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Ewwww.....primary school kids in shopping trollies

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CanIbeRio · 12/04/2024 09:47

I may be classed as a pearl clutcher and am prepared to maybe be told so but...

Does anyone else think it really unhygienic when you see primary school children riding in the basket of a shopping trolley? As in dressed in their school uniforms where mum has popped in for a few bits on the way home.

Bless them, been at school all day walking and standing in God knows what - in and out of the loos with possible wee, poo, vomit covered floors, walking by dog poo and possibly stomping in muddy puddles on the way to the shops. 😖

This is where we then put our food....sometimes unpackaged like loose fruit and veg. Yuk!!

OP posts:
Snackarooney · 14/04/2024 20:46

Mrsknowitall · 12/04/2024 10:16

I used to put my son in the trolley simply because he is autistic and it made my life easier and wasn’t to full on for him with all the hustle and bustle of a super market, he was also a runner so I knew exactly where he was, I would of ended up stressed and telling him off then he would of been there crying, which has happened on a number of occasions then you get the “control your kid” looks from people before they run to mumsnet to write a post about having to listen to unruly children screaming when they are trying to do a shop 🤦‍♀️ can’t win either way it seems 😂

Same. My ds is 4 nearly 5 and was terrified of the trolley seats so I put him in the trolley once, now routine is key and he has to go in the trolley. He's really unsure of heights when I say height I mean a chair is a height to him but obviously the trolley has sides so he doesn't bolt he's nervous because it's something that moves but loves it at the same time and I just can't push his disability pushchair and a trolley at the same time so in he goes works for us both, don't know how I'll ever get him out of the habit but we'll cross that bridge when we come to it.

Ladyluckinred · 14/04/2024 20:44

AquaFurball · 14/04/2024 20:25

You'd be challenged here, there are signs specifically saying not to put children in the trolleys.

Nice to see you have such disrespect for safety.

There are signs to say children cannot stand up in the trolley. My children sit in the trolley.

I also haven’t been challenged in over 7 years of doing it. Why? Because this perspective seems only to exist on the internet, where people can have all kinds of opinions they wouldn’t dare say in real life. As I say, they’d look pretty silly if they did challenge me. What would they expect to happen?

AquaFurball · 14/04/2024 20:25

Ladyluckinred · 12/04/2024 21:34

I actually find it really sad that you won’t allow your child to sit in a communal trolley based on the opinions of others. Do people not wash their loose fruit and veg?! Ffs, it’s a trolley, it’s not jet washed after every use!

I let my kids sit in the trolley, shoes and all. I’ve never had a dirty look or anything said to me. I can imagine how silly someone would look if they challenged me on my children sitting in a trolley. Is this really what people think about? How ridiculous.

You'd be challenged here, there are signs specifically saying not to put children in the trolleys.

Nice to see you have such disrespect for safety.

SoapCollector · 14/04/2024 20:18

Sirzy · 12/04/2024 09:58

Doesn’t bother me from a hygiene POV but does from a safety POV. I have seen children lean over and topple they aren’t designed for someone sitting in the main body of them.

I agree I once saw a bad accident, a baby sat in the proper trolley seats, older sibling in the main trolley part. The older sibling stood up in the trolley part and reached over towards a stack of fruit, the trolley toppled, baby and sibling both hit the hard supermarket floor.

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 14/04/2024 20:15

Maybe they've just bought them from the reduced shelf?

SemperIdem · 14/04/2024 20:11

Children’s shoes are the least of your concerns where supermarket shopping trolleys are concerned.

Rats and their bodily functions, along with being used to hold rotten food in the warehouses is a far greater concern.

PatheticDistraction · 14/04/2024 20:08

Mrsknowitall · 12/04/2024 10:16

I used to put my son in the trolley simply because he is autistic and it made my life easier and wasn’t to full on for him with all the hustle and bustle of a super market, he was also a runner so I knew exactly where he was, I would of ended up stressed and telling him off then he would of been there crying, which has happened on a number of occasions then you get the “control your kid” looks from people before they run to mumsnet to write a post about having to listen to unruly children screaming when they are trying to do a shop 🤦‍♀️ can’t win either way it seems 😂

We're exactly the same - better for our autistic DS too - these kind of threads make me mega paranoid about all the things we do daily that people will be silently judging Confused

TheSnakeCharmer · 14/04/2024 19:45

I think that the chances are that the handle of the trolley and all the other stuff that you have to touch is probably worse. The amount of people who don't wash their hands after going to the loo is staggering!

Nettie1964 · 14/04/2024 19:31

Human beings need their immune systems challenged, that's how immunity builds up.you can always spray everything with dettol or anti bac when you get home. I once watched a documentary about asthma and other diseases where they said that modern obsession with sanitising everything isn't great. Not that we want to go back to babies and children dieing of preventable illnesses but maybe balanced approach is best. My autistic gd tests mud and moss etc. She's a very healthy, sturdy little girl.

smellslikecinnamon · 14/04/2024 19:29

Catza · 12/04/2024 09:59

How is that different than any adult walking around, being at work, going to the loo, picking up their dog poo. I worked at an acute hospital and cannot even begin to list all bodily fluids and substances I would be covered in at the end of a working day. I give you no guarantees despite washing my hands that you won't get any of that muck on your shopping trolley.
What about pre-school children being in trolleys? Do you think they are any cleaner? All the floor crawling...
And don't you wash your veg before eating?

Presumably you don't run your shoes all over the inside of a shopping trolley. It's not really a valid comparison

Having said this I don't really have much concern about trollers and hygiene

Welcome2thecircus · 14/04/2024 19:26

I think you'd catch more from 100s of unwashed hands on trolleys vs the shoes of a child. This is also why we wash unpackaged food before we eat it.

I carry anti bac as standard but with three kids, including a toddler and a baby.. Hope and health has forsaken me 😂

Mommytoone · 14/04/2024 19:23

Toddlerteaplease · 12/04/2024 10:09

Children who don't fit in the seats, should not be in the trolleys at all.

See My daughter is a very tall 6 year old who obviously don't fit into the seat part and she's autistic and she can't walk too much so I have no other choice but to put her into the main part of the trolley if I made her walk around the whole shop she'd get way to overwhelmed and she physically wouldn't do it

TheLovelinessOfDemons · 14/04/2024 19:09

This is why I loved the disabled child trolley for DS with ADHD. He could get in the seat himself, no need to ride in the basket. Now he's much more reasonable and will actually walk around with me.

Hecate01 · 13/04/2024 04:29

When I worked in retail the rubbish bags from the outside bins would be transported to the warehouse in a customer trolley. I'd worry more about the bin juice that kids tbh.

OnHerSolidFoundations · 13/04/2024 04:21

GoodnightAdeline · 12/04/2024 09:52

The trolleys have had food put in and out of them (including loose veg), been sat out in the rain and being shat on by birds and crawled on by insects. I’m sure we will all live.

Probably covered in spider willys too 🤣

heavencakes · 13/04/2024 00:10

I'd be more worried about my DC getting dirty from the trolleys to be honest. They often look pretty filthy.

Maybe I'm really lax but my DC don't get changed after school until they need to for a club.

BlackeyedSusan · 12/04/2024 23:34

Ssshhhh Nobody tell op where potatoes and carrots come from...nor eggs for that matter!

Irishmama100 · 12/04/2024 23:29

Omg the loose fruit and veg. The veg that is grown in the ground that the cows shit in. The field mice that run the fields that the veg grows in. The rats in the fields. Honestly I would not worry about the child in the trolley!

Bluesandwhites · 12/04/2024 23:14

The handles of shopping trollies and shopping baskets always feel sticky, possibly with all the nose pickers and bottom scratchers, you have reminded me to always clean the handles, however i've noticed some supermarkets, Asda in particular do not provide any sanitiser/blue roll in the foyer like they used to.

Itsabusytwoweeks · 12/04/2024 23:06

😂😂

gindreams · 12/04/2024 22:54

Ah how I miss ending up a night out in a shopping trolley

Itsabusytwoweeks · 12/04/2024 22:46

My 5.5 year old still fits in the front seat part easily, my mum was shocked, it’s not that weird is it?! She’s normal size

Jk987 · 12/04/2024 22:43

Absolutely ridiculous thread!

Caswallonthefox · 12/04/2024 22:36

Shirley all your shopping is wrapped up? Even loose fruit and veg? Therefore any scary germs etc, are not touching the food.
Obviously kids above toddlerhood shouldn't be in the trolley because of safety and all that jazz.

DeedlessIndeed · 12/04/2024 22:28

Allfur · 12/04/2024 22:23

Mmm, I knew someone who was in a car crash too, ban cars!

Never said for other people not to, but was just sharing why I would not.
If you read to the bottom, I even disagree with OPs argument!

I would also say that your comment kind of does prove a point though. Yes, lots of people die in car accidents, so the industry acts to improve safety - adding seat belts and airbags etc.

Children get hurt in trolleys, so the stores add guidance that children should be seated only in a particular way (i.e. in the designated seats) or up to a certain weight.

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