Prostitute checked into our hotel!

It still isn't 'very obvious' to me, sorry. Please explain in more detail what prostitutes wear and look like, and maybe also how you know this?

I used to live in the red light district of a big city. The prostitutes there wore jeans and tshirts.

I don't understand why the prostitute would be paying for the room - it would be the john.

Also £250 for a family room in central London is super cheap. A friend recently paid that for Kings X Premier inn double room.

It is very rare to go into any bar in any 5 star hotel in London and there not be sex workers there. Not sure why it would be a surprise

(lots of hotels do have day rooms- all the Hyatts and Hiltons for example)

But the ‘method’ surely wouldn’t even achieve much, surely unless the hole was very narrow, I was going to suggest shagging a pillow, but then I got brain vomit and I don’t like this at all anymore.

@twilightcafe Yep! The duty manager called him. He obviously realised he'd been found out, panicked and told them to take as much as they wanted off the credit card on file before hanging up. They replaced the whole sofa.

I used to work in a naice hotel and one Male guest dug a hole in one of the sofa seat cushions, filled it with shower gel and fucked it.

@FoleyHuck 😳😳

Thirty years ago when I was having an affair, we would book into a hotel at 3pm and check out at 5pm the same day. Maybe that was her reason too.

How? They don't have a sign flashing over their heads. The ones I know blend into the background and you wouldn't look twice at them. They are normal women dressed appropriately to fit into the environment they are in.

Actually it’s using the term ‘clutching pearls’ to insult someone who objects to exploitation and abuse that is terribly Mumsnet.

It’s fantastically naïve to think the reason you have given is the reason why there has been a move to normalize the use of sex worker over prostitute. If the reason you have given were correct, there would also not have been the drive to sneer at people who use prostitute as being ‘old fashioned’ or ‘archaic’. Think about it. Why the need for the contempt and demonization, if the reason was the one you gave?

Men can be prostitutes too, btw.

Because the etymology of the word "prostitute" means to be publicly exposed and sold.

I had sex in a hotel this morning, the room, not the reception. You’ll be hard pushed to find a sex free or a sex worker free hotel. Its just sex, its not like theres a Dexter style murder going on next door.

Hotels also offer safety, some sex workers will pick the same/a small number of hotels, this forms a relationship with the staff who can assist them where needed etc.

Day and hourly rates are also very common now, when our office was shut during covid and rentable work places were all full I sometimes rented a local hotel for a few hours to get some work done.

I’m sure she’d be equally as uncomfortable with the hotel renting rooms to judgemental people like you. You didn’t make good choices, OP. You had good choices. Be careful up there.

Describe what she was wearing so we can all judge her?

Honestly, it's pretty hot in London today and I've seen plenty of women walking around with revealing clothes just in the park ... I couldn't tell if any were working

London is the place that anyone can wear anything and it's not that unusual... a small village perhaps you'd have a clearer picture by dress of what someone is up to but London ... fuck knows how you'd tell

I think you need to check out dayuse.com. It's very popular for sex workers to book a room out for the day, I work in housekeeping and we have regular girls come in that we watch out for to make sure they are safe. You wouldn't even know if they are sex workers just by looking at them, they don't come in dressed in suspenders and knee high boots 🙄

Another reason which MN won't like is people use these rooms when they are having affairs, we can spot them a mile off because they act so shifty.

Sex workers operate in many many 'nice' hotels. It happens a lot.

What? Why the stare? Why did you feel bad?

You've missed some info here. Were they in the next room and were you banging up against the connecting door all night? Did you ride him into the breakfast room? Did you both come down naked and smeared in sweat and other... fluids?

Otherwise what are you on about?

'Fifty bucks, grandpa. For seventy-five the wife can watch.'

I used to work in a naice hotel and one Male guest dug a hole in one of the sofa seat cushions, filled it with shower gel and fucked it.

On balance everyone (housekeeping particularly) would rather he'd employed the services of a sex worker. The concierge could have pointed him in the right direction had he enquired.

It goes on OP. Everywhere and all the time. Although I'm intrigued as to how you were so certain based on the Woman's style of dress.

(As an aside, hotel day lets are common and booked for all sorts of reasons).

its a hotel, sex is going to come in all forms!

Op are you sure you are not just annoyed she got a better rate than you if she only had to pay 100

This is a perfect example to use to teach your daughter the best life lesson: Minding your own business. So what to do with all your worry, concern and judgement?? Nothing. How do you move on in life having experienced this moment?? Nothing.

See, it's such a refreshing realisation when you understand that others in the world have their own lives which has absolutely nothing to do with yours.

The woman may have had a big night out and decided she needed sleep rather than to try and get home. In which case she may have already done a drunken walk of shame from wherever she had been and had the courage to walk up to the hotel reception. Sounds sensible.

Calm down pearl clutcher! Is she bothering you? No. She may be looking at you with her own thoughts...

She then exclaimed " well colour me happy, there's a sofa in here for two!" when the lift arrived.
Totally classless.

Do you know what 5 star London hotels keep near reception?

Even Harrods has a basement full of sex toys.