Prostitute checked into our hotel!

Hard agree. Sex worker has been pushed to make the sexual exploitation of women seem normal and just like any other job. Fuck that.

I use the term prostitute because I object to the term sex worker, which has been adopted for political reasons to make an inherently exploitative business seem mainstream. Trafficking and abuse of women iin prostitution is common. There has been research in countries were prostitution is fully legalized and ‘above board’ which has shown that the prostituted women there have as high, or higher, levels of disassociation from their own bodies than child sex abuse victims. And even for the small minority of high earning prostitutes who can choose a small number of clients they are safe with and freely do choose that work, I still object to prostitution as I have a strong principled objection to a society where men are able to buy intimate access to women’s bodies. That is something that I strongly believe no one should be able to purchase.

So away with your sneering about old fashioned. I’d rather have looked into and thought about issues and make my decisions based on that, rather than on what’s ‘fashionable’.

Could you imagine actually just wanting a soft pillow and then a prostitute turning up?!

😂😂😂😂

really OP was she wearing her suspenders and nipples tassels holding a dildo in the reception area?

People use prostitutes in hotels all the time.

I used to stay regularly in a very expensive upmarket hotel for work. The concierge told me that there were code words for 'additional services' guests might want.

Apparently if you rang reception and asked for 'a soft pillow' the concierge would procure you a prostitution from a reputable source.

Fecking grim if you ask me, but sadly, commonplace.

Some of you sound quite sheltered. It's obvious prostitutes are prostitutes.

She paid £100 as she counted it out in £10 notes as she gave it to the receptionist. I don’t want to get into a discussion about you shouldn’t judge a women by what she was wearing etc, let’s just say it was very obvious that she was a prostitute hiring room for the day. This was 10.30am in the morning, not the night.

She paid £100 as she counted it out in £10 notes as she gave it to the receptionist. I don’t want to get into a discussion about you shouldn’t judge a women by what she was wearing etc, let’s just say it was very obvious that she was a prostitute hiring room for the day. This was 10.30am in the morning, not the night.

@boozeclues stop saying sex work is rape. They are not the same thing. Venture over to AMA where there are many many sex workers who consensually agree to being paid for sex. Sex for money is not rape.

@boozeclues stop saying sex work is rape. They are not the same thing. Venture over to AMA where there are many many sex workers who consensually agree to being paid for sex. Sex for money is not rape.

Nope, I mean I have no clue what my partner did before I met him, but if he is paying for sex now I don’t know where he would find the time or the money!!

My brother is as tight as it comes and I wouldn’t imagine him paying for something he could get for free with his partner or any girlfriend he had.

And my son is 10 and he has been brought up
to respect women, if he did this in the future I would disown him if I ever found out, not that is likely to happen because again,

PAYING FOR SEX IS NOT NORMAL. It’s not a boys will be boys thing, it’s an exception to the norm. If you know people who have or do pay for sex you need to evaluate your relations with them.

Ok, so away in London for a couple of days with DH and DD (10). We were staying in a 4* Hotel which is part of a large chain of hotels, not a small independent. We went to reception about 10.30 on the 2nd morning and was met with a lady (who was very obviously a prostitute) being told her room would be ready in 5 mins and her handing over £100 in cash to the receptionist. The hotel is £250+ a night and check in is 3pm!

AIBU to this this made the hotel feel a bit icky and sleazy after I saw that? Husband and I spoke briefly when DD wasn’t listening and he said “well they have to work somewhere!”. Not sure if I’m turning into a prude in my old age, but I really didn’t feel comfortable in the hotel after I saw that. I’m sure for her, it was a safe and comfortable place to work and I know this goes on in hotels, I suppose just seeing it in broad daylight shocked me a bit. We knew what she was there for, the receptionist knew what she was there for, the man behind us in the queue knew what she was there for, maybe I thought she and the hotel should have been a bit more discreet if they allow this to go on in their hotel, especially when it’s a family friendly hotel and there were a lot of children around?

You have very low expectations of you husband

I expect it was when the OPs husband said “Hello, Lola, didn’t expect to see you here. How are things? Tried to call you last week but it went to voicemail.”

I'm also interested to know what marked her out as a prostitute.

Ignorance is bliss.

I wouldn't like it OP. I would send an email to the manager of the hotel. If it's cash, someone might be doing something that's not going through 'the books'. If it was a 4 star hotel I'm pretty sure that renting it out for prostitution isn't a standard business decision.