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To be irritated by Asda card woman?

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ExitSandyman · 10/04/2024 20:57

At our local Asda there is a woman who hangs around the cards - she’s ALWAYS there. She doesn’t seem to do much other than tidy up the shelves and bother customers. She wears a badge that’s says volunteer.

Anyway whenever you go down the cards aisle she will come over and ask if you need any help. No matter what your answer is, she will ask who you’re buying for and start pulling out cards that you might like.

I personally like to shop in peace. If I’m buying a card, I know the person I’m buying for and I know what kind of thing they’ll like.?having this woman pushing various cards into me is a distraction and an annoyance. Has anyone ever heard of these volunteers at Asda? Is it some kind of scheme? She’s been there well over a year. My heart sinks everytime I need a card and I see her stood there as she just won’t leave people alone.

and yeah I know people will say shop for cards elsewhere but I shouldn’t have to!

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Princesspollyyy · 10/04/2024 21:46

yodog · 10/04/2024 21:45

The lady will most likely have a learning disability Lots of work places have volunteers with an ld now.
Just say no thank you or go shop somewhere else

She shouldn't have to shop elsewhere

Passthepickle · 10/04/2024 21:46

Of all the things to complain about. How much better your life would be if you could make a bit of conversation say thank you then carry on with your day. Or even just go else where and not complain publicly about the one initiative that Asda commits to that actually shows them doing something good.

yodog · 10/04/2024 21:45

The lady will most likely have a learning disability Lots of work places have volunteers with an ld now.
Just say no thank you or go shop somewhere else

Moier · 10/04/2024 21:41

My friends daughter volunteers in the cafe at ASDA.. she is SEN.. They are well known for doing this.. some lead to part time work.

Kijuity · 10/04/2024 21:36

She will likely have SEN of some sort. Just nod and smile and pick your card out. Or buy cards elsewhere.

xyz111 · 10/04/2024 21:34

I think Asda have volunteers who maybe have learning difficulties. Have you said you don't need any help thank you.

waftabout · 10/04/2024 21:21

ExitSandyman · 10/04/2024 20:57

At our local Asda there is a woman who hangs around the cards - she’s ALWAYS there. She doesn’t seem to do much other than tidy up the shelves and bother customers. She wears a badge that’s says volunteer.

Anyway whenever you go down the cards aisle she will come over and ask if you need any help. No matter what your answer is, she will ask who you’re buying for and start pulling out cards that you might like.

I personally like to shop in peace. If I’m buying a card, I know the person I’m buying for and I know what kind of thing they’ll like.?having this woman pushing various cards into me is a distraction and an annoyance. Has anyone ever heard of these volunteers at Asda? Is it some kind of scheme? She’s been there well over a year. My heart sinks everytime I need a card and I see her stood there as she just won’t leave people alone.

and yeah I know people will say shop for cards elsewhere but I shouldn’t have to!

You could have a quiet word with customer services and explain this woman is a little too keen to help but I think you'd probably look awful. I would also worry this woman could be upset by the feedback.

Honestly, it might annoy me a little bit too but I'd try and be generous and accept she's trying to be helpful and if I couldn't then I'd shop elsewhere.

waftabout · 10/04/2024 21:19

the80sweregreat · 10/04/2024 20:58

She sounds nuts ! Why voluntarily volunteer to work in Asda ? No offence to the lady , but this sounds a bit bizarre !

I agree with @hoarahloux maybe have a think about why this woman might be volunteering there.

ToastandJamandTea · 10/04/2024 21:17

The woman has found purpose in something she clearly enjoys and is trying to help other people. We have no idea of her needs or circumstances.
I would either try to take her advice graciously or go to another shop?

hoarahloux · 10/04/2024 21:13

the80sweregreat · 10/04/2024 20:58

She sounds nuts ! Why voluntarily volunteer to work in Asda ? No offence to the lady , but this sounds a bit bizarre !

Have a little think. Go on, I know you can do it.

the80sweregreat · 10/04/2024 20:58

She sounds nuts ! Why voluntarily volunteer to work in Asda ? No offence to the lady , but this sounds a bit bizarre !

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