To ask what your biggest problem in life is at the moment?

A close relative has just been diagnosed with cancer.
I have my own chronic illness to deal with that makes me very fatigued. Plus I'm recovering from covid at the moment.
The cost of living increasing more and more. We're ok but I worry so much about others in worse situations.
Sorry for everyone going through a rough time.

I would wink myself out of existence. My job us almost good enough to keep us above water, but not enough to afford a home. If things were fair, I would be being paid more, but that's for the men in my line of work--literally my employer just employed a bloke at the salary scale above me whose metrics are almost as good as mine. If I wasn't here my H and our kids could move back to our country of origin, and the insurance would pay for a home for them.

And TBH, I don't feel like anyone would miss me anyway. The two people who supposedly care most about me in life have shown me over and over and over again that I don't mean anything to them. My parents wanted me to be so different than I am, and never hid it. I'm probably autistic, never diagnosed, but that can't change my childhood.

And my darling cat died late last year, and I just can't seem to get over it, even a bit. I know she was "just a cat", but she was so special to me. My family all seem to be over it.

I could do something about all of this if I wasn't so damn tired, but I have to juggle everything. I won't kill myself, because that would be traumatic for everyone, but if I could wave a wand, I wouldn't be here anymore.

My 16 uear old DD has very low attendance,due to undiagnosed mental.health issues. Despite 4 rounds of funded counselling and lot of of support from school, her choice of college have told her her attendance must significantly improve. She had a great interview, practiceand prepped answers that really impressed us. She passed her mocks with the required grades as she does schoolwork at home when unable to go in. There is no allowance for explaining low attendance. Her current MH worker is going to try harder to get an actual diagnosis rather then low mood put down on paper noone sees.
My DD believes she is autistic,a fact she has come to after seeing her sisters progress into getting diagnosed,13year old DD displays very different t traits but we have no doubt both are.
16 year old DD has been at an all.time low all Easter holidays, leaving the house 3 times, she has ceased all revision and I have little hope of her attendsxhook Monday.
Her school totally support is as pare ts and know we she trying all we can, but equally secondary school environment is too much for her.

I'm so worried that college won't accept her and then what will be her options?

A fuckbroid causing constipation to the other way - nhs scan and specialists want to get to spec savers … oh but we’re not allowed to talk bad of the nhs.

A mate who was end of life this time last week, had a DNR cos the fight against obesity is just a small’un,

@Dibbydoos I'm sorry to hear that. My girls didn't get on when they lived together but one moved out and they can be very close at times now. Sorry for your loss 💐

I'm super morbidly obese and exhausted by if.

I can feel myself disliking my job more and more. I had an interview on Friday for a job I think I would like and it didn't go well I don't think.

My disability

My kids don't get on. My 22yo DD moved out today. I'm heart broken. My 21 yo DS is going to help me get the house ready for sale, he will then go too.
If I could put it all right my DH wouldn't have died in 2016 because it's due to that they can no longer live together - grief is horrendous:(

Mid 50s and my fellas has started ghosting me. I'm feeling low and lost. I feel frumpy, menopause has kicked in!
But none of thos compares to what a lot of you are dealing with.
Sending hugs to all 🙏x

My daughter is dead.
Nothing else matters.
I try to care about her siblings.
They deserve to matter.
What other people think of you is none of your business.

Not sure I should be married to/with DH

Not sure I like being a mother

Frustrated by a job I like but with unrealistic expectations on me that mean I'm often asleep by 8:30

Miss being able to train/row as and when I wanted

Miss myself

He sounds a lovely boy.
Being young can be very hard.

My son {now over 6 foot and an adult} used to be small sized for his class, and young looking {July birthday so youngest in his year}

He too was bullied.. but lost it and actually punched the bully.

It got him and the bully suspended for a few days...but worth it, as he was never bullied again .

It is scary being bullied, but if he can find the strength to stand up for himself {punching probably not a great idea in retrospect!} he will be respected more by his classmates.

It's horrible but kids can be like ''animals''..and they prey on who they perceive as 'weak'.

Your son obviously has strengths, and he won't always be unhappy.

Being a tween/young teen is horrible.

At a school reunion, years later, he towered over the bully , who actually apologised and said ''I don't know why we picked on you''.. Best of luck to your son.

Chronic pain.

To Ella and those who have same issues going on I am so terribly sorry for your loss and please just take each day at a time and will keep you in my thoughts and sending positive healing vibes to you all.

So sorry darl. It doesn't get much worse than this. Hopefully soon x

I lost my twins at 29 weeks after birth 5 months ago. You are in my thoughts and I hope we get our rainbow soon.

I pray every single person who has posted on this thread finds a solution to the issues they have posted about, and some peace. So many broken situations with strong emotional toll attached.

Waiting for hospital results for DH.

ExH ongoing psychological abuse of DD
DM with dementia
Being overweight

I'm so sorry ❤️

@Biggybigbiggles that I'll never have another baby, and if I get pregnant again I'll lose that one too.

My heart breaks for you. ❤It really does.

My problems are mild compared to many here.

Very overweight and Type 2 diabetic. It's from my psychiatric meds. They work really well, but if I stop it's like a bomb going off in my head. I live in fear that the meds will stop working as I don't think I can go through another crisis.

I was skinny before the drugs. I can't lose the weight. I have to prioritise my mental health over physical. At least I have psych treatment available to me.

Well that makes me feel bad - I'm renting but it's secure, and while quite basic it's absolutely fine for my needs. I'm so sorry for your current troubles, and hope you soon find a proper home so you can thrive. 💐

Losing all my pregnancies, IVF trauma, upcoming transfers freaking me out. Elderly parental mental health issues. Relationship challenges with DP.

Lost my twin sons at 29 weeks after birth in November. Devastated and trying to see what we can do to move forward.