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cloudxo · 07/04/2024 19:06

Okay I'll keep it short basically earlier on today I was upstairs sleeping with my daughter because I didn't feel well, my partner was downstairs, he was listening to the song beautiful girl by Sean Kingston.. recorded a snip of the song and sent a message to someone saying I listen to this when I miss you and the kids, initially I thought it was coming to me, but it didn't.. so I thought nothing of it and thought maybe his sister or something, it's been playing on my mind for hours I looked on his phone recently to make a call and there are no messages to his sister, just his friends and obviously it's not going to his friends.. now I'm paranoid if I mention it he's obviously going to deny and I can't prove anything either.. and it will more that likely cause an argument. So what would you do?

OP posts:
DoreenonTill8 · 07/04/2024 19:13

How do you know he sent a message if you didn't see it?

cloudxo · 07/04/2024 19:13

IncognitoUsername · 07/04/2024 19:10

How did you see the message??

He speak it into his phone rather than typing out the message

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cloudxo · 07/04/2024 19:12

curlysue1991 · 07/04/2024 19:10

Is it possible you dreamt it 🤦‍♀️

I was definitely awake, he thought I was sleeping but I was just laying down doing some emails

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cloudxo · 07/04/2024 19:11

cardibach · 07/04/2024 19:08

I don’t understand. How do you know about the message if it didn't come to you?

He speaks it in to his phone rather than typing it

OP posts:
IncognitoUsername · 07/04/2024 19:10

How did you see the message??

curlysue1991 · 07/04/2024 19:10

Is it possible you dreamt it 🤦‍♀️

cardibach · 07/04/2024 19:08

I don’t understand. How do you know about the message if it didn't come to you?

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