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To thinknit's a bit shit that we have to compromise our true political beliefs to getbtories out/ keep Starmer out/ insert political party you hate?

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malificent7 · 09/04/2024 10:56

For example, I really value the green party but they stand no chance and i'd rather vote to get rid of our Tory seat. I'd rather vote labour than lib dem but in our constituency it's best to vote lib dems if you want the Tory mp out.
Tbh they are all shit in one way or another with the left and their fixation on gender stuff but i cannot tolerate Tory policy any longer.

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Workoutinthepark · 27/06/2024 17:28

malificent7 · 09/04/2024 10:56

For example, I really value the green party but they stand no chance and i'd rather vote to get rid of our Tory seat. I'd rather vote labour than lib dem but in our constituency it's best to vote lib dems if you want the Tory mp out.
Tbh they are all shit in one way or another with the left and their fixation on gender stuff but i cannot tolerate Tory policy any longer.

I don't think so...I think what power do I have, and how can I use it to best protect ourselves? For me that means no Tories and no reform and will vote however I need to, to help that happen.

qwertyasdfgzxcv · 27/06/2024 17:05

Now we've left the EU any future party can change a lot of our legislation that we take for granted and that is frightening. I would have considered labour in the past, but they are already taking advantage of leaving the EU and I certainly won't be going near reform which means probably Conservative.

fliptopbin · 27/06/2024 17:02

SerendipityJane · 09/04/2024 12:28

The run up to the AV vote was very short, considering it was (supposedly) about changing a fundamental part of our system.

There was also an incredible rump of stupid who voted against it because it "wasn't proper PR". Ultimately I don't think they would have swung it, but it was a harsh light on the critical think of the average person.

Also, I seem to remember that the referendum date coincided with a big world event (although I cannot remember what it was.) So coverage on polling day was overshadowed and very few people voted.

Magnastorm · 27/06/2024 16:55

brunettemic · 27/06/2024 08:45

We were given the choice of that and it was soundly rejected by the public.

No, we were given a vote on AV, which is not PR.

I still think those who voted against it on that basis were stupid, but AV is not PR, it's just slightly less shit than FPTP.

SweetChilliSauces · 27/06/2024 08:55

I vote for who I think is the least worst akin to my own values and opinions and never vote tactically.

@CantDealwithChristmas the stats and you are bang on the money.

In 2015 under PR we would have had 82 UKIP seats and 24 seats for the Green Party the Conservatives would have still won but lost seats as would have Labour and the SNP would have had 25 seats instead of 50.

PR would have given a Government more in tune with what the population wanted overall but many wouldn’t have liked it.

brunettemic · 27/06/2024 08:45

SallyWD · 09/04/2024 11:06

That's why we need proportional representation

We were given the choice of that and it was soundly rejected by the public.

RobynRB · 27/06/2024 08:41

Not really the point I'm making though. It doesn't matter which party we're talking about the same logic applies, no one votes for them because no one voted for them last time so it's a wasted vote. This was what went wrong with the Lib Dems, they started to get some traction and actually seemed credible. If they hadn't got into bed with the Conservatives it would have been interesting to see how they would have performed at the next election. A lesson for aspiring governments there, don't blow it at the first opportunity because it's probably just going to undermine your growth.

ntmdino · 27/06/2024 03:53

RobynRB · 27/06/2024 00:11

The Greens don't stand a chance because you don't vote for them because they don't stand a chance. You have to take a longer view. If more people voted for them this time then next time more people will be persuaded it's not a waste of time. Change takes time, unfortunately. And yes, PR would solve the problem

No, the Greens don't stand a chance because, if anyone actually knew what was in their manifesto, they'd be laughed out of every election for being no more sophisticated than a GCSE Politics group project.

An environmentally-aware party is a good thing, but it doesn't make for a functional government.

RobynRB · 27/06/2024 00:11

malificent7 · 09/04/2024 10:56

For example, I really value the green party but they stand no chance and i'd rather vote to get rid of our Tory seat. I'd rather vote labour than lib dem but in our constituency it's best to vote lib dems if you want the Tory mp out.
Tbh they are all shit in one way or another with the left and their fixation on gender stuff but i cannot tolerate Tory policy any longer.

The Greens don't stand a chance because you don't vote for them because they don't stand a chance. You have to take a longer view. If more people voted for them this time then next time more people will be persuaded it's not a waste of time. Change takes time, unfortunately. And yes, PR would solve the problem

LizTruss · 12/05/2024 19:52

I know what you mean.

You do your best but it seems that sometimes that is...

JUST NOT GOOD ENOUGH

SlowerMovingVehicle · 12/05/2024 19:46

CantDealwithChristmas · 09/04/2024 15:49

I'm against PR because it encourages the formation and electoral success of extreme parties. Under PR UKIP would've had a fair few seats, probably Reform UK now, look at the AfD in Germany, the far right parties doing well in Netherlands and Sweden etc etc

We have extreme now. Extremely shite. Very damaging. The longer the tories' extreme greed and indifference to everyone but themselves is allowed to fester, the more extreme society's response will be, surely.

Everything in the UK is about money now, everything. It's unliveable, almost.

SlowerMovingVehicle · 12/05/2024 19:39

Breaking the red tory-blue tory deadlock is the first step towards a new system. It's a long road. Vote whichever way you have to, to get them removed.

SammyScrounge · 09/04/2024 21:07

SallyWD · 09/04/2024 11:06

That's why we need proportional representation

That's how Scotland wound up with crazy Greens like LornaSlater and their ridiculous policies.

Papyrophile · 09/04/2024 17:16

Monster Raving Loony Party all the way!

SerendipityJane · 09/04/2024 17:09

OnHerSolidFoundations · 09/04/2024 17:06

Yes. But for the love of GOD, let's Vote The F*ing Tories OUT!!! 🙏

Indeed.

It takes time - years - to become as corrupt and venal as the Tories are. (Admittedly they didn't have so far to travel). By the same token it would be impossible - administratively and politically - for any incoming government to start off that that level of self serving. So let's aim for that window of opportunity and then be ready to kick Labour out when they have developed "inpoweritis".

OnHerSolidFoundations · 09/04/2024 17:06

Yes. But for the love of GOD, let's Vote The F*ing Tories OUT!!! 🙏

AdamRyan · 09/04/2024 17:00

CantDealwithChristmas · 09/04/2024 16:51

Swedish Democrats are providing support to the moderate coalition as part of the Tido Agreement; neo Nazi AfD is polling 23% across Germany with exception of Berlin and this would translate to a significant presence in the Bundestag were there to be an election tomorrow, Meloni is in power in Italy...PR systems in my view enable these extremists whereas FPTP makes their road so difficult they tend not to bother. There's a reason why the UK has thankfully never seriously flirted with parliamentary Facism as our cousins in Europe regularly have and still do.

Hmm. Have you heard what Sunak/Braverman/Anderson etc have said recently? And noticed the rise of Reform?

Meloni and Sunak are friendly.

We are also in a precarious position but FPTP allows people to ignore it as "fascism couldn't happen under FPTP"

Boomer55 · 09/04/2024 16:54

If the polls are right, Labour will get in with a landslide.

Im more interested in the NHS, cost of living, and housing than anything else.🤷‍♀️

AdamRyan · 09/04/2024 16:52

jane you are on fire! Agree with your posts 🔥🔥

CantDealwithChristmas · 09/04/2024 16:51

LlynTegid · 09/04/2024 16:43

@CantDealwithChristmas none of the examples you refer to have been in power, whereas the current Tory party is captured by nasty right wingers and people who are incompetent by any reasonable standard.

PR also makes it easier to choose someone who may not be your normal chosen party, but has something you agree with such as local campaigning, or traditionally non-party issues. And the chance under the system used in the Irish Republic of a genuine independent person.

Swedish Democrats are providing support to the moderate coalition as part of the Tido Agreement; neo Nazi AfD is polling 23% across Germany with exception of Berlin and this would translate to a significant presence in the Bundestag were there to be an election tomorrow, Meloni is in power in Italy...PR systems in my view enable these extremists whereas FPTP makes their road so difficult they tend not to bother. There's a reason why the UK has thankfully never seriously flirted with parliamentary Facism as our cousins in Europe regularly have and still do.

SerendipityJane · 09/04/2024 16:46

The Lib Dems paid the price of being grown ups in a nursery.

RulesPolicies · 09/04/2024 16:46

Sorry, I disagree. That’s life, you have to compromise, and sometimes take the better of two options that you don’t want.

AdamRyan · 09/04/2024 16:46

YaMuvva · 09/04/2024 12:02

I’d rather cut my ear off than vote for a party that can’t define what a woman is.

Which leaves very little except Tory and I’d rather cut my arm off than vote them.

I genuinely have no idea and need to make time to really research our local candidates - a v strong Tory seat here.

The only parties that can "define what a woman is" are the SDP and Reform. There is a gnats fart between Conservative and Labour position but somehow the Tories seem to have done a better job in sounding convincing in their fudged position.

AdamRyan · 09/04/2024 16:44

gannett · 09/04/2024 11:27

I will blame the Lib Dems forever for fluking their way into a semblance of power and then fucking up the one shot this country has had (and will have for the foreseeable future) at getting rid of FPTP.

Really?
I blame the people who didn't bother to pay attention or vote in the ATV referendum, and the voters who voted to stay with FPTP.

Also the Tories for gerrymandering the boundaries in their favour.

Blaming the lib dems seems a bit much.

LlynTegid · 09/04/2024 16:43

@CantDealwithChristmas none of the examples you refer to have been in power, whereas the current Tory party is captured by nasty right wingers and people who are incompetent by any reasonable standard.

PR also makes it easier to choose someone who may not be your normal chosen party, but has something you agree with such as local campaigning, or traditionally non-party issues. And the chance under the system used in the Irish Republic of a genuine independent person.