Prostitute checked into our hotel!

People have noisy sex in hotels whether they're paying for it or not

Haven’t stayed in many hotels have you.

A few years ago my granddaughter was taking part in a beauty pageant in the the midlands.She went with her friend, who was not taking part, and as both girls were n their late teens I went with them mostly to keep an eye on what went on.
The pageant was taking place in a large hotel and need a two night stay.As the big hotel was fully booked for rooms we stayed in one in the grounds which was part of a budget hotel group.The receptionist on duty eyed us very suspiciously all the time,mostly when we came in at night and when leaving in the morning.In fact she almost fell off her chair craning her neck at night when we were going upstairs to see if we were sneaking men in.
We got the impression we were being watched all the time.There were families with young children staying, so I supposed they were being very careful.
The three of us had a good laugh about it on the way home. Especially myself who was in my early seventies being thought of as a lady of the night.

How did you know? Was it the red fishnets that gave it away?

People do all sorts of things in hotel rooms that we might not like to know about! Prostitution is probably one of the most mundane.

The receptionist is obviously letting the room out on the side. Report to management.
I would not be happy with my hotel being used as a brothel and she clearly wasn't being discreet.

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Our children are adults. They are his next of kin and have had to deal with police/ coroner/ probate/ funeral. They have phoned/ come round to their mum ( me) for cups of tea a lot when they have needed to off load what they have been told by the police/ found out from dealing with his affairs. Doesn't matter how old you are, sometimes you need your mum.

Thank you.

Go home then OP

@AngelinaFibres Sorry to hear that. How did you learn of these details?

’They’re hardly rapists if they’re paying good money for it’ Wow. I’ve heard some pig ignorant bollocks in my life but this goes above and beyond. Have you got any idea how many women are forced into prostitution? Have you ever spoken to a victim of trafficking? What they have inflicted on them many times a day is always rape. Always. And let’s not pretend that the men who pay to rape them don’t know about it. Every adult in the UK knows about victims of trafficking being forced to work as prostitutes. They know that there is a very large chance that they are paying to rape someone. There’s an equally large chance that they are taking advantage of a woman who finds herself in a desperate situation and has no other option. They know this and they simply don’t care.

Personally, I think the OP is being insane. But don’t make out like these men are morally sound, thoroughly decent blokes. Because they aren’t.

I'm disgusted. I don't stay at hotels to have sex. I would be disgusted to have to sleep.in a bed where people have had sex. I don't care if they are married. I should not have to be subjected to the idea of people having sex. I hope you and your husband didn't have sex in the hotel, or even within 72 hours of arrival. Don't deny it. I can tell.

My friends husband was a very attentive son and visited his father very frequently. It involved an overnight stay. She assumed he was staying with his father. He wasn't. He booked the same Premier Inn everytime and was visited by a sex worker the evening he arrived. Sometimes she stayed all night to service his needs again before checkout.
My exhusband attempted suicide in a Travel lodge and the cutting of his wrists made a huge mess in the bathroom. That was several years ago. He succeeded in killing himself a few weeks ago. That was in a Double tree Hilton. He used pills and huge amounts of alcohol. The mess in the bathroom was horrendous as his stomach ulcer burst at the same time. Honestly Op people do all kinds of things in hotels and a lot of it involves bodily fluids. If you dwell too much on what's gone on you'd never stay in one.

but you can hire a room for a few hours. it’s not dodgy. i arrive at heathrow at 730am and my onward flight is not until 430pm. i can rent a hotel room at the “day rate” from 9am to 5pm and have a shower, sleep and room service. it’s a thing.

You had a much better day than me schlepping around kids sporting activities not jealous at all

I'm surprised you didn't add the other hackneyed MN phrase " and no one bats an eyelid"

The "sex work" vested interests have clearly done good work on you that so can be so casually blasé about exploitation.

"day use" is mostly for sex with mistress or prostitute. 1 in 100 will pay for room to have a shower and a nap before flight.

@theduchessofspork I fully apologise if that's what it was! I was on the fence with the post but might have taken it the wrong way.

I use the term prostitute because I object to the term sex worker, which has been adopted for political reasons to make an inherently exploitative business seem mainstream. Trafficking and abuse of women iin prostitution is common. There has been research in countries were prostitution is fully legalized and ‘above board’ which has shown that the prostituted women there have as high, or higher, levels of disassociation from their own bodies than child sex abuse victims. And even for the small minority of high earning prostitutes who can choose a small number of clients they are safe with and freely do choose that work, I still object to prostitution as I have a strong principled objection to a society where men are able to buy intimate access to women’s bodies. That is something that I strongly believe no one should be able to purchase.

So away with your sneering about old fashioned. I’d rather have looked into and thought about issues and make my decisions based on that, rather than on what’s ‘fashionable’.

YES AGREE TOTALLY

The PP didn’t call it sex work, nor did she say it was cool. She said it was a safe environment, which compared to the street it surely is. So if the woman WAS a prostitute her choice to work there is understandable, isn’t it.

There are some hotels that do day rentals for when people travel.

Have you considered it may just be a woman who had been at an all night event, who was renting a room at a day rate to get some sleep and a shower before travelling home later that day?

Used to work in hotels as a housekeeper. Believe me, every second men buying prostitute. And 80% of them will come back in next work trip with wife and kids. Or even sleep with prostitutes one week and then beg to change sheets and deep clean room in 15 mins because his wife visiting. Then ordering expensive champagne, lots of shopping and the same evening after wife is leaving - prostitute again.
All hotels have "trusted" prostitutes which they recommend for guests, sometimes prostitutes paying £100 for reception for "referall". Yes, prostitutes will get priority even in fully booked hotel because they are the reason rich mens will pay for expensive rooms, will order lots of drinks, etc.

I am so sick of people who are openly hostile to children and their parents being on mumsnet.