Husband embarrassed when I felt unwell

You were nbu at all! Hard to believe how many insensitives are rushing to berate your perfectly understandable response to feeling very light headed. I know just how that feels and agree that to try and leave the room without a drama would have been a risk (fainting or vomiting). People are usually so caught up in the celebrations that I doubt anyone even noticed. Hope your DH develops a spine and learns to be more concerned about your wellbeing than his mates’ opinions.

This!😂😂😂

He made it a bigger deal by fussing about. I do wonder if he was drunk so his reasoning/thoughts weren't really straight.
I don't believe you were drunk, all these people claiming you were pissed are being ridiculous. If you'd been sick, passed out on the floor or started trying to argue/fight with people then yes, you would have been embarrassing. Feeling ill and trying to keep quiet and out of the way is not embarrassing.

Where did 2 prosecco feature in my earlier description of fainting? 3 drinks over a couple of hours as per the first occasion or a few sips of my first pint in the second arent going to leave me - or most adults - 'trashed blind drunk'

If my husband was there at a friend's wedding I doubt he would even notice and if he did would get some water and tell me to sort myself out! Guess we're not the type to be a couple when socialising, we just drift off and talk to people. X

Since I've left the U.K. I have realised how odd English people are about being embarrassed about stupid stuff. If you were feeling unwell, for whatever reason OP, your partner is the odd one to feel embarrassed by you. You aren't an extension of him and for him to feel that way is actually kind of narcissistic. Unless you're a drunk or a hypochondriac who repeats this behaviour time and time again, his response was odd. You did what you did to make the least fuss, in your mind, while feeling unwell. No reason to be embarrassed at all. You weren't dancing topless on the table after getting smashed. This is English awkwardness brought on by thinking more about what other people are thinking about us (they're usually not, this is all in our own heads) than the well-being of someone we care about.

Not really, I suffer from fainting fits and if it had been me and I'd stood up to leave I'd have hit the deck like a sack of shit.

EDIT ..Sorry @K0OLA1D I didn't realise you were sticking up for OP!

Jesus fucking Christ on a mountain bike, the OP was not drunk and had not been drinking on an empty stomach! Are people being deliberately obtuse or just plain thick?

OP, your husband’s message to the B and G about you is pretty disloyal and quite peculiar. On top of his behaviour on the day itself, I’m finding it unpleasant and a bit suspicious, although I don’t quite know what I suspect him of! I’d be having a word.

I would not have put my head down, that really does look bad. But, given his behavior when you finally did tell him, I can also see why you didn't immediately ask him to help you out of the room to go get some air and a soft place to sit. He took what was a small faux pax on your side and turned it into an entire thing for everyone to notice.
Also, I have felt this way at times in situations like this and it has almost always been air stuck in my stomach. It makes me feel ill and gives me a headache. Obviously, I can't say this is what your issue may be, but this is what it is when it happens to me. Drinking something fizzy and burping helps a ton. As does just throwing up if nothing fizzy is available,

Ach you did what you did. Husband was embarrassed. You feel hurt.
Let it go.

How could she have got a cab when she wasn’t well and had to keep her head down?

I'd have got a cab home by myself asap. He shouldn't have been embarrassed, better than you chucking up etc. something else underlying his response.

Except OP said she didn't drink on an empty stomach @Danielle9891 and did have water and food - this happened after the meal and cake.

I wouldn't be disappointed if my partner, or anyone, did this I would be concerned. Frankly I would find anyone who was disappointed someone was ill a tad odd.

It sounds like you had a few drinks on an empty stomach, got half cut and placed your head on the table during the speeches. I would find this to be really embarrassing and disrespectful if I'm honest. (I work in hospitality and have been/worked at loads of weddings) You should have just got up and had some water and food. I'd be disappointed if it was my partner acting like that in front of all my friends.

Even if you did feel unwell and it had nothing to do with drinking alcohol on an empty stomach you would have stood out and took some of the attention away from the speeches and the bride and groom.

Your partner couldn't have just left you as people would have noticed and probably kept asking him how/where you were.

I’m on the fence. You say you were going to collapse so had to put your head on the table , but you also tell us when he insisted you left, you did exactly that. So clearly not about to collapse.

youre also very adamant it wasn’t you drunk too much in an empty stomach, but to be honest, im not convinced. You were clearly capable of getting up and leaving, as you did. Putting your head on the table is incredibly rude.

Yeah, that seems a bit extra. Not sure what the point in that was.

Jesus, what a dick. Why the hell did he do that?

I'd also message them saying that you were well enough to wash the clothes he'd vomited over. 🤬

I'd brain him.

‘In that state’. Get a grip.

I'd have been mortified if my husband had puked all over his clothes and shoes as her husband did.

I think they (and your husband) are being extremely unfair to you, OP. You did nothing wrong. These things happen.