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camel ride when I weigh 15stone

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KathySeldon · 06/04/2024 19:32

Husband wats to book a camel ride on holiday next week.
I'm feeling that I am too heavy to go on a camel.
AIBU to think that?

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SabreIsMyFave · 10/04/2024 12:24

HoldingTheDoor · 09/04/2024 19:53

I feel a bit shit about that, and hate myself for my stupid ignorance.

You’re certainly not thick and ignorant, @SabreIsMyFave You’ve read the information and decided never to support it again which makes you quite the opposite of thick and ignorant.

We’ve probably all done things that we aren’t proud of and wouldn’t do now because back then we didn’t know better. It’s impossible to know about every issue. What matters is what you do with the knowledge once you’ve acquired it and you and the OP have decided not to contribute to the misery so please don’t put yourself down like that.

Lovely post, thank you @HoldingTheDoor 😘

CheeryPye · 10/04/2024 09:46

Personally I think nothing is acceptable. Camels shouldn't be exploited for our entertainment. They aren't meant to be ridden. I know a really overweight girl who is in a perpetual state of denial and can't seem to work out why her horse always goes lame and has to have stable rest all week because of back problems every time she has forced herself on it and ridden the poor thing for over an hour. It's obvious to everyone else who knows her why her horse suffers so much pain. She however seems completely oblivious.

DaisyDaisyDaisyDaisyDaisyDaisy · 10/04/2024 09:42

@ZsaZsaTheCat there is one hell of a difference between googling general information about an animal online and witnessing what happens to said animal with your own eyes on a daily basis. Domesticated doesn't mean anything goes. Dogs are domesticated. Does that mean dog breeders can punch, kick and abuse the dogs as long as they provide him with a living?

Maddie212 · 10/04/2024 09:39

ZsaZsaTheCat · 10/04/2024 09:23

👏 to all you arm chair protesters!

Camels were domesticated around 4000 yrs BC, roughly the same time as horses. I just cannot believe the ignorance on this thread about people making a living in another country by offering camel rides. How is this different to horse rides?

Of course you avoid anything with poor animal welfare but otherwise this is fine. In fact you would be supporting local people instead of buying plastic tat from China.
I wonder how many of you buy rip off handbags abroad?

We're talking about animal welfare here Zsa Zsa unless you think 150+ posters here are all vegan. We don't object to horse or camel riding in principle

Bellaboo01 · 10/04/2024 09:36

KathySeldon · 06/04/2024 19:32

Husband wats to book a camel ride on holiday next week.
I'm feeling that I am too heavy to go on a camel.
AIBU to think that?

I would say that - Yes you are too heavy to ride on a camel, especially as i assume it is 'just for fun' etc!

OutOfTheHouse · 10/04/2024 09:32

ZsaZsaTheCat · 10/04/2024 09:23

👏 to all you arm chair protesters!

Camels were domesticated around 4000 yrs BC, roughly the same time as horses. I just cannot believe the ignorance on this thread about people making a living in another country by offering camel rides. How is this different to horse rides?

Of course you avoid anything with poor animal welfare but otherwise this is fine. In fact you would be supporting local people instead of buying plastic tat from China.
I wonder how many of you buy rip off handbags abroad?

If I went to a riding school in the U.K. or took the children for ride on the Blackpool Beach donkeys I know that certain welfare standards have been met.

I can personally vouch for the way the Blackpool Donkeys are cared for. In some other counties they are not cared for to the same standards. You can cry racism all you like but it’s true.

Supporting local people to undertake a job that means they are making a living from animal abuse. If people stop using it they will stop doing it.

ZsaZsaTheCat · 10/04/2024 09:23

👏 to all you arm chair protesters!

Camels were domesticated around 4000 yrs BC, roughly the same time as horses. I just cannot believe the ignorance on this thread about people making a living in another country by offering camel rides. How is this different to horse rides?

Of course you avoid anything with poor animal welfare but otherwise this is fine. In fact you would be supporting local people instead of buying plastic tat from China.
I wonder how many of you buy rip off handbags abroad?

KathySeldon · 09/04/2024 23:34

I can honestly say that marrakech is the most bonkers, and fantastic place on earth. If you get half a chance, go!

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HoldingTheDoor · 09/04/2024 19:53

I feel a bit shit about that, and hate myself for my stupid ignorance.

You’re certainly not thick and ignorant, @SabreIsMyFave You’ve read the information and decided never to support it again which makes you quite the opposite of thick and ignorant.

We’ve probably all done things that we aren’t proud of and wouldn’t do now because back then we didn’t know better. It’s impossible to know about every issue. What matters is what you do with the knowledge once you’ve acquired it and you and the OP have decided not to contribute to the misery so please don’t put yourself down like that.

SabreIsMyFave · 09/04/2024 17:16

Ok ok.
im in Morocco and we’re not doing a camel ride. I have read every comment.

Even worse than camel riding - imo- is the dressed up monkeys with a chain lead. Not sure what I think about snake charmers either. Mad country in many ways!

Well done for not doing the camel ride @KathySeldonSmile

I admit I was ignorant about the treatment of this majestic creature and didn't know they were abused for the pleasure of humans. I know some people will think I'm a bit thick and ignorant for saying that, but it just didn't occur to me. I feel a bit shit about that, and hate myself for my stupid ignorance.

If I ever go to North Africa, I will never do a camel ride! Thank you to the posters on here for bringing this fact up, and educating me. Flowers

effoffwind · 09/04/2024 16:53

Well done Kathy
Sorry you've had some harsh comments on here
The point of animal welfare was well pointed out a while ago , no need for the other shitty comments
Sooner these people realise we won't support any kind of animal cruelty , hopefully they'll stop parading them for our pleasure

KathySeldon · 09/04/2024 14:15

Ok ok.
im in Morocco and we’re not doing a camel ride.
I have read every comment.
even worse than camel riding - imo- is the dressed up monkeys with a chain lead.
not sure what I think about snake charmers either.
mad country in many ways!

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titchy · 08/04/2024 21:01

Validus · 08/04/2024 12:23

Where are you all going where the camels are chained? I rode a camel in the desert 30 years ago and there were no chains. When did that start?

They were in Egypt 30 years ago - all hobbled. And the donkeys with scars across their rumps. Sad

Seriously people please don't. These animals are not cared for or treated well.

wintersgold · 08/04/2024 20:45

AllPrincessAnneshorses · 07/04/2024 22:50

They are beasts of burden...not pets.

They are sentient beings deserving of compassion and fair treatment, end of.

wintersgold · 08/04/2024 20:43

Shabnamsshoos · 07/04/2024 16:38

Are you comparing racist attitudes & the inhumane treatment of enslaved humans to animals? This is massively inappropriate, offensive and poorly worded.

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They're not. They're demonstrating that a practice can be commonly accepted and immoral at the same time. Astounded at some people's lack of reading comprehension, honestly

Validus · 08/04/2024 12:23

Where are you all going where the camels are chained? I rode a camel in the desert 30 years ago and there were no chains. When did that start?

DaisyDaisyDaisyDaisyDaisyDaisy · 08/04/2024 12:02

@RainbowFlutter 'ignore the meanies?' Are you for real? The punching kicking whipping and flogging of the animals doesn't concern you AT ALL??

MrsSkylerWhite · 08/04/2024 11:01

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HoldingTheDoor · 06/04/2024 19:39
The camels are often treated terribly and cruelly trained. Your weight is the least of the issues regarding tourists going on camel rides.

This. Please don’t.

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TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 08/04/2024 10:57

They may be concerned that you would start out the ride on a dromedary camel 🐪 but bring back a bactrian camel 🐫.

MrsFionaCharnimg · 08/04/2024 10:42

RainbowFlutter · 08/04/2024 10:33

Hey OP, quick Google shows camels can carry up to 23 stone. I'd just go. Ignore the meanies. Camels are meant to carry big loads, if it's not little you, it'll be a bigger person who's just not thought about it.

Have a good holiday.

"Ignore the meanies op, camels can carry big loads".

Irony is lost on you.

Also participating in animal abuse is worse than online meanies.

RainbowFlutter · 08/04/2024 10:33

Hey OP, quick Google shows camels can carry up to 23 stone. I'd just go. Ignore the meanies. Camels are meant to carry big loads, if it's not little you, it'll be a bigger person who's just not thought about it.

Have a good holiday.

Knicksandnocks · 08/04/2024 09:59

I have seen pack-camels that regularly carry more than 120kg
General welfare is much more important than your 95kg

CeriB82 · 08/04/2024 06:45

Please don’t. Totally unfair on the camel.

and have you seen clips of the camel who couldn’t get up because of the weight?

MrsFionaCharnimg · 07/04/2024 22:58

trythisforsize · 06/04/2024 21:11

On the other hand, if you don't go, don't pay to ride, camel owner has less money, camel gets less food...

. . . or camel owner accept there's no money in this anymore and finds another trade

Exactly

Continue to support an unethical trade to ensure animal gets fed?

Yes, buy more exotic tigers, puppy farm dogs, rude abused elephants, buy lipstick tested on beagles... won't get fed otherwise

😑

AllPrincessAnneshorses · 07/04/2024 22:50

MummyFriend · 06/04/2024 19:34

I personally don't think it's fair on the poor camel, but then I think that about any adult on one!

They are beasts of burden...not pets.