of this is an assumption made on the snap shot of a situation. Let it go and enjoy your weekend, the weather’s lovely.

Muthaofcats · 13/04/2024 15:19

*sex worker

and would you prefer she worked on the street?

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 13/04/2024 15:19

I’m intrigued too. How did you know?

Sirzy · 13/04/2024 15:18

You never know what goes on behind closed doors!

unless they are doing it in the middle of reception then how does it impact on you?

GodZilah · 13/04/2024 15:18

Also prostitution related or not that hotel room will be covered in jizz regardless.

EffortlesslyInelegant · 13/04/2024 15:17

Oh give over ffs 🙄You didn't KNOW any of these things. At all. And what's the 'family friendly' got to do with anything? Was she selling her goods to them at half price for under 10s?

GodZilah · 13/04/2024 15:17

YANBU

She shouldn't be there!! Families too! She should go somewhere secluded and risk being murdered so you don't feel uncomfortable

🙃

fieldsofbutterflies · 13/04/2024 15:17

How do you know she was a prostitute? Was she wearing a badge?

It's quite common for rooms to be rented during the day for various reasons - sleeping between flights, for example.

namechange1986 · 13/04/2024 15:16

How do you know it was £100? How do you know she was a prostitute?

Rosesanddaisies1 · 13/04/2024 15:15

YABU. it probably happens at most hotels most nights. It’s not like they’re “working” in the reception. Hope you’re not finding the rest of London as shocking 😂

LittleSparklyStar · 13/04/2024 15:15

How do you know she’s a prostitute? Not being goady about it, just intrigued how you knew!

SevenSeasOfRhye · 13/04/2024 15:15

Why are you so confident she was a prostitute?