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The Police have not helped me

27 replies

ApplesOnWards · 09/04/2024 16:24

I hope someone can help.

I made a complaint against someone who had intimidated me, assaulted me and damaged my property; a police officer attended and told me they spoke to the person and the person apologised.

The matter was then completely dropped by the police and I was offered counselling. However I'm not happy with this, I want to complain as the person is escalating their behaviour with further intimidation and damage now that they've got away with everything so far!

They are very clever and it's impossible to gain actual evidence.

Can I request the recordings of the police speaking to the person, and them apologising (therefore admitting it) and can I request the statements/any more info from the police? Who should I complain to?

Any help would be so appreciated.

This person is a young male, as a single female I feel vulnerable, and I have a feeling he wouldn't be doing what he's doing if I was male or had a husband.

OP posts:
Jf20 · 09/04/2024 16:30

Idideridest · 09/04/2024 16:26

I wouldn’t hold your breath. One problem with the police is that they think their 6 week induction programme actually teaches them about the law.

Prize for the first person to mention their useless degree. Social and academic failures make their way to the police in order to try to force people to respect them.

What an odd response, and its 22 weeks induction.Confused

op, I doubt they recorded it, but you can ask. If the person is continuing then report again.

Idideridest · 09/04/2024 16:26

I wouldn’t hold your breath. One problem with the police is that they think their 6 week induction programme actually teaches them about the law.

Prize for the first person to mention their useless degree. Social and academic failures make their way to the police in order to try to force people to respect them.