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Ewwww.....primary school kids in shopping trollies

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CanIbeRio · 12/04/2024 09:47

I may be classed as a pearl clutcher and am prepared to maybe be told so but...

Does anyone else think it really unhygienic when you see primary school children riding in the basket of a shopping trolley? As in dressed in their school uniforms where mum has popped in for a few bits on the way home.

Bless them, been at school all day walking and standing in God knows what - in and out of the loos with possible wee, poo, vomit covered floors, walking by dog poo and possibly stomping in muddy puddles on the way to the shops. 😖

This is where we then put our food....sometimes unpackaged like loose fruit and veg. Yuk!!

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EarringsandLipstick · 12/04/2024 13:35

I don't particularly worry about the hygiene aspect - the trolley is not going to be all that clean, regardless.

But I don't like seeing primary school aged children taking up most of the trolley, while food is packed around them. There really is no reason why they can't walk around (in almost all cases).

It's not my business obviously, so this is just my inner thought, and not something I ever express or let show on my face!

NeverDropYourMooncup · 12/04/2024 13:30

museumum · 12/04/2024 10:05

It’s definitely unsafe, they are too heavy. But trolleys are already manky with all sorts from sitting around outside and in warehouses. Rat and mouse pee I’m sure.

The weight limit of a standard supermarket shopping trolley is around 100kg. Not sure whose primary aged child is going to weigh 16 stone and therefore be too heavy to sit in the main part of the trolley when their femur length is too long to fit into the seat (which has the weight limit of 15kg-ish).

Desecratedcoconut · 12/04/2024 13:16

I wouldn't do it but I couldn't care less if others do. It's not a metric I'd use to assess someone's parenting or hygiene. And if you think trolleys are a germ free sanctuary to begin with then that would be a mistake.

Wolfpa · 12/04/2024 13:13

The trollies have probably seen much worse than primary school children.

we used to use our local supermarket trollies to play hungry hippoes on a night out.

think of almost adults who had had just enough drinks to make this sound like a good idea.

Tessisme · 12/04/2024 13:11

CyanBird · 12/04/2024 12:36

I think you have too much time on your hands.

And quite a few germs from those filthy trolley handles😄 I try very very hard not to think about stuff like that.

Parkerpenny · 12/04/2024 13:09

Can't stand it either and primary schools are full of grots. Toilets are grim and young kids will just walk through anything. Sorry to be grim.

With a few exceptions, most primary children can walk around the supermarket.

TeaPleaseX · 12/04/2024 13:01

Wouldn't bother me at all. It's not really something to get annoyed about tbh. I've seen junkies pissing over them before in the car park. Don't think a child makes it any more unhygienic 😂

Foxblue · 12/04/2024 12:53

The trollies are disgusting.
I'm fine with children who are old or calm enough to sit down in them, but any child who can't be trusted to do that the entire time shouldn't be in the main basket, they can and do tip and it's not safe for the child or anyone else around them - those trollies are HEAVY and will gouge a chunk out of your ankle given half a chance.
Source: worked in a supermarket for many years, probably 1 in 3 kids actually stay seated, seen them tip multiple times. Much sympathy to anyone with wriggly kids who are nightmares on shopping trips, but supermarket floors are HARD.

DottieMoon · 12/04/2024 12:50

GoodnightAdeline · 12/04/2024 09:52

The trolleys have had food put in and out of them (including loose veg), been sat out in the rain and being shat on by birds and crawled on by insects. I’m sure we will all live.

I agree, the trolleys are not hygienic in the first place. I think you are being ridiculous.

EliflurtleAndTheInfiniteMadness · 12/04/2024 12:47

CyanBird · 12/04/2024 12:36

I think you have too much time on your hands.

It would certainly be nice if trolley higeine was the top of my worry list instead of my abusive ex, my SEN kids, my brain which is losing everyday words and Im having to google search with the microphone to find out how to spell words my 10 year old knows.

Sprinkles211 · 12/04/2024 12:45

So so judgy people like you dereve a huge fucking wake up call. My daughter is disabled has a list along as my arm of diagnosis but the crux of it is she looks normal!!! She's 8 years old in chronic pain with her very low muscle tone, severe asd, tube fed and mentally 2 to 3 years old. Do you know how many disabled child trolleys they have in BIG superstores!! ONE and they are shit to use, impossible to steer and we get so many also disapproving looks because my *normal child is sat in it with an ipad, my ONLY choice for doing a shop is putting her in the main cart sitting on my shopping bags. It's OK to use a trolley left outside with bird piss and shit on it but not a child that's sat in it fucking hell nightmare

EliflurtleAndTheInfiniteMadness · 12/04/2024 12:44

LakeTiticaca · 12/04/2024 12:29

So a kid gets in a trolley with dog shit on their shoe. Next user of the trolley ends up with dog shit on their shopping and possibly on their hands. But that's OK because Little Precious HAS to sit in the trolley.
Screw everyone else

That's a lot of people not noticing the smell of dog shit. Sorry I might have apparently missed this one day and poisoned some poor innocent when I needed to put my little precious aka disabled 5 year old in the trolley so that his disabled mum aka me could get around the shops. I'd swear he was never covered in dog shit but apparently we wouldn't notice this, maybe because we think even shit smells good on our little precious. I've now said precious so many times I feel like Gollum, but thanks for the laugh.

peakygold · 12/04/2024 12:43

GoodnightAdeline · 12/04/2024 09:59

I put my (short and slight) 4 year old in the trolley, mainly so she doesn’t cause another form of annoyance (like clogging up the aisles or touching things she shouldn’t be). I don’t really understand the hygiene concern as the child seat doesn’t touch the inside of the trolley and her feet dangle down at the front. No overlap at all.

Tell you what let’s just ban children from everything, they’re unneccessary anyway

Or perhaps you could just parent your child and teach them not to touch things or wander off?

DappledThings · 12/04/2024 12:40

CanIbeRio · 12/04/2024 12:24

I'm meaning no one minds putting food in the dirty trolley where food goes which is then consumed. But can be precious about their carpets at home which is less of a concern as nobody eats off the floors!

Well yes. Food in a trolley is either in packaging or you can wash it when you get home. Hardly comparable to eating straight out of the trolley. Nobody is eating off their carpet or straight off the carpet so it's irrelevant

Xmasbaby11 · 12/04/2024 12:38

the hygiene aspect wouldn’t bother me but I’d be concerned for their safety. If they’re small, they should be ok in a trolley.

CyanBird · 12/04/2024 12:36

I think you have too much time on your hands.

Gettingonmygoat · 12/04/2024 12:36

GoodnightAdeline · 12/04/2024 10:11

Like what?!

There was a child killed about 25 years ago , fell out of the main body of the trolley and landed on his head, killed instantly.

ZipZapZoom · 12/04/2024 12:34

LakeTiticaca · 12/04/2024 12:29

So a kid gets in a trolley with dog shit on their shoe. Next user of the trolley ends up with dog shit on their shopping and possibly on their hands. But that's OK because Little Precious HAS to sit in the trolley.
Screw everyone else

A child getting in it with dog shit on their shoe and the next user of the trolley not noticing is indefinitely more unlikely to happen than the trolley getting bird shit on it or a dog weeing on it or a person sneezing on it and it then being used for shopping...

CanIbeRio · 12/04/2024 12:33

Well said @LakeTiticaca ... also, it's not worth worrying about cos what's a bit of dog shit amongst the invisible pigeon poop and rats wee! In for a penny, in for a pound!!!

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DyslexicPoster · 12/04/2024 12:31

My 9 year old sat in the kids' trolley seat when we went to Costco. She is however extremely small for her age and the trollies are huge. Why I have idea really but I don't think it hurt anyone and no chance of her breaking it or toppling it.

LakeTiticaca · 12/04/2024 12:29

So a kid gets in a trolley with dog shit on their shoe. Next user of the trolley ends up with dog shit on their shopping and possibly on their hands. But that's OK because Little Precious HAS to sit in the trolley.
Screw everyone else

ImNotReallySpartacus · 12/04/2024 12:28

GoodnightAdeline · 12/04/2024 09:59

I put my (short and slight) 4 year old in the trolley, mainly so she doesn’t cause another form of annoyance (like clogging up the aisles or touching things she shouldn’t be). I don’t really understand the hygiene concern as the child seat doesn’t touch the inside of the trolley and her feet dangle down at the front. No overlap at all.

Tell you what let’s just ban children from everything, they’re unneccessary anyway

I quite agree. The first supermarket to ban children will get my loyal custom for the rest of my life.

CanIbeRio · 12/04/2024 12:24

I'm meaning no one minds putting food in the dirty trolley where food goes which is then consumed. But can be precious about their carpets at home which is less of a concern as nobody eats off the floors!

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aperolspritzbasicbitch · 12/04/2024 12:24

I'm with you OP.

My daughter frequently asks to go in the trolley, and I always tell her that she can't, and no one wants to put their shopping on where she's been standing with her dirty shoes.

I'm aware they aren't clean to begin with, I just think it's rude and unnecessary.

Same as kids standing on chairs - do I think the chair is particularly clean? No. Do I think it's gross to allow your kid to stand on chairs - yeah.

Jc2001 · 12/04/2024 12:22

At 50 something years old, having eaten the food which was pushed around a supermarket in a trolley virtually my entire life, I'm not going to start worrying about this now.

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