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AIBU to be angry about the benefits system

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Daffodilsinfebruary · 07/04/2024 16:23

I have recently discovered by using a free, independent benefits calculator called entitledto that had I applied for Universal Credit over 2 years ago, me and my family would be over £16,000 better off.

I had assumed that benefits were for either single-parent families or people unable to work due to disability.

The majority of our savings would have been from claiming 85% back in childcare costs. We also would have had a payout of over £200 each month in addition.

For context, we bring in just shy off £4,000 a month. I thought this was a very reasonable income and we would be entitled to nil.

I feel angry that we did not know about this. A friend of mine who I met through our children attending the same nursery told me she claims 85% back in childcare costs during a conversation in which I complained of my childcare going up £150.

I did further research and 19 billion pounds apparently goes unclaimed every year.

I’ve never claimed benefits in all my life and worked hard to get on the property ladder.

should I be angry that we didn’t claim, or take it in my stride.

I wonder how many other families who could have claimed but haven’t.

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Calamitousness · 08/04/2024 12:27

@WithACatLikeTread i didn’t think she was claiming. I agree. No need to claim. Don’t claim. I get so hacked off at posters who claim for everything possible then whine that their savings are prohibiting further claims. Their savings are from benefits. Not ok. Benefits should be needed. Every single penny. Where do people think the money comes from? Leave it for those in real need.

XenoBitch · 08/04/2024 10:30

Surely your figures are wrong? Aside form childcare and child benefit,

It boggles my mind how someone with a household income of £60k+, with no housing costs, would be entitled to some sort of top up.

It is madness when people who are unable to work, are expected to be grateful for the little over £700pm in UC.

Something I am angry at is the work allowance thing. I am on UC (LCWA) and if I tried a little part time job, 55p will be stopped for every £1 I earn (I have no kids). Working for half the minimum wage... no thanks. Yet my friend on ESA (also childless) can work for up to 16 hours a week and get to keep all her money.

Willyoujustbequiet · 08/04/2024 10:26

Nicetobenice67 · 07/04/2024 16:39

Ffs £4000 though

And yet my newly disabled friend without children received less than £400 per month and ultimately lost her home because of it.

It's a broken system when the most vulnerable can't afford food and the wealthier get support.

SplitFountainPen · 08/04/2024 10:24

Angelsrose · 07/04/2024 18:28

Op I think you make some good points. I can understand your frustration. However I really do not understand how a household earning £4000 monthly can be entitled to anything outside of child benefit?

Likely very high rent. If someone is paying eg. 1200 in rent then as long as its within their eligible amount their entitlement will go up by 1200, then 60p will be taken off their payout for each £1 earnt, so when you factor in high childcare costs too then the starting figure can be huge and end up at a few hundred still.

PomPomDahlia27 · 08/04/2024 10:19

Daffodilsinfebruary · 07/04/2024 16:31

I am angry at myself, I was aware of the 20% Government top up on tax free childcare that I claim.

in 2019 before I got pregnant, I had a look to see if we were entitled to any help and we weren’t. So the government must have updated the criteria since then.

It did not dawn on me to check again.

Me and my husband do not struggle and have plenty of disposable income. We do not need the benefits to get by.

I suppose I am also angry that Tax Payers money Is being claimed by couples in the same position as us to have an even better lifestyle.

i thought benefits were for people who could not afford to live, yet me and my DH can afford to live and have luxuries yet would still be able to claim. Just feel this is wrong. Surely we should be able to keep more of our tax.

The system seems broken.

THIS is the real problem.

The benefits system is a safety net for those who need help. Perhaps if you'd been struggling before you would (like many others) have been scouring all the info out there to see if there was more help available.

Why on earth are you going to claim a benefit that you don't need?

WithACatLikeTread · 08/04/2024 10:14

bellezarara · 08/04/2024 07:37

Please link thread 🙏

Money section.

WithACatLikeTread · 08/04/2024 10:14

Calamitousness · 08/04/2024 07:34

This just shows what is wrong with the system where people think they should claim because they are ‘entitled to ‘ Benefits should be as the OP says very clearly, only for those in absolute need who cannot work/earn enough for whatever valid reason.

So why is OP claiming then?

MikeRafone · 08/04/2024 09:09

Calamitousness · 08/04/2024 07:34

This just shows what is wrong with the system where people think they should claim because they are ‘entitled to ‘ Benefits should be as the OP says very clearly, only for those in absolute need who cannot work/earn enough for whatever valid reason.

Successive governments since 1997 have changed that, the reason being, previously it was all or nothing benefits system.

so you either worked and got paid or you were unemployed and got benefits- it didn’t work for some people. Take a single parent, if they worked all there money went on childcare

so U.K. looked at Australian system of tapering benefits when working, so work paid

but now you have over the last 26 years employers who have benefited from this system - as they’ve been able to keep wages lower. The government tops them up with benefits

working benefits would be great and are for keeping people in work and making working worthwhile for many

but no system is perfect and it was brought in with decent intention of helping the working poor

bellezarara · 08/04/2024 07:37

WithACatLikeTread · 07/04/2024 17:37

I am extremely tempted to swear on that thread! 🤣

Please link thread 🙏

Calamitousness · 08/04/2024 07:34

This just shows what is wrong with the system where people think they should claim because they are ‘entitled to ‘ Benefits should be as the OP says very clearly, only for those in absolute need who cannot work/earn enough for whatever valid reason.

Vettrianofan · 08/04/2024 07:15

EveningLanternWalk · 08/04/2024 03:26

I believe that the Government has also published unclaimed benefits for pensioners like
Some people have been struggling, when there is more help available

However, they do need to apply, because it is not automatic

Pension credit
Winter fuel allowance
Attendance allowance

I can quite believe that. DP have both just applied for attendance allowance. Dmum just got awarded highest rate. DDad awaiting the outcome of his. DBro helped them apply as they knew nothing about it.

5128gap · 08/04/2024 07:14

I'm struggling to understand a situation where people are both entitled to UC, but also in so little need of it they have plenty of disposable income and would have accrued £16k in excess income had they claimed. In my experience of working with people entitled to benefits those not claiming have without exception been either living more frugally than reasonable, being supported by family or struggling and accruing debt. Are you saying that had you known you could get help with childcare you'd have claimed, but made other childcare arrangements because you didn't? Otherwise your situation is very rare, and I wouldnt say reflective of the benefit system, which, although broken in many ways, communication bring one of them, typically cannot be faulted for its over generosity.

MelissaLouRocks · 08/04/2024 07:12

I'm more angry that approx. £19 billion goes unclaimed every year. Yet they are persecuting the disabled yet again, when many don't have enough to eat or pay for there care.

Vettrianofan · 08/04/2024 07:07

bluetopazlove · 08/04/2024 00:18

Well known nobody tells you what you are entitled to . Although I do remember years ago , your Dr was allowed to tell you can claim for an illness , now they're not allowed to tell you .

I wonder why this is. I have always wondered why more don't claim DLA who would qualify for it.

Vettrianofan · 08/04/2024 07:01

Spectre8 · 07/04/2024 22:08

Sorry but i dont why are you allowed to claim for rent when you have a job earning 4k a month.

Maybe she doesn't qualify for a mortgage.

Daffodilsinfebruary · 08/04/2024 06:49

Overall I think I was misinformed as the 85% back in childcare costs is after a very complex calculation taking into account earnings, actual childcare costs, number of children etc. It technically isn’t 85% for everyone who applies to Universal Credit. So I take back what I posted in my OP.

There is so much hassle involved in claiming I should have probably put the claim through last October when I began paying 2 lots of childcare costs and would have benefited for a while. Now it seems to complicated putting the application through and now I’m worried if I will be able to use the Tax-Free childcare in September when my child attends morning and afternoon club and my other one goes to nursery and I have to pay for additional hours and food. As Universal Credit and Tax Free Childcare are 2 separate systems.

I understand why people don’t claim Universal Credit now.

I don’t think I should not be out of pocket for having children I take full responsibility, got on the property ladder and had considerable savings before having them. I didn’t plan for such a large increase in my nursery costs which came into effect on the 1st April 2024 due to minimum wage increasing so much and Cost of Living Crisis.

Obviously if there is help available for childcare I would be stupid not to apply.

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Finlesswonder · 08/04/2024 06:41

Jesus I'm so sick of people who have kids acting like they shouldn't really have to be out of pocket for it.

Oblomov24 · 08/04/2024 04:52

£4,000 monthly Net is Annual Gross of £64,550. Why would any household on £65k be entitled to extra benefits?

Daffodilsinfebruary · 08/04/2024 03:44

I had a look to see if we would be entitled to anything when DC1 starts school in September and we would get just the £42.55 child benefit.

I am now doubting whether to actually put the claim in as although it will help for the next 4 months (gives a slightly better saving than tax free childcare), after that it wouldn’t and I’m not sure then whether I can reapply for the tax free 20% towards child care as the 15 free government hours also kicks in for DC2 lowering costs, with free hours you can still use tax-free childcare. But with UC I wouldn’t be able to claim Tax-Free.

If I claimed UC for next 4 months how easy it would be then apply for tax-free childcare again after.

The system is extremely complex.

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LostittoBostik · 08/04/2024 03:28

The government is very sneaky in not making it clear that it's easy to apply and many working people on lower incomes qualify for support.

People talk about benefit frUd but that's a tiny issue - unclaimed benefits swap that figure

EveningLanternWalk · 08/04/2024 03:26

I believe that the Government has also published unclaimed benefits for pensioners like
Some people have been struggling, when there is more help available

However, they do need to apply, because it is not automatic

Pension credit
Winter fuel allowance
Attendance allowance

HarraKiri · 08/04/2024 01:13

@Spectre8 - I'm glad the previous poster explained it to you. It's not that my rent is paid (because my rent is £1.3K a month and my childcare is £1.2K a month, and in total I received around £1.1K that month in UC.

If I'd had no childcare costs that month, I'd have 'only' received approx £230 that month in UC. So whilst you and I have the same income, I have 3 kids to cover school uniform / school trips / birthday and Christmas gifts / birthday gifts for kids friends / kids hobbies and sport / kids clothing and footwear / toiletries / haircuts for kids / god knows what else, with about £230 more than you have, when you have no kids. Honestly, UC doesn't mean someone is rolling in it, I promise. It doesn't even cover the childcare costs of me working, let alone all the travel costs I have for work.

I know UC is meant to be a benefit that encourages people to work, but I can assure you I would be better off not working and getting free school meals/ free prescriptions, and being able to spend time with my kids rather than having them in childcare for almost 10 hours every day etc etc, but since becoming a single parent I have barely stopped in trying to better myself to earn a better income for my kids, so that hopefully one day I don't need UC at all.

Jack1975 · 08/04/2024 00:30

The SMI only kicks in after 9 months of claiming UC but if there is earnings in that 9 months you are then not eligible for the SMI

You can't use HMRC Tax account and UC to pay for childcare. If you claim UC then you can only receive help through your auC

cadburyegg · 08/04/2024 00:27

I am on a Facebook group with lots of knowledgeable admins who all say that the online benefit calculators aren't accurate. There is a formula used which is posted thread or anyone can apply for UC to see what they'd be entitled to, if anything.

SMI is a loan repayable with interest and the general advice is to avoid at all costs because most mortgage providers would be able to offer a payment holiday to people who are struggling, which works out cheaper than taking out a SMI loan.

I earn 32k a year as a single parent of 2 and get a £360ish UC top up per month which mainly pays for after school club, so a far cry off £4k a month. If I rented I would get support for housing costs but I'm in a much better position owning my own home.

I don't resent people with high childcare costs getting more because that money goes straight to the childcare provider! It doesn't go into that family's pocket as soon as childcare costs go down, whereas a family who isn't entitled to help towards childcare gets to keep that money as the costs fall.

ThinkOnIt · 08/04/2024 00:23

I find it worse that, as a single parent with 2 children and earning 3k a month (if you count child maintenance from their Dad, much less if you don't count that in), and yet I don't qualify for any UC.

Weird how it works that you, with 4K income, do.