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To think Black Out nights in theatre ARE important

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PenguinLord · 06/04/2024 13:07

I know there was a theatre that did it last year and a thread about it- but there is a West End venue this year which will host two or three black out nights (where "all-black-identifying audiences" are invited) of the Slave Play. I had mixed feelings, but after having read a few articles on it, I actually agree with the concept- for the record I am very much white.

Spokesperson for the PM criticised black out nights saying "“The prime minister is a big supporter of the arts and he believes that the arts should be inclusive".

But let's face it, theatre experience is far from inclusive or accessible. Having 2 out of a few dozen nights will not really make a difference, nor excludes people who are not black to attend literally 80 if not more other performances. I was in theatre this week, and had a good look around. 98% of the audience were white. There were a few Asian people and 1 (one) black person- in the audience of around 300.

I suppose Id be far less likely to attend an event where I would stick out like a very sore thumb, is it really such a big deal to have two performances where people who dont usually feel theatre is an inclusive space can feel welcome, surrounded by people that belong to the same community?

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Medschoolmum · 06/04/2024 19:35

mids2019 · 06/04/2024 19:30

There wasn't a Jews only showing of Schindler's list unless I am mistaken....maybe Jews were more concerned about making people aware of this horrendous part of history rather than segregating themselves in the modern era?

But if some Jewish people had said that they wanted a screening of Schindlers list aimed at a Jewish audience, would that have been wrong? I don't think so, personally - I would find it perfectly understandable if some Jewish people had wanted that. But equally fair enough if they didn't.

LakeTiticaca · 06/04/2024 19:34

White man= oppressor

Take a look around the world

GRex · 06/04/2024 19:32

GinForBreakfast · 06/04/2024 19:00

I really hate this idea. I live in the UK and am from a country that suffered horrifically under British rule. The consequences are still being played out. I don't want or expect there to be theatre shows about my heritage or country where no British people are allowed to be in the audience.

Some British people are black, for info.

That important note aside, it is also only some of the nights. It's also not a ban, just a request. If the show chose to have specific nights for those of Caribbean black heritage only and a full ban on those nights then that would be fine too, but they are keeping it simple. Try swapping it in your mind to women's difficult stories and see how it feels then, to allow a few nights that are women only for those particularly affected to share the experience together.

curiositykilledthiscat · 06/04/2024 19:32

PenguinLord · 06/04/2024 19:18

Or are you lacking empathy?

The fact is- there is a reason for this event. Many black people dont come to theatres. Im sure you know the reason for that better than anyone, would love you to share the insight you have?
No? Didnt think so.

You don’t know the reason.

Hereyoume · 06/04/2024 19:31

I suppose, if you believe that the way to solve a problem is to utilise the same level of thinking which created the problem in the first place, then it probably seems like a good idea.

mids2019 · 06/04/2024 19:30

There wasn't a Jews only showing of Schindler's list unless I am mistaken....maybe Jews were more concerned about making people aware of this horrendous part of history rather than segregating themselves in the modern era?

Medschoolmum · 06/04/2024 19:27

StormingNorman · 06/04/2024 18:06

I agree with you about this not being a slippery slope. This is a play about slavery. I don’t think any sane person would want to see black-only or white-only audiences for Wicked or Sister Act etc…

Exactly!

GRex · 06/04/2024 19:24

While we mention exclusion... I don't know where people get the idea from that a paid event requires some special clothes or excludes them, but it would be nice to see the west end as a whole get together advertising to dispel the myths. I had a neighbour many years back, who said she couldn't come to a west end show on a free ticket because "I've never been to anything like that, I don't even have a cocktail dress or whatever". We explained we would all be in jeans and trainers, except one who preferred dresses. She came in the end, dressed up in heels and looking far nicer than the rest of us, to be surprised that only about 10% of the audience dressed up. About a week later, I bumped into her in the street and she was taking her daughter to Wicked, so one trip was enough!

valensiwalensi · 06/04/2024 19:24

OtherS · 06/04/2024 19:15

They do? Have you seen black people being racially abused at the theatre? Or are you - as a white person - telling black people that they should feel unwelcome?

I would really like you to think hard about why you want to argue this point?

Medschoolmum · 06/04/2024 19:19

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 18:13

Seems like you just want all people to agree with your opinion and if someone has the opposite opinion to yours, you have a further opinion about it not being the "right" one.

And No, I do not think black out nights are important.

Maybe you should tune in to Candace Owens.

Yes, I absolutely think people are in the wrong if they are arguing a) that there is no difference between having dedicated spaces for black people and dedicated spaces for white people as if the historical context is completely irrelevant, or b) that white people should have the right to tell black people that they don't need such spaces.

And yes, of course I want people to agree with these two points because I am not a racist and I don't like racism. I make no apology for that.

I have no issue at all with the fact that there are different points of view about whether black out nights are a positive idea or a negative one. I have made it perfectly clear on this thread that I'm neither for nor against them. I am merely for the idea that black people should have the right to do this if they see fit.

PenguinLord · 06/04/2024 19:18

OtherS · 06/04/2024 19:15

They do? Have you seen black people being racially abused at the theatre? Or are you - as a white person - telling black people that they should feel unwelcome?

Or are you lacking empathy?

The fact is- there is a reason for this event. Many black people dont come to theatres. Im sure you know the reason for that better than anyone, would love you to share the insight you have?
No? Didnt think so.

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PenguinLord · 06/04/2024 19:15

GinForBreakfast · 06/04/2024 19:00

I really hate this idea. I live in the UK and am from a country that suffered horrifically under British rule. The consequences are still being played out. I don't want or expect there to be theatre shows about my heritage or country where no British people are allowed to be in the audience.

If you read the thread, British people are not banned from those performances.

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OtherS · 06/04/2024 19:15

PenguinLord · 06/04/2024 18:50

But black people have a bit of a better reason to feel unwelcome...

They do? Have you seen black people being racially abused at the theatre? Or are you - as a white person - telling black people that they should feel unwelcome?

PenguinLord · 06/04/2024 19:14

Livelovebehappy · 06/04/2024 19:03

Apparently they can dip their toe into theatre. It’s been suggested they go to their local small town venues, where they can see a play for pennies. And of course they should be grateful, because it’s not always necessary to see the big West End shows…….

It's not West End vs small town venues though, is it? There is a number of theatres off West End that put up amazing shows with pretty amazing casts very often and the value for money is much better. I am not ashamed to visit local theatres just because I cant afford West End prices.

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OtherS · 06/04/2024 19:13

GRex · 06/04/2024 18:36

Sorry you're confused!

Sorry you've failed to either defend or explain your position :( .

Finlesswonder · 06/04/2024 19:10

PenguinLord · 06/04/2024 18:50

But black people have a bit of a better reason to feel unwelcome...

Didn't we say its not a competition?

PenguinLord · 06/04/2024 19:10

Livelovebehappy · 06/04/2024 18:56

But people generally want to see the West End plays. ‘Local places’ where shows are put on are usually amateur dramatics at village halls, or similar venues. Some people want to experience the atmosphere of a proper theatre. I go to theatres a lot, although I don’t live in a big city so generally have to go the only theatre in my vicinity, which charge at least £30pp and upwards, or travel. The only ‘local’ place I could go to to watch a show here for £15 or less would be the local village hall’s annual Xmas panto. I’m saying that yes, it may be sad that some POC feel uncomfortable within a predominantly white setting, but that can also be said for many other people in society who also feel excluded.

I dont disagree with pricing being atrocious and unaffordable- I am very grateful to live in London, as there are alternatives that are also not 'village halls' but actual pro theatres.

And yes, many other groups in the society are also excluded, no one is denying that- it's just it's a matter for another thread.

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Livelovebehappy · 06/04/2024 19:03

Poppysmom22 · 06/04/2024 18:58

If it really is about making theatre more inclusive then they should also have poor people nights

Apparently they can dip their toe into theatre. It’s been suggested they go to their local small town venues, where they can see a play for pennies. And of course they should be grateful, because it’s not always necessary to see the big West End shows…….

GinForBreakfast · 06/04/2024 19:00

I really hate this idea. I live in the UK and am from a country that suffered horrifically under British rule. The consequences are still being played out. I don't want or expect there to be theatre shows about my heritage or country where no British people are allowed to be in the audience.

Poppysmom22 · 06/04/2024 18:58

If it really is about making theatre more inclusive then they should also have poor people nights

Livelovebehappy · 06/04/2024 18:56

PenguinLord · 06/04/2024 18:24

But these are not exclusive- there should be more cheaper tickets for many more people. There is a lot of talk about how high the tickets are for theatres if you care to look around, and a number of theatre makers and actors from working class (and not only!) have spoken about this issue.
I have never paid more than £60 per ticket and that was super special, and I usually go to local places where I pay £15 to sit in front row or a decent seat, the atmosphere is relaxed, obviously I may not see Hollywood celebs among the cast, but there are places where you can see pretty amazing plays for a fraction of West End prices.

But people generally want to see the West End plays. ‘Local places’ where shows are put on are usually amateur dramatics at village halls, or similar venues. Some people want to experience the atmosphere of a proper theatre. I go to theatres a lot, although I don’t live in a big city so generally have to go the only theatre in my vicinity, which charge at least £30pp and upwards, or travel. The only ‘local’ place I could go to to watch a show here for £15 or less would be the local village hall’s annual Xmas panto. I’m saying that yes, it may be sad that some POC feel uncomfortable within a predominantly white setting, but that can also be said for many other people in society who also feel excluded.

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 18:54

PenguinLord · 06/04/2024 18:50

But black people have a bit of a better reason to feel unwelcome...

They really don't.

PenguinLord · 06/04/2024 18:50

OtherS · 06/04/2024 18:34

"if you feel unwelcome sitting in an audience of mostly black people, that's on you then"

and if black people feel unwelcome sitting in an audience of mostly white people (in a mostly white country), who's that on?

But black people have a bit of a better reason to feel unwelcome...

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tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 06/04/2024 18:46

StarbucksQueen1 · 06/04/2024 16:25

I don’t get it!! Why is it necessary?! Everyone should be welcome for every performance?!

Anyone can go to any performance if they wish. And there are lots and lots of dates to choose.

It's been suggested that a very small handful of evenings be attended by a black audience. If you are unfamiliar with the subject of the play and why this may a useful experience for some members of a black audience without white people insisting they have to go and playing Trauma Tourist, you could Google.

But no one is prohibited and I believe that allowing some audience members a tiny proportion of evenings to experience together is pretty reasonable actually

Singleandproud · 06/04/2024 18:44

Not on race but on affordability...
My local theatre operates a "Pay what you can" system with tickets available from £0, £3 £5, £10, £15 - up to £50. Now it's not a big theatre and they aren't large West End plays but still the people who turn up are predominantly white, middle class people. They do lots of Am dram and again the people who turn up are white / British. Now we aren't a massively diverse area so it's not too surprising but it is noticeable.

I think 'walking through the door' is something alot of people struggle with. I struggled with it when younger too as regular theatre certainly wasn't seen as for us as a poorer white family growing up although we went to Panto at Christmas. I purposefully expose DD to places I feel uncomfortable in so that she knows it's always an option for her.

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