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To think the UK has gone to hell in a handcart?

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Superlambaanana · 06/04/2024 12:01

I’m just so fed up hearing about powerful people (usually men) getting away with things. It seems to have become the norm for them to do whatever the hell they like with zero consequences beyond a bit of handwringing in the media, which dies down fairly quickly, and never results in anything changing or being overturned. Leaving us ‘little people’ just having to suck it up.

Examples:

P&O sacked 800 workers in 2022. The CEO, Peter Hebblethwaite even admitted it was illegal. Yet nothing was ever done about it and he’s still CEO!

Liz Truss’s honours list. Bit of a roasting in the press for a day or two, but all the Truss supporters still got their honours in the end. Add to that Boris Johnston’s and the very dubious Charlotte Owen, and now Rishi Sunak creating a whole new honours round to make sure some party donors were rewarded in a blatant exercise in corruption.

Prince Andrew. Apparently still thinking of making a return to public life!!!!!! I mean, wtaf?!!!!!!

Michelle Mone. Has she really faced any actual consequences?

Phillip Scofield. Cheats on wife, bullies colleagues and his boyfriend, but achieves victim status because he was coming out of the closet.

Post Office scandal. Yes it’s managed to get some traction, but people will tire of it eventually and I bet that happens long before the sub-post masters get any justice or decent compensation.

Cost of living crisis and energy companies making absolute fortunes at all our expense with no prospect of bills actually coming back down to where they should be - no, instead we should be happy that they aren’t going up just as fast as last year!

Water companies. Borrowing money to give shareholders big payouts instead of actually managing the water and sewage systems to the extent that rivers are now full of faeces.

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blue345 · 06/04/2024 18:12

What he did was highly ill advised, but not illlegal.

That depends on whether you believe there was underage grooming. The photos (now deleted) certainly suggest there was contact well before 16 and MM wasn't the only one to receive questionable Snapchat messages from PS. Clever move to cough up for an NDA so the finer details won't be shared.

Anyway, I'd say the biggest issue now is a collective selfishness. People chucking rubbish on the floor, being antisocial on trains etc, being disrespectful to teachers. All small things but add up to a society that isn't much fun to live in.

0sm0nthus · 06/04/2024 18:12

who can honestly blame them. It's wrong, very wrong, but human nature nonetheless
@ginasevern human nature also contains a deep drive for fairness & justice, primates also express this drive:

User135644 · 06/04/2024 18:07

Superlambaanana · 06/04/2024 12:01

I’m just so fed up hearing about powerful people (usually men) getting away with things. It seems to have become the norm for them to do whatever the hell they like with zero consequences beyond a bit of handwringing in the media, which dies down fairly quickly, and never results in anything changing or being overturned. Leaving us ‘little people’ just having to suck it up.

Examples:

P&O sacked 800 workers in 2022. The CEO, Peter Hebblethwaite even admitted it was illegal. Yet nothing was ever done about it and he’s still CEO!

Liz Truss’s honours list. Bit of a roasting in the press for a day or two, but all the Truss supporters still got their honours in the end. Add to that Boris Johnston’s and the very dubious Charlotte Owen, and now Rishi Sunak creating a whole new honours round to make sure some party donors were rewarded in a blatant exercise in corruption.

Prince Andrew. Apparently still thinking of making a return to public life!!!!!! I mean, wtaf?!!!!!!

Michelle Mone. Has she really faced any actual consequences?

Phillip Scofield. Cheats on wife, bullies colleagues and his boyfriend, but achieves victim status because he was coming out of the closet.

Post Office scandal. Yes it’s managed to get some traction, but people will tire of it eventually and I bet that happens long before the sub-post masters get any justice or decent compensation.

Cost of living crisis and energy companies making absolute fortunes at all our expense with no prospect of bills actually coming back down to where they should be - no, instead we should be happy that they aren’t going up just as fast as last year!

Water companies. Borrowing money to give shareholders big payouts instead of actually managing the water and sewage systems to the extent that rivers are now full of faeces.

😩😫😩😫😫😩😫😩😫😫😩

Mostly men but two of your examples are Truss crashing the economy and the disgrace of Michelle Mone.

ginasevern · 06/04/2024 18:07

0sm0nthus · 06/04/2024 18:03

Agree, although I tend to see this as a 'human nature problem'.
What I mean is that all animals need to have a deep instinct to hold onto any resources or territory that they gain, other wise the species will not survive. Humans here are expressing the same deep instinct, no-one cedes power willingly, the more of it you have the greater your desire & ability to extend and defend it. This is why power corrupts, we always want more of it and given free reign (including the belief that it is deserved) we will take all we can.
What we need is mitigations put in place to check power BEFORE it gets entrenched and out of control.

Totally agree. The RF are the ultimate self preservation society and, given their unimaginable privilege and wealth, who can honestly blame them. It's wrong, very wrong, but human nature nonetheless.

dontcallmelen · 06/04/2024 18:05

ginasevern · 06/04/2024 14:08

He was rotten to the core, a liar, a misogynist and flakey as fuck but I lived as an adult through the Thatcher era. She was the first to open the sewer gates and start the dismantling process of anything decent in society, along with citizens rights. Successive Tory governments have returned to try to finish the job but this one has actually succeeded.

Absolutely, we became the spivs of Europe selling off our infrastructure & dismantling communities instead of investing in people & places.
no civilised society should have utilities/transport/social care/childrens services etc in private hands, it’s always ends up that those on the receiving end of these services suffer whilst the shareholders gain. Tis a low bar that we console ourselves other countries are worse, it really shouldn’t be such a race to the bottom & the strokes that this cess pit of a government have pulled & continue to do so practically every day is shameful.

0sm0nthus · 06/04/2024 18:03

ginasevern · 06/04/2024 17:43

Quite. We were sold (are still being sold) the sweet, dutiful, lovable, almost vulnerable "one of us" rhetoric. They are not, she was not. Their primary objective is self preservation and that of their obscene privilege.

Agree, although I tend to see this as a 'human nature problem'.
What I mean is that all animals need to have a deep instinct to hold onto any resources or territory that they gain, other wise the species will not survive. Humans here are expressing the same deep instinct, no-one cedes power willingly, the more of it you have the greater your desire & ability to extend and defend it. This is why power corrupts, we always want more of it and given free reign (including the belief that it is deserved) we will take all we can.
What we need is mitigations put in place to check power BEFORE it gets entrenched and out of control.

Tiredalwaystired · 06/04/2024 18:01

I think you were spot on until you added Philip Schofield to that list. Whatever he did do / didn’t do was a matter for him and his family and isn’t really anything to do with the rest of us.The media just made it everyone’s business. If you add him then you need to add everyone who ever had an affair (I mean, maybe you do). What he did was highly ill advised, but not illlegal.

if anything I think his punishment has been far more extreme than it deserved as his career is over. I mean, Ant McPartlin nearly killed a kid drunk driving but the world seems to have conveniently forgotten that one.

The others are legit examples of the few shitting on the many and getting away with it.

Liloona · 06/04/2024 18:00

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 06/04/2024 17:48

Give Braverman, Badenoch, Sunak & Co another 5 years, and you won't need to do any imagining.

Come on, they're toast at the next election and they know it.

OnlyTheBravest · 06/04/2024 17:58

I love my country but there are improvements that could be made and it has to come from all sections of society.
When you have the people in charge just rolling over it and making a mockery of laws/morals. You can not expect everyone else to toe the line.

Tony Blair going to war when the country begged him not to. No accountability for the consequences that followed.
Nick Clegg sold his election promises on uni tuition fees to get into power. No accountability for the consequences that followed.
David Cameron offered a referendum without setting the conditions properly, promised to deal with the outcome either way, then promptly ran away. How he is back in government has me completely flummoxed. No accountability for the consequences that followed.
And the list goes on and on and on.

You can defiantly feel the change out there. People are becoming more selfish and inward looking and those who just want a fair society are hurting because they remember how it used to be. Was it perfect no but a damn sight better than it is now.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 06/04/2024 17:48

Alstreena · 06/04/2024 17:25

I think we should all be glad that we live in UK where at least we have a vote.

Imagine living in the Middle East in some theocratic regime where, if you go out onto the streets to protest about something you get shot. 🙁

Give Braverman, Badenoch, Sunak & Co another 5 years, and you won't need to do any imagining.

ginasevern · 06/04/2024 17:43

0sm0nthus · 06/04/2024 17:39

Yes, there was an iron fist in that velvet glove.
She had the sense to keep her mouth shut though, which meant people tended to believe the façade.

Quite. We were sold (are still being sold) the sweet, dutiful, lovable, almost vulnerable "one of us" rhetoric. They are not, she was not. Their primary objective is self preservation and that of their obscene privilege.

0sm0nthus · 06/04/2024 17:39

ginasevern · 06/04/2024 17:25

The Queen personally lobied the then Tory Government (and naturally succeeded) to change laws in her and her family's favour. This included the concealment of "her embarrassing private wealth" from the public and to ensure that her household remained exempt from laws around race and sex discrimination. She held immense offshore investments that avoided taxation in the UK (and which still does) and Charles' inheritance from her is tax free.

In fact she personally ensured that she and her family were exempt from a staggering 160 laws granting her sweeping immunity from swathes of British law ranging from animal welfare to employees' rights.

Yes, there was an iron fist in that velvet glove.
She had the sense to keep her mouth shut though, which meant people tended to believe the façade.

ginasevern · 06/04/2024 17:36

Alstreena · 06/04/2024 17:25

I think we should all be glad that we live in UK where at least we have a vote.

Imagine living in the Middle East in some theocratic regime where, if you go out onto the streets to protest about something you get shot. 🙁

I agree that we should celebrate our freedoms but I don't think gratitude is in order. We fought and died for centuries to attain the rights you are talking about. Nobody handed us the right to vote, to not send children into factories or down mines, to not lose limbs whilst doing our jobs, to not be deported for stealing a loaf of bread or sold into indentured slavery. These freedoms were bloody hard won by brave men and women. They were not god given and they did not magically manifest or "just come about".

ginasevern · 06/04/2024 17:25

NoisySnail · 06/04/2024 17:03

And if those other Royal Families were accepting suitcases full of cash, I would also condemn them.
It is all about an erosion in acceptable behaviour. Queen Elizabeth would not have behaved this way, but King Charles does.

The Queen personally lobied the then Tory Government (and naturally succeeded) to change laws in her and her family's favour. This included the concealment of "her embarrassing private wealth" from the public and to ensure that her household remained exempt from laws around race and sex discrimination. She held immense offshore investments that avoided taxation in the UK (and which still does) and Charles' inheritance from her is tax free.

In fact she personally ensured that she and her family were exempt from a staggering 160 laws granting her sweeping immunity from swathes of British law ranging from animal welfare to employees' rights.

Alstreena · 06/04/2024 17:25

I think we should all be glad that we live in UK where at least we have a vote.

Imagine living in the Middle East in some theocratic regime where, if you go out onto the streets to protest about something you get shot. 🙁

coxesorangepippin · 06/04/2024 17:20

Totally agree @NoisySnail

coxesorangepippin · 06/04/2024 17:19

That of course is only the tip of the iceberg as the Royal Family's true portfolio has (and never will be) fully disclosed. I wonder why.

^

Perhaps there would be a revolution?

Oh no, but wait, we'll just keep the plebs happy with their tabloid information on the Royals instead, keep 'em happy. Why would they need to know otherwise?

And now all the algorithms are nicely set up on their cell phone we don't actually need to produce that much fluff for them to get worked up about. Harry and Meg, Randy Andy et al distracts from the actual problem of the extent of their wealth and influence.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 06/04/2024 17:19

Mistake

NoisySnail · 06/04/2024 17:18

@coxesorangepippin I think that race to the bottom is part of the UK's problem. We should all want to make the country better, not just accept it being shit because some countries are worse. What kind of attitude is that? Totally deafeatist with zero ambition for our country.

0sm0nthus · 06/04/2024 17:17

Superlambaanana · 06/04/2024 14:56

But it's when they don't hide it or try to pull the wool over our eyes that I'm on about. It's the blatant- yes I have given honours to someone in return for cash: what of it little people? attitude that I'm calling out here.

When people get away with things for too long they overreach, hopefully they are now over reaching and enough of us can see through them.

coxesorangepippin · 06/04/2024 17:16

Standard MN race to the bottom approach again here.

Oh it's not that bad, be grateful etc

NoisySnail · 06/04/2024 17:15

Boris Johnson illegally prorogued parliament. Never been done before. He faced zero consequences for his illegal action.

Liloona · 06/04/2024 17:14

NoisySnail · 06/04/2024 16:58

I assume it is all Conservative party supporters who are pretending that there has always been naked corruption by governments with no consequences. And it is simply not true.
All I want at this point is a government that is competent and non corrupt. At one time we would have taken that for granted.

Absolutely not me, I've never voted tory in my life and never would.

NoisySnail · 06/04/2024 17:14

@Liloona That is such a vague statement. Give us examples.

Corinthiana · 06/04/2024 17:14

ginasevern · 06/04/2024 17:02

Yes indeed I have and in my book it is all wrong. We were however talking about the British establishment. The British Empire was the biggest the world has ever seen. It covered one quarter of the Globe. Other countries' colonial power pales almost into insignificance. Charles inherited £650 million in private wealth from his mother bringing his disclosed net worth to around £2 billion. That of course is only the tip of the iceberg as the Royal Family's true portfolio has (and never will be) fully disclosed. I wonder why.

The Belgium, Swedish and even the Spanish Royal family (despite their displays of bling) can only dream of this sort of money.

Have a look at the accumulated wealth of the Belgian Empire. King Leopold was the richest man in the world at one point. The Dutch Empire?
They've lined their pockets very nicely.

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