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Do you ever think about this when you eat out? MUST READ

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DistinguishedSocialCommentator · 05/04/2024 17:12

Years ago, I think it was a phone-in radio show show where they were talking about eating out. The caller said they put good-looking, smart people near windows and other prominent positions to entice new customers and I though, really, and started thinking where we were seated last time we ate out, lol

We rarely eat out other than a bite to eat at the local supermarkets unless on hols etc but when on hols, thankfully I have a really good-looking OH
😂and get a seat next to a window unless we don't want it.

I know for a fact that our daughter gets loads of attention from the waiters, male and female because she looks stunning, so it could be true?

Its their business, their choice, but not good practice IMO if it is still true in some places (For the record, I we do get put off if we see loud people and this that talk a lot with their hands and standing up, sitting down and big lol's)

NB: Do you own a restaurant/etc, do you practice stuff like this?

AIBU to think this kind of behaviour by some places that you go to eat to are doing this kind of thing are totally out of order as it should be the personality/behviour and not looks?

From a great newspaper in London - see below

Researchers on Channel 4 show Tricks of the Restaurant Trade discovered the best-looking diners were seated near windows to entice customers while less attractive customers were hidden away near the rear.

https://www.standard.co.uk/news/london/top-london-restaurants-sit-ugly-people-at-the-back-claims-channel-4-show-a3148566.html

Top London restaurants 'sit ugly people at the back'

If you don’t get a window seat at a top London restaurant it could be because you’re too ugly and will put off other customers, a new documentary claims.

https://www.standard.co.uk/news/london/top-london-restaurants-sit-ugly-people-at-the-back-claims-channel-4-show-a3148566.html

OP posts:
BrendaSmall · 05/04/2024 19:16

How about if someone ugly requests the window seat and then not long after, someone good looking walks in, will they turf out the ugly person?
🤣

mondaytosunday · 05/04/2024 19:14

When I was younger I was quite striking (did a bit of modelling) and now I'm a post 60 hag - no can't recall bringing treated any different in terms of seating. Frankly unless you are talking about some trendy hot spot most customers are pretty average looking.

KitKatChunki · 05/04/2024 19:13

When I was a waitress we were told to always seat people in any window seats that were free - they want people to think they are busy.

FYI we were not at all picky about what they looked like 😅

shrumps · 05/04/2024 19:12

After 20 years on Mumsnet, this may be the post that drives me away 😂

Bellsandthistle · 05/04/2024 19:11

Surely they’d sit children away from the windows no matter how “stunning” they are.

ilovesooty · 05/04/2024 19:08

missin · 05/04/2024 18:35

Bc a man wrote it

Tbf though the OP is very self important there's no evidence that it's a man.

Minimili · 05/04/2024 19:08

KreedKafer · 05/04/2024 17:51

In what way is a post about an eight-year-old story in a free newspaper, about something that’s been known forever, a ‘MUST READ’?

it’s so we know OP has a good looking husband and stunning daughter of course!

ilovesooty · 05/04/2024 19:06

catPA · 05/04/2024 18:22

Why is this a 'MUST READ?'

Because the OP said so 😂

SevenSeasOfRhye · 05/04/2024 19:02

The husband and I are ugly as the day is long, and we're also old. Never noticed this happening - last time we ate out we had a lovely table in a bay window.

Mind you, we don't live in London; we live oop north 😀

DyslexicPoster · 05/04/2024 18:58

I'm not sure as my kids are stunning ( honestly i had someone tell memy dd will always be disliked as she is pretty 😍) but I'm minging so where do we sit? Maybe we need to split up.

ironorchids · 05/04/2024 18:58

Must read - my daughter is stunning, all the objective evidence says so.

Let me make up some irrelevant nonsense to get as many people on here as possible to know - my daughter is STUNNING.

Blah blah blah here's some rubbish I'm pretending is my point so I can get my real point across about my fabulous family. And did I tell you that 50% of her genes came from me?

Minimili · 05/04/2024 18:54

WOW! I’m blown away, what an inspiring utterly thought provoking read.

I will now pay attention to where I’m seated in a restaurant, my eyes have well and truly been opened.

I have never questioned why we are usually led to the darkest, quietest tables that were out of view before and why the staff blew out any candles and requested we had to stay away from the window.
The last time we ate out we were ushered to the cellar which had no windows at all, I guess that also explains the “seatbelts” on our chairs that only the staff could undo - they weren’t for “safety reasons” they were to stop us wandering off and being glimpsed by members of the public.

Thank you for urging me to read this OP.
Now me and DP have confirmation how ugly we are I can properly address the issue
I’m currently googling plastic surgeons so one day we might get our chance to shine and get to sit amongst other diners. I’m desperate to sit in the window so passers-by can watch me struggle to eat my dinner without dropping it down my front, dropping my knife on the floor or going red in the face from wine and laughing at DP’s jokes.

Congratulations on your beautiful daughter and good looking husband. Your husband isn’t the top DJ who is spinning the decks at your daughter’s school bash is he? Or was that another lucky lady?

Pickingmyselfup · 05/04/2024 18:44

I can confirm I have never sat people near windows because they are good looking, it's because it's a nicer table and first come first served unless it's reserved.

LaPalmaLlama · 05/04/2024 18:43

I often get put in the window but tbh I find it annoying due to all the passersby staring at me and occasionally trying to snog the glass or even break through it to get to me- they just can’t control themselves, such is my hotness. Puts me right off my nachos.

SweetFemaleAttitude · 05/04/2024 18:43

Lurleene · 05/04/2024 18:13

I remember this was a story line in an episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm. Since watching that DH are painfully aware that we are usually seated in the ugly corner.🙂

Loved that ep 🤣🤣 gutted for the last one this week 💔

Mummame2222 · 05/04/2024 18:40

I’ve worked in several restaurants this doesn’t happen.

Nor do exceptionally attractive people get loads of attention, that’s a bit delusional tbh.

ThirtyThrillionThreeTrees · 05/04/2024 18:38

Well I must subconsciously think I'm absolutely gorgeous because I always ask for a window seat?

I should stop making it so easy for them to use me as advertising 😉

Also, less of the MUST READ please, we aren't at work & it's not a compliance memo!

CleanShirt · 05/04/2024 18:36

Not a must read. False advertising.

missin · 05/04/2024 18:35

🙄 was missing from my sentence lol

missin · 05/04/2024 18:35

catPA · 05/04/2024 18:22

Why is this a 'MUST READ?'

Bc a man wrote it

Elphame · 05/04/2024 18:35

Well that was a waste of my time!

"Must read" indeed! 😂

idontlikealdi · 05/04/2024 18:35

Op have you been watching Ted Lasso? It's to make the restaurant look buy as others have said. The Standard is shite and has been for years.

FlipCharter · 05/04/2024 18:35

DH and I always used to get the window tables 25 years ago.

These days we only get one if the place is totally empty!

Stickysusan · 05/04/2024 18:34

Oh, I’ve just noticed who the OP is………

LindorDoubleChoc · 05/04/2024 18:32

What is this click baity bollocks? Surely just a pathetic attempt to direct Mumsnetters to The Standard, which is a rag!

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