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To think Black Out nights in theatre ARE important

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PenguinLord · 06/04/2024 13:07

I know there was a theatre that did it last year and a thread about it- but there is a West End venue this year which will host two or three black out nights (where "all-black-identifying audiences" are invited) of the Slave Play. I had mixed feelings, but after having read a few articles on it, I actually agree with the concept- for the record I am very much white.

Spokesperson for the PM criticised black out nights saying "“The prime minister is a big supporter of the arts and he believes that the arts should be inclusive".

But let's face it, theatre experience is far from inclusive or accessible. Having 2 out of a few dozen nights will not really make a difference, nor excludes people who are not black to attend literally 80 if not more other performances. I was in theatre this week, and had a good look around. 98% of the audience were white. There were a few Asian people and 1 (one) black person- in the audience of around 300.

I suppose Id be far less likely to attend an event where I would stick out like a very sore thumb, is it really such a big deal to have two performances where people who dont usually feel theatre is an inclusive space can feel welcome, surrounded by people that belong to the same community?

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mids2019 · 12/04/2024 07:11

And also language and the ability to speak and write the English word. To my mind this is a massive factor in privilege and social mobility. In a lot of cases white privilege of you assume it exists is conflated with the ability to speak English well with a relatively soft accent. In my experience a lot of prejudice (and by extension white privlege) is due to miscommunication or difficulty to converse fluently. It just seems that when you see successful poc they are often have eloquent speech and I wonder if speech is yet another privilege that should override skin tone?

mids2019 · 12/04/2024 07:07

Sorry about the typos

mids2019 · 12/04/2024 07:05

@Lion400

we are not the US. I think the US has very much a separate racial and social history is and we shouldn't find to much equivalence. I think a lot of white privilege is in reality about a certain section of white people atoning for the sins of generations past when colonisation (and slavery) occured. It is collective white supposed guilt.

I think if we were to take the southern states of the US there possibly is racism prevalent simply due to the history of the US. By all means concentrate on the problems in this states in terms of racism and discrimination but don't start extrapolating to produce some ill defined white privilege that sits with anyone with a 'white' skintone. How does that help?

the theory of skin privilege is tested by taking an example of a Hispanic living in the US . The Hispanic would suffer in some regard due to the the white privilege in the US but if he were to emigrate to Spain then obviously no white privilege given the demographics of Spain but there may a 'Spanish privelge' in that settled Spaniards would have advantage due to the fact their families have lived in the countries for generations.

I think social problems and prejudice are far to nuanced to be packaged into a simple (and possibly offensive) moniker of 'white privilege' which only serves to antagonize white people.with its simple ethnic description and mention of privilege.

The theory also is sorely tested by mixed race people where we have to append a binary theory of having or not having a certain type of privilege to a spectrum of skin tone and ethnic diversity. How do you do that?

I also think that part of the 'white ' privilege mentioned in reality takes into account having a possibly anglicised name, middle class education, being part of our social establishment and not being overly fixated with race. I am not conservative but you Kemi Badenoch as being some sort of antithesis to white privilege theory who has gained prominence through her opposition of this and other aligned social views. I feel this that advocate white privilege are possibly resentful of successful black people as they have somehow sold out to UK establishment culture by making their way is a system they wish to portray as systemically racist. In order to square the circle of systemic racism and successful people of colour then proponents of white privilege need to label those people of having some white characteristic (in the abstract sense) that allows them to overcome this all prevailing white privilege.

Once last thing in the arts musicians are actively trying to promote their non whiteness of possible or actively be ally of musicians of colour. I think this is part of the arts culture where theories such as white privilege are more easily accepted and a sense that white musicians' success may be diminished by people saying it is a fruit of white privlege. Taylor Swift is coming in for some really slurs about being 'a white supremacists dream' in some quarters of American society for example. Dua Lipa would probably not want to mention ethnicity overly much in an interview (fair enough) but if pressed maybe accentuate her non British heritage to distance herself from the white music estbalishment.

Lion400 · 11/04/2024 07:31

mids2019 · 11/04/2024 06:45

@Newbutoldfather

I thoroughfare right and the arts has had an over representation of certain ethnicities at times so I don't think we can single the arts out as being racist at all. I also think the r should be caution amongst a new generation of ethnic minorities developing a victim culture where instead about being positive about opportunities they have a sense that the whole world is against them so why bother. I think this breeds resentment and some people may not reach their potential. I think also principle get some who when faced with the myriad challenges and unfairness of life may automatically go to race as the route of their problems. The concept of white privilege feeds into this.

So true.

Things like Critical Race Theory (CRT) feeds that thinking and actively teaches children segregation. It’s horrendous. Some American schools have been ambushed by it. A few U.K. too but hopefully not many.

mids2019 · 11/04/2024 06:45

@Newbutoldfather

I thoroughfare right and the arts has had an over representation of certain ethnicities at times so I don't think we can single the arts out as being racist at all. I also think the r should be caution amongst a new generation of ethnic minorities developing a victim culture where instead about being positive about opportunities they have a sense that the whole world is against them so why bother. I think this breeds resentment and some people may not reach their potential. I think also principle get some who when faced with the myriad challenges and unfairness of life may automatically go to race as the route of their problems. The concept of white privilege feeds into this.

Medschoolmum · 10/04/2024 07:57

Daisybuttercup12345 · 10/04/2024 06:53

What would happen if there was a white only play?

Well, what do you think would happen if there was a "white only play"?

Why not talk us through what you think would be the similarities and differences between a "white only play" and the Black Out nights that are being proposed here.

Looking forward to your analysis.

valensiwalensi · 10/04/2024 07:37

Daisybuttercup12345 · 10/04/2024 06:53

What would happen if there was a white only play?

well first there would have to be a black only play.

which there isn’t.

do keep up.

Newbutoldfather · 10/04/2024 07:36

I think the equity concept is quite clever, but needs context, and is not a trump card.

We have to remember the goal of a genuinely fair and equal society is to give everyone a fair crack of the whip at achieving their potential, it isn’t to try to give one group a greater chance because they have had a lesser chance historically. Some may think it is, but I just believe this perpetuates resentments between people.

I do believe that people need role models, so when you are coming out of an era of overt discrimination (SA after apartheid or the U.S after overt racism) then I think positive discrimination is a good thing. But it has to be time limited and area specific. So a lower requirement for female or black engineers might be a good thing until there are sufficient role models for young girls or black people to believe they can be great engineers (how many is sufficient is obviously subjective).

The people who most dislike positive discrimination are often the truly talented minority people who believe others think they are there as tokens and not due to ability and hard work.

Relating the above to this specific case, the arts are one of the most inclusive areas of life in the uk and have been for decades. There is no need for positive discrimination. Yes, the subject of the play concerns blacks and past trauma, but most serious plays concern trauma of one sort or another.

Should we sexually divide audiences of Oleanna ?

CurlewKate · 10/04/2024 07:06

Reverse racism. vm.tiktok.com/ZGeuL3NNg/

mids2019 · 10/04/2024 06:55

@Daisybuttercup12345

turnaround be using your white privilege p resumably?

Daisybuttercup12345 · 10/04/2024 06:53

What would happen if there was a white only play?

Daisybuttercup12345 · 10/04/2024 06:52

PressureLikeATickTickTick · 06/04/2024 13:41

No it's divisive and unnecessary.

A white person sat in an audience isn't going to detract from a good play.

We, as white people in 2024, are not guilty of slavery crimes. We are not responsible for the things people who existed before we were even born did.

It's segregation, pure and simple.

Exactly this and a marketing ploy also.

mids2019 · 10/04/2024 06:26

Skin tone

mids2019 · 10/04/2024 06:25

@StormingNorman

I think I can recognise white people throughs of skin rone. What other measure is there of defining white?

yes I am over complicating this because any publication in white privilege comes with plenty on caveats on the subject including it being country specific, culture specific, not the only privilege, overriding privileges etc. Mixed race people people can be pigeon holed by this concept as their skin tone obviously can take a spectrum of skin hues and there is no one level of arbitrary 'whiteness' to determine in reality whether the person will possess this nebulous privilege.

I think it is better to concentrate on racism than produce some ill defined privilege that white people (again ill defined) are meant to carry. White means a certain kind of white in my opinion in the UK; it means being of white heritage spreading back a few generations, being non slavic, having an anglicised name, not being of mixed race. White is a simple moniker attached to a group of people some think are 'enjoying' the fruits of colonisation some centuries later.

Any research that looks at white people would have to determine what white means a priori and that means you can have a significant level of bias and in effect you are setting up your own problem. You do not look at relative advantages and disadvantages of white people in themselves for instance. You have to consider the disadvantages Eastern European whites have in this country; in fact non immigrant privilege may be the real privilege of you wish to use the term is what you need to consider.

Racism is accepted as a societal problem as everyone knows what it is and can see steps to get and prevent ir. There are a large number of white people who do not accept the concept and the wording of white privilege can be his construed reality by. Struggling whites.

Also with privilege it can be viewed as a concept as something that is desirable to be kbtained. We wish to be wish for the privilege for example. We then have the question is white privilege something to be obtained or to be desired?

StormingNorman · 09/04/2024 20:55

mids2019 · 09/04/2024 07:06

Maybe someone can explain what a white person is? How do you define white?

White privilege exists despite you seemingly not being able to recognise a white person when you see one.

You are turning yourself inside out trying to overcomplicate this in an attempt to disprove the existence of white privilege.

StormingNorman · 09/04/2024 20:41

User8646382 · 09/04/2024 02:25

Sorry, what? Doesn’t ‘import guilt’? Why exclude white people from the theatre then?

Asking white people not to attend is not about white people. Not understanding that is an example of white privilege.

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 09/04/2024 19:29

@PressureLikeATickTickTick
Again, my husband is black. So I'm not some racist. It's the truth

Lol, just because you married someone who is black doesn't mean you can't be racist 🙄😂

User8646382 · 09/04/2024 17:54

Newbutoldfather · 09/04/2024 15:09

I do think there is a conversation to be had about how far a society has to go in accommodating different cultures and how far immigrants (of whatever generation) need to go to integrate into the society where they have chosen to live.

My parents immigrated into the UK from Africa (their parents from a mixture of UK and Eastern Europe). They were determined to bring us up British, hardly even spoke about us being Jewish (no one was religious after my grandparents’ generation). We did have plenty of Jewish friends, though.

Maybe this was too far, as discovering my roots and ancestry has been interesting and makes me a more rounded and interesting person.

But, I would never forget the gratitude I have to the free and open society which welcomed my parents (despite the occasional racism I have been subject to). I would never expected to be given special treatment due to being Jewish, being treated the same works well for me.

But I do think a black out night in a white Christian country is quite strange! Outside of white Christianity, I don’t see other countries so apologetic and obsequious about their history, though most cultures have been racist throughout most of history.

Why is it that the most tolerant cultures should be the most apologetic. It is almost as if tolerance is mistaken for weakness…..

Yes, I have read lots about ‘equity’ vs ‘equality’ and hierarchy of privilege. I understand it, I just don’t agree with it. Give me plain old fashioned equality any day of the week.

It’s the people with power within those tolerant cultures who should be apologetic. They are the ones with privilege. The rest of us have nothing to apologise for. Most white people in this country have ancestors who were equally oppressed.

ButterflyKu · 09/04/2024 16:21

PressureLikeATickTickTick · 06/04/2024 13:55

So white people would be able to ask Black people not to attend a certain performance?

I guarantee if a night like that was advertised then every seat would be bought by a black person in protest. There would be BLM signs outside. Protesters etc...

It's ok to ban white people but not black people?

Again, my husband is black. So I'm not some racist. It's the truth.

Do you think you can’t be racist because you’ve married a black man?🤣 your comments are very telling but can’t say I’m surprised to hear that a black man has married someone with such views. Why you bringing up BLM for no reason at all?
Reverse racism doesn’t exist, try again

Ramalangadingdong · 09/04/2024 16:19

Newbutoldfather · 09/04/2024 15:23

@Ramalangadingdong ,

‘By the way white audiences are not banned on blackout nights, it is simply requested that they purchase tickets for another night. No one’s going to turn them away or be nasty to them if they choose to attend.’

I have made this point several times. They CANNOT legally be banned, this is as close as the theatre can get to banning them without breaking the law (although I wonder how it would hold up if tested in court). And as for your last part, I wonder how white people would enjoy the ‘Black Gaze’ on those nights. (I can’t bring myself to be as offensive as you and pretend being looked at by another skin colour is ‘toxic’).

It is if you are getting hoards of racist comments thrown at you on social media. And I hope that people understand that toxic white gaze doesn't refer to all white people.

And I doubt black people would be taking any notice of you if you attend the blackout night. They will be too busy talking to their friends.

Medschoolmum · 09/04/2024 16:13

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 09/04/2024 16:02

I saw a meme that depicted this very well. Three people, one tall, one medium height and one short, are trying to look over a fence. In the first picture, all three are standing on one box each. The tall person is raised up well over the height of the fence, the medium heigh person can see over easily, but the short person still can’t see over. In the second picture, the tall person has no box to stand on, the medium height person has one, and the short person has two boxes - and now all three can see over the fence.

In a perfect world, these adjustments would not be necessary - but this is not a perfect world. I hope that society is changing, so that these inequalities are improving, but until the people who have been, and are, most affected by inequality tell me that things are better, I will continue to support them in getting the adjustments they need, to drive progress toward a more equal society.

Yes, I know the meme that you're talking about. It illustrates the point perfectly.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 09/04/2024 16:02

Medschoolmum · 09/04/2024 09:46

You have misunderstood. It is not about outcomes.

There will always be individual differences but there should be genuine equality of opportunity.

It isn't about treating everyone the same. It is about treating everyone equitably.

I saw a meme that depicted this very well. Three people, one tall, one medium height and one short, are trying to look over a fence. In the first picture, all three are standing on one box each. The tall person is raised up well over the height of the fence, the medium heigh person can see over easily, but the short person still can’t see over. In the second picture, the tall person has no box to stand on, the medium height person has one, and the short person has two boxes - and now all three can see over the fence.

In a perfect world, these adjustments would not be necessary - but this is not a perfect world. I hope that society is changing, so that these inequalities are improving, but until the people who have been, and are, most affected by inequality tell me that things are better, I will continue to support them in getting the adjustments they need, to drive progress toward a more equal society.

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 09/04/2024 15:41

mids2019 · 09/04/2024 15:09

It's the idea of perceived whiteness. We have moved away from skin tone to something a lot more nebulous and subjective. Perceived whiteness depends on the perceive r and so the amount of white privilege one may have could vary depending on who was doing the preceiving

Again when perceived to be white I think you mean a certain kind of white. The white from western Europe (mainly northern countries) as you could say Eastern Europeans can't use white privilege to an advantage. Sure they find bandages of their skin tone but the discrimination they feel is very real and washes out the concept of white privilege they are meant to be aware of.

Few people deliberately use white privilege to their advantage, I would probably say most people who benefit from white privilege don't know they benefit from it either, because they don't have to think about it.

It's just ingrained into our society.

I'm not really interested in being part of trying to create your hierarchy points system where we are supposed to rank who has it worse.

Having non white skin creates difficulties that those with white skin don't have, that's a fact.

LifeofBrienne · 09/04/2024 15:29

Is it massively naive of me that my initial response on reading this was just “oh that’s nice”?
I’m not into theatre at all, but I am into classical music and I think that the perception there can be of classical music as being elitist and not for ‘people like us’ is a real shame. So (notwithstanding that a lack of support for music in schools is probably the main problem) I’d support any gimmick that made people try something that they might miss out on otherwise. Whether it’s music, theatre or a group specifically for Muslims to go hiking in the countryside, I think targeting one group doesn’t deprive others. I see the fact that it’s about slavery has touched a nerve, but honestly I don’t think it’s that big a deal.

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