One night stands/casual sex

Oh god really?!
Feel sorry for OP now.

You posted the below only 6 days ago OP.

My husband of 3 years never comes up and hugs me out of the blue, he never kisses me or touches me unless he wants sex. Why do you think this could be? Tia

I couldn’t imagine a relationship where my partner only shows affection when they want sex. I can’t say that sounds very special to me. Maybe you should come down from your high horse and stop judging others for their choices? I rather have casual sex with men that I like as opposed to being with someone who won’t bother giving me a hug just for the sake of it!

I loved a bit of casual genitalia back in the day.

So sorry that your sex life is that boring you compare it to being alone with a toy 💐

Don't worry, the relationships board is your friend when the inevitable happens. I would probably name change first.

Right! Couldn’t even wait until the second page😆

when you look at how casual putting your genitalia into another person has become

😂😂😂😂

😂😂😂

I’m going to integrate that into my dirty talk going forward.. “dip your genitalia into me!”.

🤣

More like very judgemental and condescending. You do you OP and judge away about where us poor unfortunates dip our genitalia 😂.

Awks for your DH’s personality if you think having sex with someone is the same as a using a sex toy.

Either his pillow talk is pretty limited, or I need to delve further into the market 🤔🤔

Same. I do wonder though who I would have ended up with if I didn’t test the sexual waters (I’ve just made that up btw). I learned so much about what I enjoyed and what I didn’t from those years. Tbh, I only had positive experiences so had a bloody good time doing it too.

In fairness OP, I’m sure if I married the first person I slept with, I would enjoy the sex too, because I would not know anything different.

Have you really never felt curious? No celebrity crushes that you’ve had a cheeky fantasy about? 😉

I’ve also only ever had one sexual partner OP… but I agree with most PP that your posts seem unpleasantly smug and judgey.

The number of genitals you’ve allowed to be “put in” you doesn’t determine your worth as a person. Surely by that logic, all virgins would be superior to you?

I had a ons 19 years ago.
Still haven't got rid of him! Been married the majority of that...

I would day it was instant attraction... but it was alcohol. The attraction came afterwards.

St a basic level... we are primed to have sex, to procreate to just do. Sex is fun and enjoyable.

You got lucky early on, found someone you were attracted to physically and I presume is a decent person.

😂😂😂😂 ‘quite special’ indeed. Bet your fun at parties - there’s no risk of sounding ‘smug’ you just sound rude, naive and judgemental, and not very experienced. Try not to tell other people this out loud tho - most people don’t like being told their not as virtuous as you are 😂🤣

Also, weird to talk about putting your genitalia into another person if you’re a woman. Sex isn’t just putting your genitalia into someone else (and never is if you’re a woman). I’m a lesbian and that’s not what sex ever looks like for me. Still enjoyable.

I would really feel if missed out if I'd only been with one partner.

If you think you get the same amount of pleasure from a sex toy as you do another person, you certainly don't have an amazing sex life.

I think the OP might be on the wind-up with her sex toy remark...

Everybody is different 🤷‍♀️

It’s great that you found somebody you want to be with early in life. Not everybody does. I had an abusive relationship in my early 20s and I’m very glad I didn’t stay in it. I’m happily single now I’m my mid-30s and sometimes have casual sex which I find way better than using sex toys. I will never understand conflating casual sex with sex toys but each to their own.

Exactly what I was going to say.
Seen it so many times in real life.

I actually can't believe that if the most charismatic, handsome, sexy and exciting individual came along (think of your favorite famous person) you wouldn't at least wonder/fantasise what it would be like with him? 🤔

I'm late 30s, been with my DH since teens and only had sex with each other. I don’t really find it difficult to understand why other people want to experience different things at all. People don't all think uniformly otherwise life would be very boring!

”Has become”?

Ever read about Ancient Rome, OP?

This might be hard for you to understand OP...nobody has an interest in your sex life or lack thereof.

Bet you’re fun at parties 🤣

I went through a promiscuous phase in my single 20s, and I got bored of it. Many people do.
I can understand wanting to have the experience, but you're really not missing out that much.