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To think Black Out nights in theatre ARE important

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PenguinLord · 06/04/2024 13:07

I know there was a theatre that did it last year and a thread about it- but there is a West End venue this year which will host two or three black out nights (where "all-black-identifying audiences" are invited) of the Slave Play. I had mixed feelings, but after having read a few articles on it, I actually agree with the concept- for the record I am very much white.

Spokesperson for the PM criticised black out nights saying "“The prime minister is a big supporter of the arts and he believes that the arts should be inclusive".

But let's face it, theatre experience is far from inclusive or accessible. Having 2 out of a few dozen nights will not really make a difference, nor excludes people who are not black to attend literally 80 if not more other performances. I was in theatre this week, and had a good look around. 98% of the audience were white. There were a few Asian people and 1 (one) black person- in the audience of around 300.

I suppose Id be far less likely to attend an event where I would stick out like a very sore thumb, is it really such a big deal to have two performances where people who dont usually feel theatre is an inclusive space can feel welcome, surrounded by people that belong to the same community?

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Fairyliz · 08/04/2024 12:26

It’s nothing to do with racism or getting black people to attend the theatre; it’s about publicity.
Say something mildly controversial; you get free advertising in the newspapers and people who have never heard of this play will buy tickets.
Surely it’s one of the oldest tricks in the book?

CurlewKate · 08/04/2024 11:41

It is truly remarkable how many racists have black friends and family members.

Statetheobvious · 08/04/2024 11:37

I think many of you would greatly benefit from reading this essay by Africa Brooke:

www.aei.org/carpe-diem/why-im-leaving-the-cult-of-wokeness/

“What I’m truly afraid of is existing in a world that forces me to submit to an ideology without question, otherwise I’m to be shamed (or pressured to shame myself) and cast out of the community.
A world that tells me that because I inhabit a black body; I will forever be oppressed and at the mercy of some omnipresent monster called “whiteness.” That because of the color of my skin; I am a victim of an inherently racist system by default – and me rejecting the narrative of oppression means that I am in fact, in denial. How empowering!

As someone who comes from Zimbabwe, a country where the general population is truly oppressed, it perplexes me that oppression is now being worn as an identity piece in most parts of the West, especially by those who claim to be “progressive.”

What I’m truly afraid of is existing in a world that forces me to consider the color of my skin and my gender (and that of others) at every f*ing turn, instead of living by Martin Luther King’s teachings and prioritizing the content of mine and other people’s character.

I dread the prospect of a world where context, nuance, critical thinking, meritocracy, mathematics, science, and rationality are considered tools of “white supremacy,” and the rule is that you’re not allowed to question or argue this senseless statement – especially if you’re white. A world that is conditioning you and I to believe that we will always be trapped in some weird hierarchy because of our race, our genitals, our physical abilities, our neurodiversity, our sexuality, and our politics.

And that if we do not agree on every single thing, it’s a sign that we are interacting with an enemy – or at the very least, someone to be wildly suspicious and judgmental of…instead of another complex human being worthy of being seen and heard. I wish this world I’m speaking of was just a figment of my imagination, but we are already inside it. Our suitcases have been unpacked here for quite some time.

This absolutist, authoritarian world is being fiercely crafted under the guise of “social justice,” and I want no parts in this. I AM OUT.”

LessonsinChemistryandLove · 08/04/2024 11:13

PropertyManager · 08/04/2024 08:38

I have a colleague and good friend who is black Jamaican, a school teacher who arrived here in the late 60's and was the first black person in town.

When we were chatting recently he told me of his experience, of being a bit of an oddity and as he put it "local attraction" through acceptance and eventually huge respect in the community.

He is horrified by black this, black that, he says he doesn't want to be defined by the colour of his skin, but by who HE is - and he feels a "new tribalisation" risks undoing the integration that was so hard won.

As to the slave trade, he's a proud Jamaican (and teacher of history) and points out to his students that had it not been for the slave traders (many who were indeed black africans rounding up other tribes to sell on) then his family would never have ended up in Jamaica, history shapes our destiny - even the bad bits.

Jeez this comment has to win!

I know a lady who was beaten up by her husband, whilst it was sad at the time, she actually is now an award winning body builder and can recognise that taking those hits made her stronger. She hates when women go on about misogyny and male violence because sometimes, history shapes our destiny.

LessonsinChemistryandLove · 08/04/2024 11:03

Newbutoldfather · 08/04/2024 08:30

@valensiwalensi ,

‘Black people aren’t here to do your legwork for you.’

It is hard to have a proper discussion with someone so sure of themselves, and this is a discussion forum.

I do plenty of my own legwork, thanks, and most of it shows that, according to evidence and facts, you are wrong.

‘But I will spell it out for you - trying to say that a black person with wealth is an exempt from both generational trauma or everyday discrimination is offensive.’

Generational trauma is epigenetics and is quite controversial. It is hard going from a study from mice (sweet smell and shocking them when they eat) to inferring that humans suffer from events generations later. Even in the mice study, the third generation was sensitised but not traumatised by the sweet smell, more curious,

Most wealthy blacks just aren’t subject to everyday discrimination. I am not saying it never happens, but it is rare. The way they dress and their accent gives them acceptance.

There is lots of research around generational trauma and child development, it’s interesting you should really look it up. As with all research, it’s open to questions though.

If you think that wealthy black people in the UK do not experience discrimination, I can only assume you don’t know a lot of wealthy black people. Or that, they don’t feel able to talk openly with you about this.

LessonsinChemistryandLove · 08/04/2024 10:59

Newbutoldfather · 08/04/2024 09:14

@LessonsinChemistryandLove ,

I also watched Roots as a child with my white Jewish family.

There was no laughter and I strongly identified with the lead character (Kunta Kinte I think) and was horrified by what happened to him.

It was a powerful drama that I was given special dispensation to stay up for and allowed me to truly understand the full horror of slavery (I think I was about 13).

That is why drama should be a shared experience and bring people together.

(I am sorry for what happened to you at school though. Schools are horrid tribal environments and teachers need to control that kind of thing, never would have happened under my watch).

Just because you personally haven’t experienced something, it doesn’t make it not true.

You seem very interested in your own personal experiences with an inability to consider things from another person’s perspective, which may be very different to yours?

As I asked earlier, do you think that a Jewish person who has or would like to attend a Jewish led event about Jewish history, is wrong to do so and if so why?

Discussion is one thing, but the blatant minimising and dismissing of some people’s black experiences is exactly, such an event is necessary in the UK in 2024!

StormingNorman · 08/04/2024 10:27

GinForBreakfast · 08/04/2024 07:47

But ask yourself one question, would you rather black or white in British society today? If the idea of being black makes you slightly uncomfortable (police interactions, maybe having a foreign-sounding name on your CV etc), there’s your white privilege.

Are you saying white people can't have foreign sounding names? Or that black people cant have British sounding names?

No.

Feelinadequate23 · 08/04/2024 09:55

Medschoolmum · 06/04/2024 13:14

If black performers and/or theatre-goers feel that it's important to have Black Out nights in a play about slavery, then I don't think it's my place as a white person to question that.

This.

I once visited one of the "places of no return" in West Africa, where the slaves would leave Africa for the last time on ships headed for the US plantations. Horrendous, evil place. DH and I are white and happened to be there at the same time as a black family, who were all visibly distressed, one woman crying uncontrollably. We could sense that our presence there was making their experience all the more uncomfortable, so we left quickly. For us, it was a place of historical interest and to get a sense of the evil nature of humanity and actions we hope are never repeated. For them, it appeared to be traumatic family history and was deeply personal. We understood that as white people with no shared history in these horrors, we had no place in trying to take that moment from them.

It's no different for SOME black people with this play. Obviously there will be plenty of black people who won't feel that way, and they can go to the usual shows that are for everyone. But for anyone who would find this scheme helpful, why would white people, who still benefit from the history of slavery to this day (it's ignorant in the extreme to claim this isn't true), why on earth would you begrudge those people this small gesture?

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 08/04/2024 09:45

LessonsinChemistryandLove · 07/04/2024 16:59

This thread shows that a lot of people don’t actually understand what happened during slavery. The bit about selling slaves was just the start, there seems to be a lack of knowledge about the treatment of slaves, it being a global business. The extent that slave traders went to rationalise the exploitation of a whole race, that continued for 100s of years. In the same way that there are still families in the west who continue to live off the fortunes created from the slave trade, the trauma of these experiences live on in black people today. Do some research on generational trauma to find out more, if you’re genuinely interested. Notwithstanding, the principles that were marketed to rationalise the sale of humans, continue to exist in the psychological of humans today, hence way, black people continue to experience racism and prejudice in day to day life.

It is so not okay to dismiss those that are telling you this is real. Whether you personally feel it or not and especially if you have no skin in the game at all. This is not about other people’s traumas, it’s about recognising this trauma and providing a space for those who need it. It affects no one else at all!

As someone highlighted earlier, the premise of black out nights is not a new one. There have been plays that have offered similar to reflect other tragedies in history.

Well said

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 08/04/2024 09:42

thecomingbrave · 08/04/2024 09:38

Why don't you care about white slavery?

Where has the poster said they didn't? What's with the whataboutery?

thecomingbrave · 08/04/2024 09:38

valensiwalensi · 08/04/2024 09:18

If white people could spend at least 50% of their energy battling racism than they have trying to bend backwards telling black people this theatre experience for them is racism (it’s not) divisive, talking about white slavery, the Rwanda policy, poor people…. Gosh. Just imagine!

Why don't you care about white slavery?

ItsMeNotTheProblem · 08/04/2024 09:35

So much of this thread has been a shining example of white fragility but it’s Black Out nights that are divisive and setting things back?
Phew, chile.

valensiwalensi · 08/04/2024 09:18

If white people could spend at least 50% of their energy battling racism than they have trying to bend backwards telling black people this theatre experience for them is racism (it’s not) divisive, talking about white slavery, the Rwanda policy, poor people…. Gosh. Just imagine!

Newbutoldfather · 08/04/2024 09:14

@LessonsinChemistryandLove ,

I also watched Roots as a child with my white Jewish family.

There was no laughter and I strongly identified with the lead character (Kunta Kinte I think) and was horrified by what happened to him.

It was a powerful drama that I was given special dispensation to stay up for and allowed me to truly understand the full horror of slavery (I think I was about 13).

That is why drama should be a shared experience and bring people together.

(I am sorry for what happened to you at school though. Schools are horrid tribal environments and teachers need to control that kind of thing, never would have happened under my watch).

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 08/04/2024 09:12

Rachel757677 · 08/04/2024 00:48

I'm going on the "black out" night. I shall be identifying as a gay black man.

I mean, honestly, these weird luvvies are barking mad aren't they.

Erm, it's not the "weird luvvies" that are coming across as "barking mad."

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 08/04/2024 09:08

LessonsinChemistryandLove · 06/04/2024 15:31

I really don’t get the big deal about this, it feels like another way to tell black people off for talking about their experiences of racism and discrimination in this country.

I remember watching roots in school, with my predominantly black class. Some of the white children were laughing, some of the black children were angry, embarrassed, uncomfortable etc. Yes we were all children but that is a feeling I have experienced many times throughout my life. Sometimes, it just feels better to have others around you who ‘get it’, it can feel safer and more comfortable. Not everyone feels that way of course and if so, you don’t need to engage. But telling black people your wrong or silly for feeling that way is so passive aggressive to me and part of the reason why the under current of racism is alive and well. You don’t need to understand why this is important to some, it is. If you want to understand why genuinely, be open to discussions and hearing the other person’s perspective.

Agree with this

Newbutoldfather · 08/04/2024 09:07

‘If black performers and/or theatre-goers feel that it's important to have Black Out nights in a play about slavery, then I don't think it's my place as a white person to question that.’

I am afraid I would disagree, I find this idea very divisive. In a democratic society everyone should be allowed to question what they want. It is the old rationalism vs empiricism debate.

’Lived experience’ doesn’t trump research and data, although both the former may also include asking people about their lived experience. Are we going to only talk to women about abortion, men about prostate cancer etc. If you think that is good, how about just allowing Jews to discuss religious circumcism? Bit harder now?

We live in a democratic multicultural society where every decision influences and has an effect on others’ rights. We seem to be in a somewhat retrograde phase where we believe atomisation is integration, very Orwellian.

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 08/04/2024 09:03

PressureLikeATickTickTick · 06/04/2024 13:41

No it's divisive and unnecessary.

A white person sat in an audience isn't going to detract from a good play.

We, as white people in 2024, are not guilty of slavery crimes. We are not responsible for the things people who existed before we were even born did.

It's segregation, pure and simple.

Not remotely comparable to segregation.
Segregation was forced by white people so we didn't "mix", black people wanting to watch a film about slavery by themselves is people who want to watch it with people who share the same experiences as them.
Your argument is the same as men going "you've got equality, you're allowed out of the house more now, we let you into pubs etc, I'm not responsible for sexism/ oppression... !

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 08/04/2024 08:55

Medschoolmum · 06/04/2024 13:14

If black performers and/or theatre-goers feel that it's important to have Black Out nights in a play about slavery, then I don't think it's my place as a white person to question that.

This.

valensiwalensi · 08/04/2024 08:54

GinForBreakfast · 08/04/2024 08:50

@valensiwalensi what are you trying to achieve by pushing for an answer to such a ridiculous question?

Still waiting for your answer…. It’s not difficult

GinForBreakfast · 08/04/2024 08:50

@valensiwalensi what are you trying to achieve by pushing for an answer to such a ridiculous question?

Anonymouslyposting · 08/04/2024 08:47

Personally, I don’t think allowing or denying people access to anything based solely on their race is a good idea. I’m also not a fan of positive discrimination.

However, I am white and recognise that my views on this are neither that important or that strong so I’m not going to get worked up about it at all.

valensiwalensi · 08/04/2024 08:44

GinForBreakfast · 08/04/2024 08:42

@valensiwalensi I'd rather be myself (not white British) and that's the message we should be sending to every child and young person in the world. Your question is simplistic and unhelpful.

So you can’t answer the question.

GinForBreakfast · 08/04/2024 08:42

@valensiwalensi I'd rather be myself (not white British) and that's the message we should be sending to every child and young person in the world. Your question is simplistic and unhelpful.

Suziethefluffpig · 08/04/2024 08:39

valensiwalensi · 08/04/2024 08:16

Black people aren’t here to do your legwork for you.
But I will spell it out for you - trying to say that a black person with wealth is an exempt from both generational trauma or everyday discrimination is offensive.

Perhaps this is why several white middle class people have been found out trying to ‘pass’ as black or otherwise non-white (Rachel Dolezal) but never the opposite?

Or could this be that in their eyes not being white was somehow beneficial?