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To feel very sad about what happened in Bondi today

130 replies

margolyes · 13/04/2024 10:52

Only posting here as no other post that I could see. 7 people dead. He stabbed a 9 month old baby. The baby's mum passed it to someone else . Mum has just died. WHat the feck is wrong with people? Thank goodness a police inspector went in on her own and shot him. So sad. It's where my family grew up and just a normal part of Australia. Hate to say it but the world is awful.

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Pigeonqueen · 13/04/2024 20:20

I think things like this are sadly increasing. Quite similar to the horrific Nottingham killings last year. I think there are huge consequences to lack of intervention in mental health. I’m convinced the man must have mental health issues until revealed otherwise. What a mess the world is becoming.

therealcookiemonster · 13/04/2024 20:15

StMarieforme · 13/04/2024 19:57

Yes I was just thinking this. Can't seem to find a thread about that other Mum?

Just awful.

that was in the UK. stabbed by her husband. bastard

StMarieforme · 13/04/2024 19:57

SaltySeaCat · 13/04/2024 13:54

The second mother to be stabbed to death whilst out with her baby in a week. Awful.

Yes I was just thinking this. Can't seem to find a thread about that other Mum?

Just awful.

agent765 · 13/04/2024 19:49

Did I read that he was known to the police?

This is sad and awful and getting too common.

There is so little we can do to protect ourselves against whirlwind attacks like these. I downloaded an app called ProtectUK. I think it relies more on the police being aware of impending acts of terrorism but it has some useful info on awareness and what to do if something happens in front of you.

IncognitoMam · 13/04/2024 17:43

I was driving to my friends when I heard this and had to steady myself as was going around a roundabout. How absolutely horrific. I'm tearing up now. We can all empathise as it's something a lot of us would be doing. Plus just the thought of innocent people going about their day. Not only will it affect those stabbed but those present. Families friends.

Honestly the world can be so so awful 😞 You're literally not safe anywhere.

KiltedKoala · 13/04/2024 17:37

Horrendous- we returned from Sydney about 18 months ago. In total shock here. Just people shopping and hanging out on a Saturday afternoon. Madness. And the poor baby who will wake up without his mummy to cuddle him.

decionsdecisions62 · 13/04/2024 17:08

Just watching the news. No links to extremism. He was known to police. Sounds like a nutter. Hats off to the police woman that took him down.

crinkletits · 13/04/2024 17:01

I can't get my head around somebody stabbing a baby. How does someone get to that point? They give toy babies to dementia patients that can't remember their own names. They do this because no matter how serious the illness it's instinctive to protect and nurture and calms the patient.

Otterseatpuffinsdontthey · 13/04/2024 16:42

Absolutely horrendous!
Haven't seen many updates - my own thoughts are - that the first woman he killed was an estranged wife/partner. Dare I say it, but that poor baby was a girl.
Also "known to the police" - for Domestic Violence.
The Woman Police Officer who shot him deserves a bravery medal.
Hopefully, no more of those poor, injured people will die.

thebestinterest · 13/04/2024 16:38

margolyes · 13/04/2024 10:52

Only posting here as no other post that I could see. 7 people dead. He stabbed a 9 month old baby. The baby's mum passed it to someone else . Mum has just died. WHat the feck is wrong with people? Thank goodness a police inspector went in on her own and shot him. So sad. It's where my family grew up and just a normal part of Australia. Hate to say it but the world is awful.

Truly awful, OP.

Beatrixslobber · 13/04/2024 16:32

I only caught half of a report earlier. Awful.

tothelefttotheleft · 13/04/2024 16:29

@RoseAndRose

Thankyou.

Rattatoille · 13/04/2024 16:27

ExpressCheckout · 13/04/2024 13:45

I've never been to Australia, nor do I have Australian friends or family, but I do think of you guys as our cousins, and so my thoughts are with you today

Well said @ExpressCheckout

The same from me too, thought and prayers for our Australian cousins, especially the poor baby.

RoseAndRose · 13/04/2024 16:21

The police, from what they have said and the way they have said it, do seem to have some sort of working theory. But they haven't yet said what it is.

So right now we do not know if there was either a general overall aim or a set of targets, or a specific target.

HesterPrincess · 13/04/2024 16:21

Sickening. Absolutely sickening.

GreyTonkinese · 13/04/2024 16:15

Just awful and frightening that there are people out there like that. If it was targeted I just don't understand why men are prepared to kill their ex and their child because things didn't work out. I hope the baby is all right and has family to take her in.

RoseAndRose · 13/04/2024 16:04

tothelefttotheleft · 13/04/2024 15:52

@margolyes

What did the escalator man and the father do?

I'm not sure it's completely clear yet, but one man tried to use a metal bar somehow against the attacker

Brave of him - as eyewitness accounts of the knife the attacker was using satate that it was about as long as his forearm.

Also very brave of the police officer too - and remarkable professionalism, as after taking him down she began CPR

tothelefttotheleft · 13/04/2024 15:52

@margolyes

What did the escalator man and the father do?

hattie43 · 13/04/2024 15:48

Shocking but sadly becoming more common

Fooksticks · 13/04/2024 15:24

How is this an AIBU? Of course you're not, no sane person would think you were.

Dh took dd1 and dd2 to a Westfield in Melbourne today, different stare obviously, but it was a reminder that no one is safe from crazy.

RIP those poor innocent victims, my thoughts are with their families and friends.

BananaBender · 13/04/2024 15:05

WingSluts · 13/04/2024 14:16

So awful. Poor people.

Just trying to understand here, what’s the significance of it being just a normal shopping centre? That’s been mentioned twice.

Because it’s an ordinary place that so many people go to. In cities we all go to a shopping centre for groceries, clothes, shoes, hair, kitchen things, electronics, movies, toys, etc. It’s not what we think of as a risky place for being attacked or killed.

On a Saturday afternoon it would have been packed with people and especially families. (It’s currently midnight Saturday night/Sunday morning here on the east coast of Australia.)

Just a normal place with normal people doing normal things. It could easily have been anyone in any shopping centre. That kind of hits home and it’s scary. We’re not used to this sort of thing here. This is some USA type of thing. Not Australia.

Toomuchgoingon79 · 13/04/2024 15:04

Heartbreaking 💔

mbosnz · 13/04/2024 14:53

I'm a Kiwi, and my heart goes out to our Aussie kin across the Tasman. I loved Sydney and the people I met when I was there some years ago. I'm so sorry this happened, to everyday people just going about their everyday life. You are all very much in my thoughts today - especially to that very brave police officer that shot the person committing such awful acts.

RisingSunn · 13/04/2024 14:38

whatsthpoint · 13/04/2024 14:31

No. That s not what it was. Don't politicize this.

I’ve actually read that too. Like the equivalent of London’s Golders Green. Though I stand to be corrected as I don’t live there.

Very sad.

shoppingshamed · 13/04/2024 14:36

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Not according to the Australian official who was on the news earlier, I suspect they know more than your friend

I took her to be saying they knew it was either some kind of personal attack or a mental health issue