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To think the UK has gone to hell in a handcart?

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Superlambaanana · 06/04/2024 12:01

I’m just so fed up hearing about powerful people (usually men) getting away with things. It seems to have become the norm for them to do whatever the hell they like with zero consequences beyond a bit of handwringing in the media, which dies down fairly quickly, and never results in anything changing or being overturned. Leaving us ‘little people’ just having to suck it up.

Examples:

P&O sacked 800 workers in 2022. The CEO, Peter Hebblethwaite even admitted it was illegal. Yet nothing was ever done about it and he’s still CEO!

Liz Truss’s honours list. Bit of a roasting in the press for a day or two, but all the Truss supporters still got their honours in the end. Add to that Boris Johnston’s and the very dubious Charlotte Owen, and now Rishi Sunak creating a whole new honours round to make sure some party donors were rewarded in a blatant exercise in corruption.

Prince Andrew. Apparently still thinking of making a return to public life!!!!!! I mean, wtaf?!!!!!!

Michelle Mone. Has she really faced any actual consequences?

Phillip Scofield. Cheats on wife, bullies colleagues and his boyfriend, but achieves victim status because he was coming out of the closet.

Post Office scandal. Yes it’s managed to get some traction, but people will tire of it eventually and I bet that happens long before the sub-post masters get any justice or decent compensation.

Cost of living crisis and energy companies making absolute fortunes at all our expense with no prospect of bills actually coming back down to where they should be - no, instead we should be happy that they aren’t going up just as fast as last year!

Water companies. Borrowing money to give shareholders big payouts instead of actually managing the water and sewage systems to the extent that rivers are now full of faeces.

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friggingno · 06/04/2024 13:02

@Superlambaanana (oh!) but big companies and their ceos can do whatever the fuck they want, their only accountability is to big money. It's not like they have anything to fear from the public.

Corinthiana · 06/04/2024 12:59

You've never been on a protest march? Maybe join in one, maybe be part of a campaign, that's what I did.
Then stand for office, or campaign for somebody you support.
You can be part of change, but you have to be proactive.

Liloona · 06/04/2024 12:58

No I don't agree. I think the majority of people in this country don't know they're born. As the daughter of a refugee it really fucks me off.

Yes there are some corrupt, dickhead politicians but at the end of the day we live in a democracy and you can vote them out.

There are multiple other issues but it doesn't mean this is a shit country to live in.

Superlambaanana · 06/04/2024 12:58

CranfordScones · 06/04/2024 12:50

In fairness, several of those may be the subject of legal action at some point.

A related scandal is the way the courts service and the CPS has been pared down to levels where justice is either poorly served, not available or very costly to many - research the so-called Innocence Tax if you're interested. It's explored very thoughtfully in The Secret Barrister. Unfortunately it's not a cause that features highly with most voters.

Yes the Secret Barrister is great. If a depressing read.

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Superlambaanana · 06/04/2024 12:57

itsjustbiology · 06/04/2024 12:49

The most recent example ..the MP who flashed his bits on Grinder and gave out MPs phone numbers..ffs Wheres the sense? He could have put so many people in danger but OH no he is a poor victim.His apology was BRAVE and couragous. I mean really are we all supposed to swallow that? He should have stayed the private wanker he was but Parliament have full confidence in him..Glad they do cos I dont . Ultimate tosser in my view and probably everyone else who saw his videos!!!

Yea I thought Hunt inserting the word Brave was really odd.

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Superlambaanana · 06/04/2024 12:55

Corinthiana · 06/04/2024 12:47

What would you like to do?
Emigrate? Stand for office? Set up a charity?
Campaign in some way?

I have never been on a protest march but I feel I would go on one about this. I think we're at the mercy of the media if we don't speak out. The media pick and choose which stories to cover and for how long and it doesn't necessarily correlate to the injustice people feel. Nor does it seem to illicit any consequences being visited upon the perpetrators. Social media is supposed to give ordinary people a voice but it doesn't seem to help either. Perhaps our fickleness is to blame. I mean I just cannot understand how P&O just got away with sacking all those people and the CEO got to keep his job and we've all just moved on from it!

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itsjustbiology · 06/04/2024 12:54

And let us not even get into the elephant in the room about us looking like a third world country. All thats working out really well too in my opinion. ..ffs

scalt · 06/04/2024 12:53

Exactly. No accountability of anyone at the top.

You or I can be jailed for lying about who was driving a speeding car. We’re still waiting for Tony Blair to be jailed for his massive lie.

As for Johnson: where do we even begin? He should be jailed for lying under oath to the privileges committee.

Deliadidit · 06/04/2024 12:52

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This is not what this country use to be about and it’s perfectly normal to mourn what was once a relatively good place to live. I use to feel proud in my younger days of this country and even though I have never been a Tory voter, I never felt as I do now about this government and th big companies behaving so underhand and corrupt.

Superlambaanana · 06/04/2024 12:51

Snoopsnoggysnog · 06/04/2024 12:41

Totally agree with your examples, OP. I would add that captain Tom’s daughter to your list.

I’d love to see a similar list of people in the public eye who have genuinely done good stuff, or even policies and politicians that have benefited people in this country. But I can’t think of any examples right now!

God yes, forgot about that cretin. Another one who has ridden out the bad press and ended up keeping the spoils of her immoral actions.

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RhubarbAndGingerCheesecake · 06/04/2024 12:50

I used to think our political system had standards and some ethics but I think that’s gone now.

I go further and many national institutions like police forces and Post office have lost their standards as people seem to have no shame any more.

I was eye rolling very hard at all the MP giving the MP a pass for sharing explicit pictures and then giving into blackmail rather than taking a deep breath and contacting the police - as if this was in any way acceptable behavior. My 17 knows not to send explicit pictures so why the fuck doesn't a grown ass man in a position of considerable authority.

FeistyFrankie · 06/04/2024 12:50

Has the UK ever been a place where rich people were called to account?

Or are we just more def up than ever with the blatant corruption, elitism and the rich so very obviously protecting the rich.

CranfordScones · 06/04/2024 12:50

In fairness, several of those may be the subject of legal action at some point.

A related scandal is the way the courts service and the CPS has been pared down to levels where justice is either poorly served, not available or very costly to many - research the so-called Innocence Tax if you're interested. It's explored very thoughtfully in The Secret Barrister. Unfortunately it's not a cause that features highly with most voters.

Superlambaanana · 06/04/2024 12:49

Theeyeballsinthesky · 06/04/2024 12:37

You’re not wrong OP it’s the lack of consequences/accountability I struggle with.

the line from the great gatsby resonates with me about all this “They were careless people, Tom and Daisy- they smashed up things and creatures and then retreated back into their money or their vast carelessness or whatever it was that kept them together, and let other people clean up the mess they had made” they have smashed everything up and then fucked off with their wealth leaving other ppl to try and sort it out

Exactly! And we just put up with it time and time again. I honestly think politicians, business leaders, celebrities etc take the attitude of "Let's just do [insert corrupt/ illegal/ immoral action here] because it suits us. To hell with others. We'll get a bit of bad press for doing it, but it won't last long so we'll just ride that out and in the end we'll have got what we want."

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itsjustbiology · 06/04/2024 12:49

The most recent example ..the MP who flashed his bits on Grinder and gave out MPs phone numbers..ffs Wheres the sense? He could have put so many people in danger but OH no he is a poor victim.His apology was BRAVE and couragous. I mean really are we all supposed to swallow that? He should have stayed the private wanker he was but Parliament have full confidence in him..Glad they do cos I dont . Ultimate tosser in my view and probably everyone else who saw his videos!!!

Corinthiana · 06/04/2024 12:47

What would you like to do?
Emigrate? Stand for office? Set up a charity?
Campaign in some way?

Superlambaanana · 06/04/2024 12:45

@DiamondArtists what else can we do except call it out? I actually do wish we didn't put up with so much but the UK isn't really a 'take to the streets' type place. If we just keep sucking it up though it will only get worse.

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friggingno · 06/04/2024 12:44

I agree OP the level of incompetence + brazen profiteering is totally insane. And it's move on, nothing to see here. Plugging of holes with chewing gum and distracting with non-issues. No long term thoughts, everyone just sitting at the through pigging out, from top to bottom.
In politics, here are no leaders, no long view, nothing.

I travel quite a lot and it's shocking to come back to the UK and compare what we are getting for our taxes, it's a complete joke. Feels like the country is being asset stripped. The col is just carte blanche to seemingly sink the economy and really screw people?

Superlambaanana · 06/04/2024 12:44

TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 06/04/2024 12:12

You are being unreasonable - it went to hell in a handcart several years ago. It's just that people are finally noticing now.

🤣 lols. Fair point.

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Superlambaanana · 06/04/2024 12:43

MinervaMcGonagallsCat · 06/04/2024 12:10

A number of those on your list are facing significant financial and legal consequences

Who?

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Snoopsnoggysnog · 06/04/2024 12:41

Totally agree with your examples, OP. I would add that captain Tom’s daughter to your list.

I’d love to see a similar list of people in the public eye who have genuinely done good stuff, or even policies and politicians that have benefited people in this country. But I can’t think of any examples right now!

AgnesX · 06/04/2024 12:40

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Maybe so but this is the one we live in and it's not a race to the bottom.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 06/04/2024 12:37

You’re not wrong OP it’s the lack of consequences/accountability I struggle with.

the line from the great gatsby resonates with me about all this “They were careless people, Tom and Daisy- they smashed up things and creatures and then retreated back into their money or their vast carelessness or whatever it was that kept them together, and let other people clean up the mess they had made” they have smashed everything up and then fucked off with their wealth leaving other ppl to try and sort it out

Darker · 06/04/2024 12:32

TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 06/04/2024 12:12

You are being unreasonable - it went to hell in a handcart several years ago. It's just that people are finally noticing now.

I feel I’ve been screaming about this for years and years.

itsjustbiology · 06/04/2024 12:19

I too am ashamed of this country now. I look at the state of it and it makes me angry and hopeless in equal measures. I think the UK is all but finished as we ever knew it and not for the good.This is Britain someone took the Great bit out of it and it wont come back.

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