My neurologist asked the GP to prescribe a medication to help with a medical condition. The medication is one can cause birth defects. I spoke to the pharmacist this morning who called to say she was putting the request through to the GP. The pharmacist messaged that afternoon to say the GP has refused to prescribe unless I go on hormonal contraception or the copper coil. He has claimed that guidelines say he can't prescribe if I refuse the above types of contraception.
I want to complain about this for several reasons:
- My husband is completely infertile. He had multiple samples of testicular tissue biopsied and it was confirmed he has a condition that means his sperm count will always be 0. The only way I'm getting pregnant is with a sperm donor. I obviously can't do this by accident. The pharmacist made the GP aware of this because she called me this morning and said contraception is recommended, so I said I'm not on contraception and disclosed about my husband.
- I checked the guidelines myself. NICE guidelines state the need for effective contraception must be expressed. The BNF says effective contraception must be advised. On gov.uk there is a 2022 safety review of the medication that states health care practitioners "should fully inform the patients of the risks and advise them of the need to use highly effective contraception". Nowhere specifies what contraception should be used, and none of the above bodies specify that medication should not be prescribed if long term contraception is refused. The only thing I can find is that alternative medications can be offered if the medication is long term and the patient doesn't want to use any form of contraception.
- Condoms and abstinence are also effective forms of contraception. If I were a man these would be recommended as they're the only available form of effective male contraception. It seems discriminatory to suddenly decide they're not considered effective contraception just because I have a vagina.
- I'm an adult with full capacity. I have the right to make an informed decision about what I put into my body.
In all honesty it just feels a bit like the GP has refused my prescription and intentionally given me misinformation about the guidelines to try and coerce me into going onto a contraceptive that he deems the most effective, rather than allowing me to make an informed decision based on my own personal circumstances. I know this is dramatic and I won't put that in my complaint but I just needed to get that thought out of my system
AIBU if I complain?