One night stands/casual sex

You sound judgy, smug, tedious and very boring !
Good for you - bravo ! 🏆
One sexual partner ..... Im so jealous, in awe, envious ..... said not many people ever
You may have missed out on a huge piece of your potential life enjoyment, or maybe not
Who actually really cares 🤣😂🤣

Note how the OP hasn't come back after her last smug and judgemental comment
Seems like she started the thread to be a judgemental dickhead.
Personally the idea of ever having sex with only person my entire life is absolutely fucking boring!

Well you were fortunate to have met your partner, not everyone is that lucky. Also why are you so bothered by who anyone else chooses to sleep with?

Take op isn’t coming back.

Ops sex life and relationship not so special then.

Weird to come brag about about a lie. I guess op is trying to convince herself she doesn’t want to shag anyone else.

Given the link shared by a PP I suspect the OP, if they're not simply pulling our chains, is in the business of romanticising a relationship that isn't to her satisfaction either.

Anything to say about this @champagnedrunk ???

That was an odd post wasn't it? 😆 DH's exes are exes for a reason, because he didn't want to be with them anymore. I don't think he has ever mentioned any exes, and I have never mentioned any of mine. He was single for about 2 years when we met (and I had been single for about a year, but even my last one had only lasted 4 months.) Imagine spending even a single second of your time worrying and stressing about your DH's exes?! WTF? 😬

Ooh busted OP! The link to your other post makes this one make more sense now.
Sounds to me like you want to try someone else's genitalia but you don't want to admit it. You do sound very curious.

Plus how can anyone say their partner is good in bed without having anything else to compare it to?

Do you wear rubber gloves in bed, and undress in the dark - and keep your bra on when you haves this 'amazing sex' @champagnedrunk ??? 😆!

Whilst I think anyone having multiple 100s of sexual partners is a bit much (JMO,) I also think that just having ONE partner your whole life and only shagging them, doesn't make you a better person, (nor is it anything to be proud of.) I mean whatever floats your boats, but there is a strong air of smugness to your posts.

Also, you are only in your mid THIRTIES. You are rather deluded if you think you will never have any other sexual partner, ever, and hilariously deluded if you think your HUSBAND will never shag anyone else!

ONS's have absolutely no appeal to me either OP, I'd prefer a vibrator to a random man - but I don't think I would want to have only ever slept with one person either. So I'm very happy somewhere in the middle I guess. But if you're happy that's all that matters.

True - I had one of those. His tenure was quite short ☺️.

If there is one thing l have got from this judgemental thread, it’s the expression “genital dipping”. That will stay with me for life 😂.

l hope someone will dip their genitals in me before dinner this evening. In my world nighttime bed is for sleep. But before dinner is the real purr making dip.

Ooof - going to have to start charging commission!!

My friend married the first person who ever dipped his genitals in her and he's an absolute arsehole, she could do better and I've never felt sadder at a wedding in my life.
My other friend is like me, dated, dabbled, had different relationships, a few ONS just for fun, worked out who she was and what she wanted/needed and then married an absolute gem of a man.

You sound like you're still at the emotional stage of a teenager who finds the whole business a bit embarrassing to be honest, but "yay" for you I suppose 🤷🏻‍♀️

Another customer here!

Same😂

Yeah, I remember the days when I thought cava was a delicious drink. Then I tasted champagne.

🤣🤣🤣🤣 I googled too 🤭

You do sound quite judgmental. Just because your life worked out you can't seem to have a bit of consideration for people not in your position.

Why on Earth would I be looking at my husband of almost 20 years wondering whether his ex was better?! I couldn't give a shit! I was married young, had lots of sex beforehand with other people which was fantastic and now I've settled down. I don't want to be someone's one and only and I don't want to be with someone with no sexual experience.

I don't find two people being each others only to be special at all!

I highly doubt the OP will be back. Should have name changed before you started this silly thread

Then my work here is done!

I think you and your hubby are board shitless with your sex life if your honest

Oh. Wow. Super smug post thinly veiled as an attempt to understand something. Colour me shocked.

How would you know whether it's better or worse to have had ONS/casual sex or not when you've never done it?

There's nothing wrong with not doing it-but there's equally nothing wrong with doing it.

Do you really think a connection, even one just on purely physical level, with another person is the same as using a vibrator? What a peculiar mentality.

Not everyone meets the person they're going to spend the rest of their lives with young. Some people date for a while, think it's going well, have sex and then it doesn't go anywhere. So, they end up with multiple partners because of things just not working out.

Some people enjoy the thrill of being with other people. The experience they get. Some people just enjoy sex and don't want commitment but don't want to miss out on sexual experiences because of that.

You're not better than those people, OP. Really, you're not. Do your friends know that you think of them so poorly and yourself so highly by comparison? If they did-I wonder if they'd still be your friends.

After one person dipped their genitals into me and gave me an internal massage with them, l liked it so much, l asked a another boy (l was in my teens at the time, 40s now) to dip his in because l wanted to know what someone else felt like. So, I’d only known one oerson for less than a week.

Do l regret it? No! Would l do the same again. Too bloody right l would. It made me purr😀.

Bring on the name calling.