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Advise needed urgently please: car accident

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OnTheRoll · 11/04/2024 09:32

Morning all,
My husband has just been hit by a hit-and-run driver on a A road (speed 70). The other car was trying to change lanes into my DH's lane, probably didn't check, smashed into him from and drove off without stopping.
DH pulled over and another driver from a car behind stopped there too telling him that the car that hit him was a commercial vehicle, he saw the brand name. DH took the man's name and car reg to use as a witness if needed.
We called the company to say that their car hit our car and they couldn't have been more blasé about it. They said that their company doesn't drive this type of car. DH didn't have a time to see the car reg or make/model, just that it was a big white and blue van.
I insisted they check with their drivers for damage and they said they would get back to me.
What do we do??

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LeopardsRockingham · 26/06/2024 00:36

I was knocked off the motorway by a lorry who drove off. Spun across 5 lanes of traffic, hit a van and spun back again. I cannot fathom how me and the van driver walked away.

The police had to attend the scene as my car was a writeoff and I was badly injured.

There were 5 witnesses, plus cam footage.

The motorway cctv apparently doesn't record.

The police didn't take the cam footage at the time or for so long that when they finally turned up for it it was overwritten.

The PC said he had an idea of which co it was based on id at the scene, then later said he couldn't go to the company accusing people.

After I complained to the ombudsman it transpired that the police had been given the lorry reg as someone had followed him after he did the hit and run. The police before my complaint were shrugging their shoulders and saying no idea, it was prob my fault....which was impossible where the car had been hit.

I had then hit a van and due to police ineptitude was liable for his insurance claim.

Eventually it came to light the lorry had hit and run another car just on up the motorway from me.

The police are still NOT charging him with dangerous driving and three years later where I am still in pain from my injuries I am still waiting for the insurance to be sorted out.

So not only should you phone the police, but pester them everyday until you get the answer you need. I didn't and I very much regret it now.

I was vulnerable after the accident and let a bullying workshy policeman turn the whowl thing into a joke.

JohnofWessex · 25/06/2024 23:19

There is another thread somewhere that involves a collision with a bike, I suggest that someone has got confused

FiveShelties · 25/06/2024 23:12

MobilityCat · 25/06/2024 12:52

What do you mean?

You posted about a bicycle and there is no mention of a bicycle before your post.

ActualChips · 25/06/2024 12:55

@MobilityCat this thread is from April, and doesn't mention a bicycle.

MobilityCat · 25/06/2024 12:52

FiveShelties · 25/06/2024 12:39

@MobilityCat where does the bicycle come in?

What do you mean?

porridgecake · 25/06/2024 12:51

I witnessed an accident involving a commercial vehicle. I gave my details to the other party because I had dashcam footage. I emailed the footage to the other driver ( who was injured). The company denied everything but once they received the video they just capitulated.
Everyone should have a dashcam.

MereDintofPandiculation · 25/06/2024 12:46

LisaD1 · 11/04/2024 09:36

Contact the police and your insurers. Hit and run is a crime and all accidents should be reported to you own insurance. I would make no further contact with the company.

I was nearly hit by a company van driving at speed into a narrow side road that I was crossing. I informed the police - who were delighted as they already wanted "a word"with the driver over a previous incident. So yes, it is worth reporting to the police.

MereDintofPandiculation · 25/06/2024 12:40

OnTheRoll · 11/04/2024 09:43

DH is in shock (and as much as I love him he is not the most practical person). He called me from the sideline when it happened and he was speaking to that helpful guy and I told him to ask the guy for his contact details if he were willing to be a witness. DH took his name and his car reg (why? He wasn't part of the collision) and no email or mobile number.
So I don't know if he still counts as a witness (I did find him on Lindkedin...)
And we don't have any photos to prove anything

Well the police would be able to get his contact details from the car reg. So another reason to report. But as PP says, report for your own protection. I think it's not just that you have to stop, you have to stop and exchange details, So even though your DH has stopped, he hasn't given his details to the other driver, and therefore has 24 hours to report to police.

FiveShelties · 25/06/2024 12:39

@MobilityCat where does the bicycle come in?

MobilityCat · 25/06/2024 12:36

There's a lot of presumption taking place. We don't know what type of bicycle "mods", or whether the driver indcated a turn, but at unprotected crossing pedestrians and cyclists have right of way. If the driver used his mirrors properly he would have seen the cyclist either there or approaching.

Catapultaway · 11/04/2024 12:48

Report to police and insurance then sit back, not your concern anymore.

GladAllOver · 11/04/2024 12:44

This is why every car should have a dashcam.

RebelWithCause · 11/04/2024 12:39

Your Dh was obviously flustered but don’t be too hard on him about the lack of witness details. If you have no other information besides the witness’s name and reg number, both the police and your own insurer can access dvla records to find the not involved car’s registered keeper. That information will mean they can trace the RK address etc. He’s probably the driver who saw the incident and if not, RK should know the contact details who was using their car, eg if it’s registered to a business, so he can be traced. You said you’d found him on Li so you already know his employer’s details and can contact him that way.

Waltzers · 11/04/2024 10:16

I'm not in the Uk but I was once hit in similar circumstances on the motorway. I did manage to get a registration number as the car drove away (because I had my teenager with me and screamed it at her!) I went to the police, told them it was a blue/grey car, they came out and looked at my car, saw there was some blue/grey paint in the damage and that was enough for them to call him and tell him he could either hand over his insurance details or be charged with leaving the scene of an accident. Although you don't have the registration number, you have the company name and a witness so the police may well piece it together and make contact with the company for you.

Theendisntnigh · 11/04/2024 10:11

Report it to the police and your insurers and let them handle it.

TimeGrabsYouByTheWrist · 11/04/2024 10:10
  1. Report it to the non emergency police. Give them all the details including the van logo.
  2. Report it to the insurance. Don't give them the car reg of the witness as they might think this car was involved! Why on earth did he take this?!?!?!
  3. Find the witness on social media and ask if they had a dash cam.
  4. Put a post on your local Facebook group (if it was local) asking if anyone else was driving at that time on the road and had a dash cam.

Is it a small company whose logo was on the van? It'll be easier to find them in that case. Did he get a partial number plate?

Are there any cameras on that stretch of road? If so they will have picked up the van at that particular time.

Turmerictolly · 11/04/2024 10:06

Van, not ban.

Turmerictolly · 11/04/2024 10:06

Yes, don't worry about the ban. The police/insurers will investigate. When this happened to me I had to ring 101, they advised me to fill in an online report. It then generates a police record number. Then call the insurer and explain what has happened. Was your dh injured in any way? If so, he'll need to see his GP also.

EmilyTjP · 11/04/2024 10:01

Whatevershallidowithmylife · 11/04/2024 09:54

Just report to police and your insurers and they'll deal with it all.

This.

Stop worrying about the company and how to catch them.
Report it all and let them investigate.

Whatevershallidowithmylife · 11/04/2024 09:54

Just report to police and your insurers and they'll deal with it all.

Itsaloadofbollocksbut · 11/04/2024 09:48

There are regular requests for dashcam footage on my local Facebook hub.

Ariela · 11/04/2024 09:43

Absolutely report to police. If you don't and they do and they decide to say your DH drove into THEM your DH will be in bother for 'failing to stop' - even though he did. Also supply the witness information, to back your DH's statement. Police & insurance will be able to trace him from his car reg.
Get a crime ref number. Report to insurance.

OnTheRoll · 11/04/2024 09:43

Mnk711 · 11/04/2024 09:35

Contact the police and give them the info you have. They should be able to find out if any of the vehicles at that company match the description and/or have damage. And as PP says might be able to get CCTV footage.

Hope your DH is OK.

DH is in shock (and as much as I love him he is not the most practical person). He called me from the sideline when it happened and he was speaking to that helpful guy and I told him to ask the guy for his contact details if he were willing to be a witness. DH took his name and his car reg (why? He wasn't part of the collision) and no email or mobile number.
So I don't know if he still counts as a witness (I did find him on Lindkedin...)
And we don't have any photos to prove anything

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Catza · 11/04/2024 09:41

OnTheRoll · 11/04/2024 09:38

Thank you so much for speedy replies! If the company insists it was not their car can anything done to make them admit liability? I don't know if my insurance company will come to the branch to check their vehicles for damage!

There is really no way of knowing that. It is probably more likely that your insurer will liaise with police and request CCTV footage rather than chase the company. I mean, you don't have photographic evidence of the vehicle..
Either way, it is out of your hands. Just make all the appropriate reports and wait for the outcome.

swapcicles · 11/04/2024 09:40

When a company van reversed into me and I knew which company I called them and they couldn't be less bothered. Denied it all!
Unless you have firm proof there's not a lot you can do tbh. It was only a scrape so I didn't pursue it further at the time.

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