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To think Black Out nights in theatre ARE important

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PenguinLord · 06/04/2024 13:07

I know there was a theatre that did it last year and a thread about it- but there is a West End venue this year which will host two or three black out nights (where "all-black-identifying audiences" are invited) of the Slave Play. I had mixed feelings, but after having read a few articles on it, I actually agree with the concept- for the record I am very much white.

Spokesperson for the PM criticised black out nights saying "“The prime minister is a big supporter of the arts and he believes that the arts should be inclusive".

But let's face it, theatre experience is far from inclusive or accessible. Having 2 out of a few dozen nights will not really make a difference, nor excludes people who are not black to attend literally 80 if not more other performances. I was in theatre this week, and had a good look around. 98% of the audience were white. There were a few Asian people and 1 (one) black person- in the audience of around 300.

I suppose Id be far less likely to attend an event where I would stick out like a very sore thumb, is it really such a big deal to have two performances where people who dont usually feel theatre is an inclusive space can feel welcome, surrounded by people that belong to the same community?

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HotelKitchen · 06/04/2024 22:47

Elvis1956 · 06/04/2024 22:23

Yes what I am going on about is there are lots of programmes on R4 about India...dramas recorded there...where are the Chinese, African, Latin America programmes.
where are the stories about Somerset, dorset...the Scottish plays? Sunderland and Carlisle, Ipswich and Norwich. Where are the guys with my accent reading the gurt lush news...why ain't we talking about daps and dapping down the village.
you don't even know what I am talking about but I bet you know about Bollywood films and bangra music

You really are not coming across well at all here. True colours…

42n82noluv · 06/04/2024 22:45

I saw a play at a Black Out performance last year and really appreciated it as a safe space but didn't need it. I watch a lot of theatre, previously worked in the industry and I'm Black.

PlasticOno · 06/04/2024 22:41

Anele22 · 06/04/2024 22:35

No I don’t think that’s what people are saying. Most people objecting are saying they think it’s divisive and not a good way forward. Not that they are missing out.

A majority group deciding what’s best for a comparatively historically disempowered minority?

Medschoolmum · 06/04/2024 22:41

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 22:21

Have you ever studied any history? You seem not to understand the significance of it?

Probably half the people on this thread do not "study" history, so your comment here is pretty flippant. Black History is not the only history, although you'd think it was given the responses to some of these comments.

We all know about black oppression, but you're completely missing the whole point.

If you think you're not, then like I've said before, listen to Candace Owens.

I'm not missing the point.

I just think the point that you're making is racist, because you are intentionally seeking to minimise the significance of historic oppression.

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 22:41

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 22:36

However you have no idea where I'm from, what I know about, what I listen to, what I watch, what my heratige is or anything else.

You've given yourself away a bit during this thread though, given your biased responses.

What's heratige? Do you mean heritage?

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All I've said is that I'm not white. Not that it matters anyways.

Thanks for correcting my spelling, you got my spelling mistake wrong there though.

That's always the last resort of someone who has run out of points to make. Thankfully, for you, I have fat fingers, so will probably make enough mistakes to make you seem clever for a while.

SpidersAreShitheads · 06/04/2024 22:39

GRex · 06/04/2024 22:28

Ironically, you'll find most theatres do offer at least one "relaxed" autism friendly showing, for almost every production. Sonetimes a weekly relaxed session when it's kid shows.

Think of it as an extra showing to INCLUDE those who might not have otherwise gone, rather than excluding others (who are not barred and can attend).

Yes, I realise that - that was sort of my point. I don’t think I explained it very well. Typical me 🤦🏻‍♀️😂

What I was trying to say was on autism-friendly showings, all the marketing and PR is around being inclusive and targeted towards accommodating autistic people who might find it hard to attend at other times. It’s positive with the focus on autism needs - but there’s no disclaimer that says they’d rather you didn’t go to that viewing if you’re neurotypical.

I think that’s my issue here. For many reasons there are fewer black theatre-goers, so to have a dedicated showing which is specifically designed to reach that audience is great. Lots of marketing and adverts to make it clear that’s the focus of those showings. All good and positive. The marketing focusing on attracting black audiences on those nights is bold and clear, which is crucial.

I just think the additional disclaimer essentially saying please don’t come if you’re white is necessary or helpful. I think it turns a positive message into something divisive and controversial.

It’s not about who can legally go - I think it’s the message saying “you’re not welcome here” which jars.

Portakalkedi · 06/04/2024 22:38

It's not OK, because it would not be allowed to have the reverse. Nobody is preventing anyone from going to the theatre at any time. Also recently read something saying that hiking was racist as it was a pastime of white people only.

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 22:36

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 22:30

I can't comment on R4 because I don't listen to it.

However you have no idea where I'm from, what I know about, what I listen to, what I watch, what my heratige is or anything else.

It's abundantly clear that you dislike Indian people though. I have absolutely no idea why you keep bringing it up though, it's just making you look racist honestly.

However you have no idea where I'm from, what I know about, what I listen to, what I watch, what my heratige is or anything else.

You've given yourself away a bit during this thread though, given your biased responses.

What's heratige? Do you mean heritage?

Anele22 · 06/04/2024 22:35

valensiwalensi · 06/04/2024 16:29

Yes they are so important and needed!!!

so many butt hurt white feelings - so predictable.

its so funny how white people view equality as them losing something.

No I don’t think that’s what people are saying. Most people objecting are saying they think it’s divisive and not a good way forward. Not that they are missing out.

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 22:32

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 22:25

I'm not the one getting all of a fluster because some black people may wish to go to the theatre together.

The mental gymnastics you're doing there are quite impressive, I must say.

Ok👍🏽 you keep telling yourself that.

And yeah, I am pretty impressive, thanks😘

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 22:30

Elvis1956 · 06/04/2024 22:23

Yes what I am going on about is there are lots of programmes on R4 about India...dramas recorded there...where are the Chinese, African, Latin America programmes.
where are the stories about Somerset, dorset...the Scottish plays? Sunderland and Carlisle, Ipswich and Norwich. Where are the guys with my accent reading the gurt lush news...why ain't we talking about daps and dapping down the village.
you don't even know what I am talking about but I bet you know about Bollywood films and bangra music

I can't comment on R4 because I don't listen to it.

However you have no idea where I'm from, what I know about, what I listen to, what I watch, what my heratige is or anything else.

It's abundantly clear that you dislike Indian people though. I have absolutely no idea why you keep bringing it up though, it's just making you look racist honestly.

rayro2 · 06/04/2024 22:30

This makes me uncomfortable, Im mixed race and was bought up in a “white cultured” household which u guess could make a difference. If I want to go to the theatre then I’ll go, don’t care who is sat around me!

Maybe I’m missing something but I hate anything divisive

IDontHateRainbows · 06/04/2024 22:28

Anele22 · 06/04/2024 22:10

Is this how you think white people will behave in the audience of the Slave Play?

I'm more concerned this is how she thinks male people would behave at the hypothetical performance in her post.

GRex · 06/04/2024 22:28

SpidersAreShitheads · 06/04/2024 19:55

My initial instinct is that it’s divisive, or at least the way it’s being deliberately marketed is. I think a message that’s particularly encouraging one group to attend is fine, but on this occasion they’re simultaneously asking another group not to attend (although they won’t actually bar them if they turn up). That’s the bit that sits somewhat awkwardly with me.

I’ve been reading all the views carefully here as I’m keen to properly understand the opposing view. I’m well aware that I may not be understanding all sides fully. There have been some really interesting comments, which have been helpful and quite enlightening in helping to see things a different way.

Also, what I struggle to understand is why slavery is considered to be a black issue when many white people were enslaved too? And why are people today so affected when it’s described as “ancestral” - and many people may not even know if their own ancestors were slaves?

And with all that in mind, why would a black audience need a space away from white people? Unless the suggestion is that white people today are still being held accountable for ancestral crimes? I can think of many examples where an exclusive space for black people might be necessary, but I can’t see how this is one?

Im certainly not trying to say “white lives matter” and I hope that isn’t how it comes across! I’m just trying to understand what I’m missing.

For context, I’m autistic and sometimes miss the obvious so just want to emphasise my questions are genuine and well-intentioned, if maybe stupid 🫣

Asking white people not to go feels the opposite of uplifting black people which many people have said is the point.

There have been some really useful comparisons on this thread re single sex spaces.

My example - if was a play that was directly relevant to the autistic community it would be great to see a real drive to encourage autistic people to attend. And I’d expect the show to amplify autistic voices, and feature performances from autistic people. I wouldn’t expect neurotypical people to be discouraged from attending, nor explicitly told to book tickets for another night. I think that’s maybe my issue with this - possibly it’s the marketing that I object to? I absolutely understand the need to encourage more diverse audiences and to emphasise that the theatre is for everyone. I’m just not sure that excluding another group is the way to do it.*

*I know white people wont actually be turned away but the marketing basically ask them not to come.

Ironically, you'll find most theatres do offer at least one "relaxed" autism friendly showing, for almost every production. Sonetimes a weekly relaxed session when it's kid shows.

Think of it as an extra showing to INCLUDE those who might not have otherwise gone, rather than excluding others (who are not barred and can attend).

HorribleHisTories15 · 06/04/2024 22:26

@Medschoolmum and @mids2019 the Jewish theatre in Berlin, and a few others have** had offered closed events to those of Jewish ancestry. Quite rightly too

Link:

djthe.de/index.php

And it has been spoken about at length with ample support and praise on HR2 Kultur (like BBC Radio 4 extra and Radio 3).

www.hr-inforadio.de/podcast/kulturlust/juedisches-theater-frankfurt,podcast-episode-128806.html

There are other performance companies who have done similar things in mainland Europe.

Can't remember where and when I heard another radio programme discussing something by a lady of Traveller heritage who was planning or had done something exactly like this to talk about the experiences of her community.

Anele22 · 06/04/2024 22:26

Medschoolmum · 06/04/2024 15:21

That's why I said some black people. I am aware that black people are not one homogeneous group and I have already acknowledged further up this thread that some black people might prefer to attend one of the regular performances instead. And of course, some black people might not be interested in watching it at all.

All I'm saying is that, if there are black people who would welcome the opportunity to watch this play in a audience that only includes other black people, then I think it's right that they should have the opportunity to do so. If the theatre doesn't manage to sell enough tickets, that's their loss.

Some women don't seem to care about single sex spaces. That's fair enough, they are entitled to feel whatever they feel. But their lack of interest in single sex spaces doesn't invalidate my belief that such spaces can sometimes be very valuable.

What about black people who not only don’t want to go to a black only night, but actually feel that the idea is divisive and regressive? Do they have a say?

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 22:25

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 22:22

So you piss yourself off then? 😘 bless you, I'll pray for you🙏HTH😉

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I'm not the one getting all of a fluster because some black people may wish to go to the theatre together.

The mental gymnastics you're doing there are quite impressive, I must say.

SammyScrounge · 06/04/2024 22:24

Medschoolmum · 06/04/2024 13:14

If black performers and/or theatre-goers feel that it's important to have Black Out nights in a play about slavery, then I don't think it's my place as a white person to question that.

Excuse me, but everyone has the right to question any group's activity or ideas. They may come away convinced by a group or they may not but they should not disqualify themselves from thinking on the grounds of colour.

Anele22 · 06/04/2024 22:23

Fairyliz · 06/04/2024 15:37

Can anyone explain why black people feel the theatre is not for them?
I regularly go to the theatre and would say about 20% of performers are black which is a lot more than the general population.
So if you can see people like you on stage why not buy a ticket and go?

I expect it’s to do with the stories being told. I’ve been to plays where there are more black people in the cast than in the audience. I’ve also been to plays such as Grenfell and Trouble in Mind where there were lots of black people in the audience. I also directed a play called Windrush generations which brought larger numbers of black people to my very white theatre in a very white city than ever before.

We need to be telling black stories as well as white stories and we absolutely need to find ways of making the theatre financially accessible to poorer people of all ethnicities. Anything else is lip service.

Elvis1956 · 06/04/2024 22:23

InTheShallowTheShalalalalalalalow · 06/04/2024 21:41

You go right ahead and carefully choose your statistics....

Going on about Indian people who work at radio 4 just shows exactly what you're getting at.

Yes what I am going on about is there are lots of programmes on R4 about India...dramas recorded there...where are the Chinese, African, Latin America programmes.
where are the stories about Somerset, dorset...the Scottish plays? Sunderland and Carlisle, Ipswich and Norwich. Where are the guys with my accent reading the gurt lush news...why ain't we talking about daps and dapping down the village.
you don't even know what I am talking about but I bet you know about Bollywood films and bangra music

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 22:22

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So you piss yourself off then? 😘 bless you, I'll pray for you🙏HTH😉

SunshineDaisiesButterMellowxx · 06/04/2024 22:21

Medschoolmum · 06/04/2024 22:06

Yes, it would be racist.

Have you ever studied any history? You seem not to understand the significance of it?

Have you ever studied any history? You seem not to understand the significance of it?

Probably half the people on this thread do not "study" history, so your comment here is pretty flippant. Black History is not the only history, although you'd think it was given the responses to some of these comments.

We all know about black oppression, but you're completely missing the whole point.

If you think you're not, then like I've said before, listen to Candace Owens.

StarlightLime · 06/04/2024 22:14

PenguinLord · 06/04/2024 14:04

But very few do because they find theatres uninclusive. White audiecnes assume they are included, many minorities dont feel they are- and Black out Nights are meant to encourage black audiences to feel included and potentially frequent spaces mroe often.

This sounds like nonsense. Why would any non white person feel they're "not welcome" to book a seat at the theatre?
Theatres are perfectly inclusive; literally anyone can go.

Spudthespanner · 06/04/2024 22:13

It's bullshit created by people who quite like segregating themselves and want more of it. Perpetual victimhood.

Medschoolmum · 06/04/2024 22:11

ThomasinaLivesHere · 06/04/2024 22:09

Perhaps people go to the theatre for different reasons. I’ve never thought of other audience members much unless they’re on their phones or generally being annoying. I certainly don’t feel connected to them in some shared experience. If I wanted that I’d go to some support group or such like.

I actually think the shared experience is quite an important aspect of live theatre. But each to their own?