My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. When he comes to my home he acts as if it's his. At first ok cool, but now I feel like I pay thousands of dollars a month to live somewhere where I can't do what I want. I'm super busy during the week. I'm up at 5 am Monday-Friday I work from 7:30-4 every Monday-Friday. I have 3 kids I have to do homework, spend time, cook etc. so during the week I usually just leave things how they are. I clean the kitchen and bathroom, but when I wash clothes I leave them on my couch and fold them up so it's easier to find everyone's clothes. He comes today and is yelling at us and throwing things because as he said "it look like a hurry can been through here". I'm so tired of him getting upset with everything. He works maybe 2-3 times a week. i clean on the weekend ls because after doing all of the things i said above im getting in bed 10-11pm.
i understand that i could do better but im exhausted. im fine with cleaning over the weekend. he does not understand how much is on my plate. he lives with his parents so all he has to clean is his room. im actually kinda upset because when he leaves he leaves more things for me to do. he doesnt clean on his side of the bed. he leaves half full water bottles every where. snack rappers and i spend all week picking up where i can.