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Sanity check please - was I 'devaluing her art' or is this seller a headcase?

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catPA · 03/04/2024 20:31

I bought some items from an online artist based in Canada. The first purchase was for just under £200 and I paid about £45 in customs tax for that. Fine.

After my first purchase (but while it was still in transit), I looked at her Instagram and the seller had done various posts about how her business is struggling to survive, 'artist poverty is real', '30% off with code 'help me pay my electric bill' etc. I thought all this seemed a bit 'unusual,' (also possibly a bit 'tone deaf' as she lives in a huge, beautiful house by the sea and does her art full time so she can be a SAHM - not a choice many women could make)! But I thought fair enough, she's being honest; I genuinely love her art and good for her living her dream. I wanted to support her business if I could.

So I bought another item for £280 which had previously been listed at about £450 (I think). She was doing a sale across all her work.

I couldn't have afforded it at £450 and also the higher customs tax would have been a bit much for me, on balance.

Anyway, both packages didn't arrive for ages and it turned out they were being held at the post office, pending customs charges. The first package, as I said, required a £45 customs tax payment. However, the second package, required a customs tax payment of £95! I asked how that could be possible, when I had paid £280 for the item. Then I saw that the unexpectedly high customs tax was because the seller had stated the value of goods as £450 (or the equivalent in Canadian dollars).

I messaged the seller and told her that surely it's standard practice to state the actual transaction price on a package for customs purposes.

Thst was it. She was straight into "What do you expect me to do?" etc. Then went into the woe-is-me 'artist poverty is real' and how could I be devaluing her art in this way. She got very personalised very quickly. She said she will never devalue her work again because I had done that for her! She said I was essentially asking her to defraud customs. She basically said she wished she had never sold me anything because I don't value her art!

Ffs I had spent over £600 on it (with the tax). I was talking about labelling for customs tax - I believe it should be the transaction amount stated, not some previous price. How is that in my control?

In summary, she became very unprofessional with me and then blocked me.

I had left her a really positive comment on Instagram as well - before all this!

Apologies for the length.

WIBU?

Also, should I leave her a review stating my experience?

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Nesbi · 04/04/2024 12:30

I think the thing that annoys me most about buying art is that the pricing often feels so secretive. I have quite a lot so stuff on my walls, often limited edition prints at prices up to about £1,500, but so often I find an artist I like online but there is no indication of what price various pieces are intended to be sold for, just lots of “Price on Application”

That leaves me immediately feeling wary, as I don’t know if the artist is in my price range, and I feel at a disadvantage as I don’t know if the gallery is going to push me to pay a price that is higher than anything they would ever publicly stand behind.

It makes the whole gallery based art world feel deliberately intended to exclude annd intimidate, and so most of the time I just don’t follow up (and the artist loses a potential sale).

DontBeAMeany · 04/04/2024 12:28

I see a lot of local artists trying to sell art at crazy high prices. I don't doubt it may have taken them a lot of time etc but the actual art isn't good enough.

I renovate old oak furniture to a high standard but I'd be deluded to think I could make full time career out of it. It's a hobby for me and if I sell something it's to offset some of my costs.

Manicpixidreamgirl · 04/04/2024 12:21

@catPA she is using this as an opportunity to inflate her egotistical ‘starving artist’ persona. That’s why she’s making such an issue out of it. Otherwise why not say ‘I though tax was on original value, I’ll give you a receipt, take it up with customs’. She’s enjoying this very, very much.

Sillypede · 04/04/2024 12:19

There are very few poor artists, the poor can't afford to practice it and are increasingly unlikely to be able to study it.

Like practically everything, it's poorly funded, under valued & corrupted by Capitalist social conditions.

She was being unreasonable.

Catza · 04/04/2024 12:18

willWillSmithsmith · 04/04/2024 12:04

Rather aggressive and I’m not ignorant thank you.

So why is it a world famous thing that artists are ‘poor’ and they only ever make money when they’re dead? No one says that about plumbers!

Precisely because the general attitude is that it's not a proper job and shouldn't be compensated as such.

Viviennemary · 04/04/2024 12:18

Not surprised she is struggling with her poor unhelpful attitude towards customers. I would leave a review of your experience. I'd be annoyed too.

Redpaisley · 04/04/2024 12:13

catPA · 03/04/2024 20:31

I bought some items from an online artist based in Canada. The first purchase was for just under £200 and I paid about £45 in customs tax for that. Fine.

After my first purchase (but while it was still in transit), I looked at her Instagram and the seller had done various posts about how her business is struggling to survive, 'artist poverty is real', '30% off with code 'help me pay my electric bill' etc. I thought all this seemed a bit 'unusual,' (also possibly a bit 'tone deaf' as she lives in a huge, beautiful house by the sea and does her art full time so she can be a SAHM - not a choice many women could make)! But I thought fair enough, she's being honest; I genuinely love her art and good for her living her dream. I wanted to support her business if I could.

So I bought another item for £280 which had previously been listed at about £450 (I think). She was doing a sale across all her work.

I couldn't have afforded it at £450 and also the higher customs tax would have been a bit much for me, on balance.

Anyway, both packages didn't arrive for ages and it turned out they were being held at the post office, pending customs charges. The first package, as I said, required a £45 customs tax payment. However, the second package, required a customs tax payment of £95! I asked how that could be possible, when I had paid £280 for the item. Then I saw that the unexpectedly high customs tax was because the seller had stated the value of goods as £450 (or the equivalent in Canadian dollars).

I messaged the seller and told her that surely it's standard practice to state the actual transaction price on a package for customs purposes.

Thst was it. She was straight into "What do you expect me to do?" etc. Then went into the woe-is-me 'artist poverty is real' and how could I be devaluing her art in this way. She got very personalised very quickly. She said she will never devalue her work again because I had done that for her! She said I was essentially asking her to defraud customs. She basically said she wished she had never sold me anything because I don't value her art!

Ffs I had spent over £600 on it (with the tax). I was talking about labelling for customs tax - I believe it should be the transaction amount stated, not some previous price. How is that in my control?

In summary, she became very unprofessional with me and then blocked me.

I had left her a really positive comment on Instagram as well - before all this!

Apologies for the length.

WIBU?

Also, should I leave her a review stating my experience?

Yes leave a bad review. Also, cancel or update positive review.

Rosscameasdoody · 04/04/2024 12:10

She devalued it herself when she started selling it at sale prices. And if it’s art, the value is subjective anyway - as the seller she puts her own value on it for sale purposes.

I’ve had this situation when I’ve bought on EBay and Etsy. I bought a couple of things on EBay from a seller in the US, as they were offering a ‘coupon’ price which amounted to about a 40% discount. When the package arrived in the UK I had a card from Royal Mail to say that the item attracted a customs charge. I paid it and when the package arrived there was a customs sticker on on which the seller had stated the full price of the items which resulted in nearly double the customs charge.

The Etsy item was hand made jewellery from Canada - sold at sale prices, and the same thing happened. I got nowhere with either of the sellers and ended up contacting the selling platforms involved to ask what their policy is on this kind of thing. Predictably I got nowhere with EBay because their customer service is shite. Etsy replied to say that as far as they were concerned, the price charged by the seller should have been the price they quoted for customs purposes. They didn’t intervene with the seller so it made no difference on that occasion but if it happens again, at least there is some recourse.

I would contact the selling platform for comment and once you have that, leave a calm and factual review for the seller, explaining what happened, and their reaction, and include any response you receive from the platform itself.

IamnotwhouthinkIam · 04/04/2024 12:09

I had the same thing with a different US small business putting the “ original “ price rather than the actual (sale) price I had paid on the custom form so I had huge unexpected fees 😢

They don’t care - but they should as it means they’ve lost a regular customer (as in your case, I had bought a lot from them previously). Please leave a factual review OP - I wish I’d known ahead of time that some businesses put the amount they wish they had been paid on customs forms! 🤦‍♀️

Quacking4it · 04/04/2024 12:04

She's cheeky . Definitely leave a review to warn potential overseas buyers of the customs duties etc and for them not to be caught out like you...

willWillSmithsmith · 04/04/2024 12:04

Catza · 04/04/2024 11:38

Well, nobody has to do anything. A self-employed plumber cant get profit in his first week of setting up a business? It's just a hobby then. You obviously have never run a business if you think any company owner out there woke up on day two with 100k in their bank account and a full book of clients.
Every single thing you see, wear, use was designed by someone whom you consider not having a proper job. Every road sign, a print on your favourite pajamas, every book cover, every image on food packaging.. but no, it's not a proper job, apparently, and doesn't add value to society. And that's not even covering product designers and 3D artist who literally design everything from kitchen utensils to cars to assistive equipment.
Is a supermarket checkout person having a proper job? Let's face it, they are not doctors, are they...
The ignorance!

Rather aggressive and I’m not ignorant thank you.

So why is it a world famous thing that artists are ‘poor’ and they only ever make money when they’re dead? No one says that about plumbers!

willWillSmithsmith · 04/04/2024 12:01

babaisyou · 04/04/2024 11:38

You are right that a lot of work needs to be done to make the arts more accessible to everyone.

But suggesting that artists should sell their work for less is not the answer (not sure if you're suggesting that but that seems to be the implication) - they need to make a living like anyone else.

I mean, show me a wealthy artist and I'll show you 1000 wealthy people showing off their botox 'influencing' on social media, or some such bullshit.

My bugbear is that art is often targeted/ devalued like this when there are so many other vocations that bring less value to people's lives, but are somehow deemed more worthy.

Of course, I agree with you about this artist being ridiculous (as I've repeated many, many times).

No, not implying they should sell for less at all, just that it’s not something most people can indulge in (unless they are buying cheaper art). It’s similar to designer clothes, most people can’t buy a Chanel or Hermes handbag so designers get most of their sales from perfume etc rather than the clothes.

Why did the artist sell at a lower price?

penjil · 04/04/2024 11:56

Elber · 04/04/2024 07:03

@catPA

I do think there is a bit of grey area. I think customs is based on the value of the goods, not the cost. So I think the seller can put on her declaration what she believes to be the value. But her intention should have been made clear to you.

The value means the price that was paid. End of.

Catza · 04/04/2024 11:38

willWillSmithsmith · 04/04/2024 10:04

Well, to be brutal, artists don’t have to do it for their main living. They could get a ‘proper’ job and paint in their spare time. I’ve nothing against artists per se but they’re not doctors are they? If they’re not making a living out of it then have it as a hobby.

Well, nobody has to do anything. A self-employed plumber cant get profit in his first week of setting up a business? It's just a hobby then. You obviously have never run a business if you think any company owner out there woke up on day two with 100k in their bank account and a full book of clients.
Every single thing you see, wear, use was designed by someone whom you consider not having a proper job. Every road sign, a print on your favourite pajamas, every book cover, every image on food packaging.. but no, it's not a proper job, apparently, and doesn't add value to society. And that's not even covering product designers and 3D artist who literally design everything from kitchen utensils to cars to assistive equipment.
Is a supermarket checkout person having a proper job? Let's face it, they are not doctors, are they...
The ignorance!

babaisyou · 04/04/2024 11:38

willWillSmithsmith · 04/04/2024 11:08

It’s can be quite elitist though. I mean most people can’t afford to have real art on their walls. I like some art and can enjoy some galleries. The most expensive art I have is a painting that cost £1,200 but that was strictly a one-off. I have a couple of pictures on my wall from a local artist I like but they are limited prints and not very expensive (maybe £40 a piece), which I had framed so I’m certainly not an under-appreciator of art in my own humble way.

It’s the fact this artist is pleading poverty and having a poor-me attitude, whilst living in a ‘Homes and Garden’ level house, I would find that annoying and entitled. As others have said, her attitude would put me right off having her work on my walls.

You are right that a lot of work needs to be done to make the arts more accessible to everyone.

But suggesting that artists should sell their work for less is not the answer (not sure if you're suggesting that but that seems to be the implication) - they need to make a living like anyone else.

I mean, show me a wealthy artist and I'll show you 1000 wealthy people showing off their botox 'influencing' on social media, or some such bullshit.

My bugbear is that art is often targeted/ devalued like this when there are so many other vocations that bring less value to people's lives, but are somehow deemed more worthy.

Of course, I agree with you about this artist being ridiculous (as I've repeated many, many times).

Polishedshoesalways · 04/04/2024 11:38

Entitled preciousness I believe.

DontBeAMeany · 04/04/2024 11:19

Elber · 04/04/2024 07:03

@catPA

I do think there is a bit of grey area. I think customs is based on the value of the goods, not the cost. So I think the seller can put on her declaration what she believes to be the value. But her intention should have been made clear to you.

Surely there is no better indicator of the 'value' of the item than the price it was sold for

willWillSmithsmith · 04/04/2024 11:19

Just a little OT but I recently listened to a (quite old I think) radio comedy called Artists with the fab Vicki Pepperdine. Some artists might appreciate it, it was very enjoyable. 🙂

willWillSmithsmith · 04/04/2024 11:08

babaisyou · 04/04/2024 10:55

Well the vast majority of artists do also have part time jobs in related or unrelated fields.

This doesn't mean that is their 'proper job' and their art is just some kind of silly hobby. It's simply a result of how undervalued the arts are in our society.

What is ironic is that people love art - they want it on their walls - they want to see it in galleries and museums and books and movies and in magazines and on products that they buy. But so many think that being an artist is not a 'proper job' despite the fact that art is everywhere. People need and demand it, but they don't value it.

Making good, saleable art that people want to commission and buy is not easy, and it's not something you can just do in your spare time.

Society is so messed up in the way it devalues and dismisses art that brings joy and meaning to people's lives.

It’s can be quite elitist though. I mean most people can’t afford to have real art on their walls. I like some art and can enjoy some galleries. The most expensive art I have is a painting that cost £1,200 but that was strictly a one-off. I have a couple of pictures on my wall from a local artist I like but they are limited prints and not very expensive (maybe £40 a piece), which I had framed so I’m certainly not an under-appreciator of art in my own humble way.

It’s the fact this artist is pleading poverty and having a poor-me attitude, whilst living in a ‘Homes and Garden’ level house, I would find that annoying and entitled. As others have said, her attitude would put me right off having her work on my walls.

cadmiumredlight · 04/04/2024 11:08

Seedpods · 04/04/2024 10:32

It doesn’t sound to me as if this woman sells via a gallery, just her Instagram.

Same principle though. You need to keep your prices stable or going up. Going down is never a good idea though private sales at a discount are another matter.

hobocock · 04/04/2024 11:07

The OP didn't devalue the art. The artist put the artwork on sale as it presumably hadn't sold at the original price. The value of the artwork is the price people are prepared to pay for it.
She should have filled in the customs form correctly with the value of the item - in this case the reduced price because that was how much it was worth and not the original price.
She sounds like she has lots of issues. And yes, I would write a review to warn others that they will end up having to pay the customs duties on the original price and not the sale price. What if she'd originally listed it as 2000 dollars and it ended up selling for 300 and then someone is expected to pay customs on 2000 dollars instead of 300 just because she claims her artwork was worth 2000 dollars. That's just not on.

babaisyou · 04/04/2024 10:55

willWillSmithsmith · 04/04/2024 10:04

Well, to be brutal, artists don’t have to do it for their main living. They could get a ‘proper’ job and paint in their spare time. I’ve nothing against artists per se but they’re not doctors are they? If they’re not making a living out of it then have it as a hobby.

Well the vast majority of artists do also have part time jobs in related or unrelated fields.

This doesn't mean that is their 'proper job' and their art is just some kind of silly hobby. It's simply a result of how undervalued the arts are in our society.

What is ironic is that people love art - they want it on their walls - they want to see it in galleries and museums and books and movies and in magazines and on products that they buy. But so many think that being an artist is not a 'proper job' despite the fact that art is everywhere. People need and demand it, but they don't value it.

Making good, saleable art that people want to commission and buy is not easy, and it's not something you can just do in your spare time.

Society is so messed up in the way it devalues and dismisses art that brings joy and meaning to people's lives.

Burpie · 04/04/2024 10:49

@catPA I don't know if it's the same in the UK but in Ireland you can query the charge with the post office and send them the receipt of what you paid and they will fix the charge.

Whatifthehokeycokey · 04/04/2024 10:48

She's batshit. You haven't devalued anything. You wanted to pay the correct amount of tax for the price of the item.

Sadly deal with this from American family. Get a parcel from the US and am told to pay £30 customs and then it's tea towels or something 🙁.

babaisyou · 04/04/2024 10:38

@Catza Agreed... what constantly baffles me is that art is always at the front of the queue being bashed but it is no different from any other commodity - fashion, home furnishings, fancy food, etc.

To someone making designer home furnishings, for example, people don't say 'oh well you had a lovely time making that sofa so I won't pay you for it because you had a nice time!'

Or fashion, which people pay silly money for. Or movies - look at Hollywood!

If we want to talk about overpaid artists, let's talk about Hollywood actors, not the small business owner doing oil paintings in their home studio.

There is something about people making a living from painting that just seems to rile people up, and I don't know why - it's no different to anything else that is not essential but adds value to people's lives.

(Sorry for going completely off-piste from the OP! - I've said my soapbox piece now, I'll step down).

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