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To think having a house with a mortgage is not 'owning your own home'

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easternuts · 01/04/2024 16:35

We had a mortgage for 30 years before paying it off recently on our modest home. Now we consider ourselves home owners.

Dd rents because she doesn't want to pay the bank more in interest than the cost of her rent is. Yes her rent can go up but so can your mortgage.

I've had friends of mine make snide comments that dd is going on another holiday when she doesn't own her own home. This is as opposed to their own children who have recently bought with 95% or 90% mortgages in a part of the country where a 3 bed house is less than £150k.

AIBU to think that you don't own your own home just because you have a £15k down payment. DD has far beyond what is needed for a deposit but it makes zero sense in central London at present.

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Iloveraccoons · 02/04/2024 21:45

oakleaffy · 02/04/2024 21:24

It sounds phenomenally cheap. What caused the fall in prices? Economically deprived area? fewer jobs?

Yes, third one on the list posted further down thread.

Mostly due to the oil and gas crashes, massive loss of jobs in the city - there's dozens of empty offices that used to hold thousands of workers no longer needed,just sitting empty. Gone are the days of the £5000 a day contractors spending thousands of pounds on client dinners whilst taxis waited outside with the meter running and everyone was driving around in the fanciest cars in huge new build homes!!

DownWithThisKindOfThing · 02/04/2024 21:36

YaMuvva · 02/04/2024 15:23

Ok well watch what happens if you stop paying the mortgage. See who has the power to take your house then

Yes I do know that the bank will then take possession and sell it to redeem the loan. This is why I continue to pay the bank back the money I owe them, secured against my most valuable asset, my house.

the fact you can lose the house if you default doesn’t mean you don’t own it. 🙄

oakleaffy · 02/04/2024 21:28

Google says that these places have the highest fall in house prices:

To think having a house with a mortgage is not 'owning your own home'
oakleaffy · 02/04/2024 21:24

NonPlayerCharacter · 02/04/2024 21:11

Where is this, if you don't mind saying? Roughly.

It sounds phenomenally cheap. What caused the fall in prices? Economically deprived area? fewer jobs?

NonPlayerCharacter · 02/04/2024 21:11

Iloveraccoons · 02/04/2024 20:12

Sorry but this absolutely is happening TODAY.

One bedroom flat purchased at the grand old age of 22 with a 5% deposit for £105,000. In the "oil property of Europe" in 2013. You couldn't buy anywhere, every property was going for £20k, £30k, even up to £60k above asking. Every viewing, there were 5+ other people viewing at the same time.Every property was going to a closed bidding system, we bid on seven properties and didn't get any. We got lucky with the flat, due to an admin error on the advert nobody could contact the estate agents to arrange a viewing but I went into their offices to request a viewing and they had wondered why this one flat wasn't getting any interest.

Now, 12 years on and several oil and gas downturns later, the exact same flat was valued last year at £47k but (and I quote) "you'll be lucky to get over £42k".

Now this is not helped by the fact the town is a shit hole that's to our useless council and nobody wants to live here anyway, house prices have dropped so much people are no longer buying starter flats and are going straight into 3 bed houses and the fact there are 895 1 bedroom flats for sale within an 8 mile radius and we've got no chance. There is also no chance of prices going back up to what they were here, the place is done.

We did what everyone in this thread is screaming to do, get on the property ladder ASAP and we are totally fucked. We would need £25k to give to the bank to settle the negative equity, plus another deposit, plus solicitors fees etc OR we can mortgage ourselves up to the eyeballs, buy a second property and have to buy the wonderful second property tax. There is no way out of it. We're almost in our mid 30s now and short of a lottery win I don't know how we will ever get out of this.

So, whilst I agree that we technically own the home despite the mortgage for 30k odd more than the place is worth, I'd really much rather we didn't for all the fucking good it's done us. It has been the worst decision we ever made.

Where is this, if you don't mind saying? Roughly.

oakleaffy · 02/04/2024 21:02

soupfiend · 02/04/2024 20:57

Well, you say that....

Oh that shark! I remember him...it was about 12 yrs ago -?

GasPanic · 02/04/2024 21:01

Iloveraccoons · 02/04/2024 20:12

Sorry but this absolutely is happening TODAY.

One bedroom flat purchased at the grand old age of 22 with a 5% deposit for £105,000. In the "oil property of Europe" in 2013. You couldn't buy anywhere, every property was going for £20k, £30k, even up to £60k above asking. Every viewing, there were 5+ other people viewing at the same time.Every property was going to a closed bidding system, we bid on seven properties and didn't get any. We got lucky with the flat, due to an admin error on the advert nobody could contact the estate agents to arrange a viewing but I went into their offices to request a viewing and they had wondered why this one flat wasn't getting any interest.

Now, 12 years on and several oil and gas downturns later, the exact same flat was valued last year at £47k but (and I quote) "you'll be lucky to get over £42k".

Now this is not helped by the fact the town is a shit hole that's to our useless council and nobody wants to live here anyway, house prices have dropped so much people are no longer buying starter flats and are going straight into 3 bed houses and the fact there are 895 1 bedroom flats for sale within an 8 mile radius and we've got no chance. There is also no chance of prices going back up to what they were here, the place is done.

We did what everyone in this thread is screaming to do, get on the property ladder ASAP and we are totally fucked. We would need £25k to give to the bank to settle the negative equity, plus another deposit, plus solicitors fees etc OR we can mortgage ourselves up to the eyeballs, buy a second property and have to buy the wonderful second property tax. There is no way out of it. We're almost in our mid 30s now and short of a lottery win I don't know how we will ever get out of this.

So, whilst I agree that we technically own the home despite the mortgage for 30k odd more than the place is worth, I'd really much rather we didn't for all the fucking good it's done us. It has been the worst decision we ever made.

Sadly I think people only find out what mortgages really are when they come under financial stress and have to look into the details.

I guess you have found out that there really is one thing that you own when you have a mortgage.

I hope it works out for you in the future...

GasPanic · 02/04/2024 20:59

oakleaffy · 02/04/2024 20:34

Who on earth, unless they were actually deranged, would want to do something to their house that would ''materially devalue it?''

Most people also don't want to sell off parts of their garden, or adjoining paddocks either.

If anyone wants to free themselves from renting, buying IS a good move.

Don't know of anyone who regretted buying in England at any rate.

Most people also don't want to sell off parts of their garden, or adjoining paddocks either.

Do you seriously believe that is any sort of counter argument to the point I'm making ?

At least try to think about what you are saying.

WithManyTot · 02/04/2024 20:58

When I had a mortgage back in about 2008, and the banks were in trouble, my bank (one of the big ones that got nationalised) rang me up and asked if I'd consider lending it some of the money back to them. That certainly didn't feel like I was renting my house from the bank 😀

soupfiend · 02/04/2024 20:57

Well, you say that....

To think having a house with a mortgage is not 'owning your own home'
oakleaffy · 02/04/2024 20:34

GasPanic · 02/04/2024 18:57

It depends on the type and terms of the mortgage as they all differ, but usual possibilities are :

You can't rent it out without the banks permission or changing the details or terms of the mortgage. The bank may/may not allow you to do this.

You can't sell any part of it without the banks permission. For example selling off a proportion of the land.

You can't make any modifications that will materially affect the value in a negative way.

There are a number of other usual things as well, but you should look at the terms of the mortgage to see which ones may/may not apply.

Who on earth, unless they were actually deranged, would want to do something to their house that would ''materially devalue it?''

Most people also don't want to sell off parts of their garden, or adjoining paddocks either.

If anyone wants to free themselves from renting, buying IS a good move.

Don't know of anyone who regretted buying in England at any rate.

Bellyblueboy · 02/04/2024 20:21

RienDeRienNon · 02/04/2024 20:14

I agree OP. It’s renting from the bank!

Okay - I will bite.

How is having a mortgage the same as renting from a bank? I assume you have read all the legal arguments on this thread explaining that the bank doesn’t own the house. But why do you disagree?

Itloggedmeoutagain · 02/04/2024 20:21

bruffin · 02/04/2024 17:20

My DS bought a 2 bed flat in Nov 2022 and pays 650 a month mortgage , he did have a 25% deposit, a similar flat in same road goes for £1200 a month in rent.

In Nov 22 mortgage rates were quite low.

Rents have gone up because mortgage rates have rocketed.

NonPlayerCharacter · 02/04/2024 20:19

RienDeRienNon · 02/04/2024 20:14

I agree OP. It’s renting from the bank!

No, it isn't.

Is there actually an infinite number of ways people can fail to understand the concept?

RienDeRienNon · 02/04/2024 20:14

I agree OP. It’s renting from the bank!

Iloveraccoons · 02/04/2024 20:12

oakleaffy · 02/04/2024 16:15

Even ''Famous'' areas to be affected by Negative Equity weren't hit anywhere like that much.
{Sadly Broke in Gloucestershire } was one
I don't believe a 50% loss was even possible back then.

This article is over 21 yrs old

https://www.theguardian.com/business/2003/feb/18/housingmarket.houseprices

Sorry but this absolutely is happening TODAY.

One bedroom flat purchased at the grand old age of 22 with a 5% deposit for £105,000. In the "oil property of Europe" in 2013. You couldn't buy anywhere, every property was going for £20k, £30k, even up to £60k above asking. Every viewing, there were 5+ other people viewing at the same time.Every property was going to a closed bidding system, we bid on seven properties and didn't get any. We got lucky with the flat, due to an admin error on the advert nobody could contact the estate agents to arrange a viewing but I went into their offices to request a viewing and they had wondered why this one flat wasn't getting any interest.

Now, 12 years on and several oil and gas downturns later, the exact same flat was valued last year at £47k but (and I quote) "you'll be lucky to get over £42k".

Now this is not helped by the fact the town is a shit hole that's to our useless council and nobody wants to live here anyway, house prices have dropped so much people are no longer buying starter flats and are going straight into 3 bed houses and the fact there are 895 1 bedroom flats for sale within an 8 mile radius and we've got no chance. There is also no chance of prices going back up to what they were here, the place is done.

We did what everyone in this thread is screaming to do, get on the property ladder ASAP and we are totally fucked. We would need £25k to give to the bank to settle the negative equity, plus another deposit, plus solicitors fees etc OR we can mortgage ourselves up to the eyeballs, buy a second property and have to buy the wonderful second property tax. There is no way out of it. We're almost in our mid 30s now and short of a lottery win I don't know how we will ever get out of this.

So, whilst I agree that we technically own the home despite the mortgage for 30k odd more than the place is worth, I'd really much rather we didn't for all the fucking good it's done us. It has been the worst decision we ever made.

LamonicBibber1 · 02/04/2024 19:14

My LTV is in single figures now so I feel I am a "home owner", I paid for and own the vast majority of my house. Renting is dead money. I really wish there was a solution in this country, a lot of luck and timing went into my housing situation and it could have been so very difficult and different.

Wedonttalkaboutprunesno · 02/04/2024 19:05

GasPanic · 02/04/2024 18:57

It depends on the type and terms of the mortgage as they all differ, but usual possibilities are :

You can't rent it out without the banks permission or changing the details or terms of the mortgage. The bank may/may not allow you to do this.

You can't sell any part of it without the banks permission. For example selling off a proportion of the land.

You can't make any modifications that will materially affect the value in a negative way.

There are a number of other usual things as well, but you should look at the terms of the mortgage to see which ones may/may not apply.

because a BTL mortgage is a different mortgage that’s why. You can apply for a consent to let to transition the mortgage from a owner occupier to BTL but a BTL mortgage isn’t a regulated mortgage firstly, secondly the rent charge has to be calculated to ensure it covers the icr, to ensure the customer won’t fall into arrears, and then the bank is failing its obligation to responsible lending (and it makes no financial sense fo lend to so a person who can’t pay the bill)

selling off the land is because you’ve used the property (including the land) to secure the loan so that just doesn’t make any sense. But if you had a large acreage that you didn’t need and it was on mortgage you most certainly could approach your lender and say you want to sell it, it would likely require a new valuation.

soupfiend · 02/04/2024 19:01

GasPanic · 02/04/2024 18:37

"they can do with it as they please"

I think you'll find they actually can't.

Guess what.

We paid the mortgage off a couple of years ago (I was joking about Barclays turning up for those hard of thinking) and the only thing I can do differently now is rent it out without having to change to a different mortgage product

I am still answerable to the laws of the land with regard to what I can and cant do with the house

I cant bulldoze it down, blow it up, start adding on illegal extensions or additions. I cant rent it as an HMO without the relevant permissions from the council. I can get a lodger just as I could before. I could get a pet, just as I could before, I can have friends and family stay just as I could before.

I can even change that god awful carpet thats been there since we moved in.

Wedonttalkaboutprunesno · 02/04/2024 18:58

Nicelynicelyjohnson · 02/04/2024 18:54

I don't think it matters so much for people who have a mortgage as presumably they pay their payments and are aware that one day they won't have to pay any more.
It would worry me perhaps that one partner would not have their name on the mortgage and think that it didn't matter as the bank owns the house.
The more worrying thing is the people here who seem to think renting and paying a mortgage are more or less the same thing because they think that a mortgage means "owned by the bank". It might put people off, people who would actually benefit from having a mortgage.

Agreed on the deterrent factor but from a governance and sales point of view, people should really be understanding what they are signing, it’s the whole point of suitability

GasPanic · 02/04/2024 18:57

Wedonttalkaboutprunesno · 02/04/2024 18:51

For instance?

It depends on the type and terms of the mortgage as they all differ, but usual possibilities are :

You can't rent it out without the banks permission or changing the details or terms of the mortgage. The bank may/may not allow you to do this.

You can't sell any part of it without the banks permission. For example selling off a proportion of the land.

You can't make any modifications that will materially affect the value in a negative way.

There are a number of other usual things as well, but you should look at the terms of the mortgage to see which ones may/may not apply.

Nicelynicelyjohnson · 02/04/2024 18:54

Wedonttalkaboutprunesno · 02/04/2024 18:48

Man this thread is really worrying, there are so many people, by the sounds who have a mortgage but don’t seem to understand that they own the house. Super worrying that this wasn’t understood at the point of contract/ sale

I don't think it matters so much for people who have a mortgage as presumably they pay their payments and are aware that one day they won't have to pay any more.
It would worry me perhaps that one partner would not have their name on the mortgage and think that it didn't matter as the bank owns the house.
The more worrying thing is the people here who seem to think renting and paying a mortgage are more or less the same thing because they think that a mortgage means "owned by the bank". It might put people off, people who would actually benefit from having a mortgage.

Wedonttalkaboutprunesno · 02/04/2024 18:51

GasPanic · 02/04/2024 18:37

"they can do with it as they please"

I think you'll find they actually can't.

For instance?

Wedonttalkaboutprunesno · 02/04/2024 18:48

Man this thread is really worrying, there are so many people, by the sounds who have a mortgage but don’t seem to understand that they own the house. Super worrying that this wasn’t understood at the point of contract/ sale