Hi there
in fully expecting to be called unreasonable but I figured I’d throw it out there anyway.
Myself and my ex share two children, one 18, the other 14, I have them both all the time.
My ex now has a new partner and for whatever reasons their relationship is long distance/over the internet for most of the time.
i also have a partner who I see every day/as much as I like. (Putting this out there as ex told me I get all time I want with my partner whilst he is limited with his)
anyway, Saturday nights are reserved for his partner (over FaceTime)
Our 14 yo has started to express an interest in staying with him two nights per week. I suggested out of fairness he does two weekends a month, and the other times could be two weekdays, I’ve been told, and also accused, by both my ex and his new partner of trying to barrier his relationship (ffs no I just feel like It’s fair to split)
his arguement is, because my relationship is with a man who’s local and his lives 90km from our home town, that he should get his weekends with his new woman, as it’s all they have.
My argument is, children come first? Especially SEN children which we have.
thank you for reading x