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To think keep buying books when you haven’t read the ones you’ve got is odd

217 replies

Saymyname777 · 09/04/2024 22:18

Like having over 100 and keep buying how are you going to get through them

OP posts:
Alohamo · 10/04/2024 07:39

I opened this thread expecting to see loads of people agreeing with the OP only to find the complete opposite - thank you Mumsnet! Book buying and reading are absolutely two separate hobbies. I love finding independent book shops, great finds in charity shops, waiting for special editions of my favourites etc. My DC both also love reading and have tons of books (although I do try to use the library more for them!)
My dream is to have a home library (in the style of the one in Beauty and the Beast) but at the moment my shelves will have to suffice!

Traumdeuter · 10/04/2024 07:39

theduchessofspork · 09/04/2024 22:48

Marie Kondo says something about this doesn’t she? The moment to read something is when you buy it, if you don’t you probably never will. That’s why people keep buying new ones.

This is the total of my MK knowledge.

Marie Kondo doesn’t strike me as a vociferous reader

TokyoSushi · 10/04/2024 07:36

I love books, I love buying books. I love reading books. I have loads of unread books, I will not stop!

TubeScreamer · 10/04/2024 07:34

I have a special dedicated TBR bookcase.

Reading Involves picking the right book at the right time. I definitely have moods where I want certain specific genres - crime, history, literary fiction, trashy fiction.
I have a huge Amazon wish list and snap up books when they’re heavily discounted rather than wait until I’m in the mood to read that specific book.

unsync · 10/04/2024 07:26

You are not a book person then OP? Sounds perfectly normal to me.

Rowansiskin · 10/04/2024 07:17

HappyNewTaxYear · 09/04/2024 22:20

You don’t understand book buying.

it is in fact odd not to keep buying books.

This!!!

Acapulco12 · 10/04/2024 07:16

imforeverblowingbuttons · 10/04/2024 05:46

I read at random pockets of the day - after eating, evening, in the bath, morning, bed time.

I find once I start a book if I am drawn to it I will want to keep picking it up. I think you need to pick a book off the shelf you will enjoy and allocate 15 minutes to it tonight. See if it suck's you in.

I only buy favourite books. I use a library mostly, which is good as it's a time limit to read them.

I'm also in two book clubs so have those to read every month

Your advice is spot on - thanks! Funnily enough, I started to read a book last night after feeling inspired by this thread, and definitely feel it’s sucked me in.

MamaDollyorJesus · 10/04/2024 07:12

theduchessofspork · 09/04/2024 22:48

Marie Kondo says something about this doesn’t she? The moment to read something is when you buy it, if you don’t you probably never will. That’s why people keep buying new ones.

This is the total of my MK knowledge.

Well she's blethering rubbish - I started a book on Sunday that's been sitting on my bedside table for 3 years!

I have 2 other physical books sitting there that I'll get to at some point, (I also have Mr Large in Charge sitting there because DGS thinks that's where his books go too), a box of them under my bed & god only knows how many on my kindle.

Ladylalaboo1 · 10/04/2024 06:31

Did my husband write this ?! 🤣 seriously , it's two separate things. I see books I know I will read at some point but once I'm finished with the book I'm on I won't necessarily fancy that particular book I've just bought. We are moving soon and I've bought a huge bookcase to make myself a mini library in the new house and I cannot wait to have this little book nook with all these books at my disposal ready for me to pick and choose from. Would be pretty boring if it only contained ones I'd read and an extra one ready for me to read. I also have a kindle which I like to read shorter easier books on occasionally. And if I book is really good on the kindle I buy the hard copy! It's a hobby op , we are book lovers ♥️

earlyretirement · 10/04/2024 06:29

OMG these responses have made me feel so normal! 🤣 (looks at pile of half-read books on bedside table)

thanks!

garlictwist · 10/04/2024 06:20

I always read all the books I buy but don't always finish them. I feel guilty keeping the ones I haven't enjoyed and have given up on as it makes my shelves look like I am more well read than I am. I just gave up on Salman Rushdie's Midnight's Children yesterday for example (anyone read it? I just couldn't...).

Toomuchgoingon79 · 10/04/2024 06:16

I've found my people!

110APiccadilly · 10/04/2024 06:14

It depends. I have probably over 1000 books and I've read most of them, but I have some I've bought for reference or to read to the children when they're older. If I saw a good book at a reasonable price then I certainly wouldn't let the fact I've got some books I haven't read put me off buying it!

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 10/04/2024 06:03

Someone described our house as having 'second hand bookshop vibes'. It was probably meant as an insult. I was flattered 🤣
I can't walk past a charity shop or a second hand bookshop without having to go in and have a nose at their books.

ArcticBells · 10/04/2024 06:00

My pile of books keeps on growing thankfully Grin

Bjorkdidit · 10/04/2024 05:57

I'm a total convert to my kindle, which means reading a paper book feels odd to me now and I also read a lot in bed so its better for that too.

I have about 1000 unread books, all of which have been 99 p offers as I only allow myself to buy them when the books I want get to that price.

But I do also have a bookcase full of non fiction, coffee table books, travel guides etc and another bookcase in the kitchen full of cookbooks.

And I spent a happy hour browsing Waterstones the other day where I could have added many more books to my wishlist, but I just bought a hiking guide I wanted.

imforeverblowingbuttons · 10/04/2024 05:46

Acapulco12 · 09/04/2024 22:20

Oh dear - you’ve just described me 🤣🤣 I will read the ones I have one day!! There are so many on my bookshelf that I want to read, but I have an awful attention span and spend hours on my phone instead of reading. I really should do something about it haha. Anyone got any tips?

I read at random pockets of the day - after eating, evening, in the bath, morning, bed time.

I find once I start a book if I am drawn to it I will want to keep picking it up. I think you need to pick a book off the shelf you will enjoy and allocate 15 minutes to it tonight. See if it suck's you in.

I only buy favourite books. I use a library mostly, which is good as it's a time limit to read them.

I'm also in two book clubs so have those to read every month

Natsku · 10/04/2024 05:23

Maybe some of us are scared of running out of reading material because that used to happen loads as children, when we couldn't just get more!

I certainly am. The idea of not having something to read scares me, so I always make sure I have plenty of books waiting to be read. This served me well when lockdown happened and the libraries closed - I was prepared and had a big pile of books I got out of the library as soon as they started talking about closing them, plus all the books that I've bought over the years but not read yet. Did not run out of reading material.

GBooArt · 10/04/2024 05:16

Such a waste of money! Try visiting the local library ;-)

sashh · 10/04/2024 05:07

I'm a bit weird with my reading.

I was reading in the garden a few years ago. It was a lovely sunny day. I was trying to read a Rebus book, set in a cold wet Edinburgh.

My brain could not cope with the cold wet and the lovely sunshine.

I had to swap to something else.

Now I have a kindle and download things I like the look of but might not read for a while.

GogAndMagog · 10/04/2024 04:51

DP said to me yesterday evening shall we have a car boot sale, waved at my bookcases, and said for this lot?

I think that's grounds for separation!

I've got a pile on my bedside cabinet -- I'm working my way through. Not counting all the holds on Libby and 200 samples downloaded on my Kindle.--

WatermelonLou · 10/04/2024 04:45

I've got so many books on my night stand and can get rather annoyed at not being able to have the energy to read them, or the time. It's my plan to make time shortly once I've got kiddies in a better routine. Easter holidays are full on

cerisepanther73 · 10/04/2024 04:43

🤣@Saymyname777

Starseeking · 10/04/2024 04:43

I do this lol

cerisepanther73 · 10/04/2024 04:42

@Saymyname777

Thanks for so entertainely so judgemental about people like myself,

I see it also akin like a form of home decour or home ornaments of libarey of books with eye catching artisically designed covers reaveling tanitilising glimpse into a different parellell world ect,

Pure escapism is like magic