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StonwEd · 01/04/2024 12:08

From East Anglia? Has anyone done it? Am I mad?
I’ve just spent yet another lovely week in the Lake District, greater Manchester and Derbyshire. We do this often although not as often as I would like due to very low holiday allowance.
Daydreaming a bit but also not really.
Kids all moved out, own my house outright, prob will sell for around £375k.
Enjoy my job but it’s crap money and hasn’t really got prospects but it is a field I’m sure I can get another job in and I’ve seen plenty of remote working jobs that are related (and better paid 🙄)
Husband is on board with this fantasy, he has a small business so can work anywhere.
I had kids very young so have lived in my home town all my life. Never left but always wanted to.
I’m 45 and I’m finally thinking it might be time. Financially as long as I get a job, we’ll be fine, and I’m so poorly paid as it is, shop or bar work will be fine to start with.
I’ve got a fair bit of savings and I’m thinking of travelling round the north for a couple of months, stay in local b&bs and to know some areas better before we take the plunge. I’d have to quit my job obvs but it’s a risk I’m starting to think is worth it…

And most importantly, where should we be looking? Want nature on our doorstep, but easy access to a town.

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Sallysappho · 01/04/2024 14:45

It always seems idyllic when you visit for short holidays, the scenery, the charming towns and villages but the reality can be far from that.
I live in the North but have family in the south who I visit regularly. The standard of living is much higher in the south. Its cleaner with much better public amenities. The over riding impression is one of prosperity. The North in comparison is pretty neglected, dirty and with poor facilities.

MereDintofPandiculation · 01/04/2024 14:44

I found the North-east so much easier than the north-west because of the weather. Broadly, north is colder, south is warmer, west is wetter, east is drier. Up to a point. In winter, east is colder, west is warmer. High ground obviously is going to be colder and wetter than low ground.

CarrieCardigan · 01/04/2024 14:41

UAvoidUrProblems · 01/04/2024 14:38

Do we really have to have the North vs South debate....we're all in this together....

But you’ve stomped right in there suggesting buying in the North is a bad investment. I definitely didn’t find Cheshire to be a poor investment. In fact, our current house on the south coast isn’t in anywhere like as buoyant a market so is probably a far worse investment. But it doesn’t need to be as it’s our home and we’re not moving again.

VerityUnreasonble · 01/04/2024 14:41

UAvoidUrProblems · 01/04/2024 14:24

Don't buy up North. Your house will decrease in value which will diminish your kids inheritance. It's anti-social in many places. Also lower life expectancy up there.

Rent out your house and use the rental to rent a place up North, so if you don't like it, you can move back home. If you're happy there after a year or so, then buy.

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www.zoopla.co.uk/discover/property-news/house-price-index/

This just isn't true. The housing market in lots of places is very steady and actually positively trending compared to some southern areas.

There are areas of significant social deprivation (as there are in the south) but when you quantify "the north" as one homogeneous mass v London and a very small area around it you are going to get some very skewed results.

Runningupthecurtains · 01/04/2024 14:40

twistyizzy · 01/04/2024 12:30

God yes the whole of the North is grim and living in poverty 🙄

Poverty? Poverty? I dream of mere poverty, we are proper brasic and not fit the lick the (knackered, holey, ill fitting, hand me down) boots of those that have attained poverty.

twistyizzy · 01/04/2024 14:40

UAvoidUrProblems · 01/04/2024 14:38

Do we really have to have the North vs South debate....we're all in this together....

To be fair I think you started it "Don't buy up North......it is anti-social in many places:

twistyizzy · 01/04/2024 14:40

UAvoidUrProblems · 01/04/2024 14:38

Do we really have to have the North vs South debate....we're all in this together....

To be fair I think you started it "Don't buy up North......it is anti-social in many places:

MichaelAndEagle · 01/04/2024 14:39

UAvoidUrProblems · 01/04/2024 14:33

As opposed to living life based on emotional whims?

If that's what you call following your heart and being happy.
Happiness is what I want to achieve, not a fat inheritance for my kids.
She's hardly frittering it all away.
Plus as others have said, the property value won't devalue. It might not go up as much but they won't lose money.
And its not a whim, she's researching, weighing up the pros and cons.
We're all different i suppose.

maddening · 01/04/2024 14:39

Chester is nice, lots of country side,.close to North Wales, 40 mins to Liverpool and Manchester and an hour to Birmingham, not far from the peak district and not a ridiculous trek to the lakes.**

UAvoidUrProblems · 01/04/2024 14:38

Do we really have to have the North vs South debate....we're all in this together....

Northernnature · 01/04/2024 14:38

We moved 2 years ago from South East, we're between Lancaster and Kendal. It's great to be able to see the mountains, coast nearby, lakes, dales and Forest of Bowland all 30 mins away. And less crowded and more laid back.

Ihateboris · 01/04/2024 14:37

Ihateboris · 01/04/2024 14:36

Wow...I've lived in various towns 'up north ', including Tarporley, Nantwich and Chester...none of which I would describe as grim.

....or "extremely poor "

MereDintofPandiculation · 01/04/2024 14:37

UAvoidUrProblems · 01/04/2024 14:24

Don't buy up North. Your house will decrease in value which will diminish your kids inheritance. It's anti-social in many places. Also lower life expectancy up there.

Rent out your house and use the rental to rent a place up North, so if you don't like it, you can move back home. If you're happy there after a year or so, then buy.

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The houses haven't decreased in value yet, so don't know why you think they would start decreasing in value now.

It's anti-social in many places So it is in many places in the South.

Also lower life expectancy up there Your personal life expectancy won't decrease if you move up north.

Ihateboris · 01/04/2024 14:36

MeMyCatsAndMyBooks · 01/04/2024 12:11

I did, I wouldn't do it again if I had the chance. The areas up north are extremely poor.

Wow...I've lived in various towns 'up north ', including Tarporley, Nantwich and Chester...none of which I would describe as grim.

CarrieCardigan · 01/04/2024 14:33

@UAvoidUrProblems, we bought in the NW before the 2008 crash and our house, whilst dropping/stagnating temporarily, soon bounced back. We made a healthy profit when we sold a few years back. It’s continued to rise in the last decade and is now worth 1.5million. It’s just a standard 4bed 1950s detached.

As long as the OP sticks to the rules of buying something that doesn’t have an obvious flaw making resale difficult then they’ll be fine.

UAvoidUrProblems · 01/04/2024 14:33

MichaelAndEagle · 01/04/2024 14:32

You don't have to live your life based on return on investment though....such a sad way to think.

As opposed to living life based on emotional whims?

StaunchMomma · 01/04/2024 14:33

twistyizzy · 01/04/2024 14:31

Because people only buy houses as investments obviously

And those of us not living in Kent only see depreciation of our houses, apparently 😂

We've done bugger all to ours since we moved in 9 years ago and recent evaluations increased the asking price over 300k on what we paid.

ViscountessBridgerton · 01/04/2024 14:32

UAvoidUrProblems · 01/04/2024 14:24

Don't buy up North. Your house will decrease in value which will diminish your kids inheritance. It's anti-social in many places. Also lower life expectancy up there.

Rent out your house and use the rental to rent a place up North, so if you don't like it, you can move back home. If you're happy there after a year or so, then buy.

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This is an insane comment. Look at how much house prices have climbed over the last 10 years in places like York, Leeds etc.

Moved from south to North Yorkshire 7 years ago and never planning to go back!

MereDintofPandiculation · 01/04/2024 14:32

We moved from South East to Yorkshire.
Be prepared for an almost cultural shift in the climate if this is something you're considering.
We did the same 30 years ago. All I can say is the SE must have undergone the hell of a climate shift since then, much greater than the rest of the country.

MichaelAndEagle · 01/04/2024 14:32

UAvoidUrProblems · 01/04/2024 14:30

Okay....I'm not talking about any of that though. I'm talking from an investment standpoint.

You don't have to live your life based on return on investment though....such a sad way to think.

twistyizzy · 01/04/2024 14:31

UAvoidUrProblems · 01/04/2024 14:30

Okay....I'm not talking about any of that though. I'm talking from an investment standpoint.

Because people only buy houses as investments obviously

StaunchMomma · 01/04/2024 14:31

StonwEd · 01/04/2024 14:21

I know the north is an enormous place, I’ve stated a few times now that we have no idea at the present time where we would want to live.
There’s so much helpful stuff on here though, we do have time and financial security on our side so next thing is to do lots and lots of trips. And definitely out of season, that’s a very good point.

You spend time up there regularly, OP. You know where the areas are that you like and have the time to have a good look around the nice small towns and near them.

Please ignore much of the utterly batshit Southern rhetoric on here. It's nothing short of ignorance. Go wherever you want to go and maybe don't ask Southerners about the North! 😂

There are lovely and EXPENSIVE places to live from the Midlands up to the Scottish Borders.

375k wouldn't buy you a nice place in the village I live in, I can tell you that much.

PonyPatter44 · 01/04/2024 14:31

I've just looked at Northallerton and Knaresborough on Rightmove... you can get a nice house for your money up there, and they are both pleasant areas. OK, you won't get a fancy period property, but a good-sized 3-bed semi or detached is well in your reach. Even Richmond is quite manageable, and its beautiful round there.

UAvoidUrProblems · 01/04/2024 14:30

twistyizzy · 01/04/2024 14:27

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Yep definitely don't move up North to where I live. Beautiful countryside, hardly any crime, only 45 min drive to unspoiled coast or the Lakes/Dales. Amazing community spirit and kids can play out safely.
Definitely don't come here, it is vile 🤣🤣🤣

Okay....I'm not talking about any of that though. I'm talking from an investment standpoint.

twistyizzy · 01/04/2024 14:27

UAvoidUrProblems · 01/04/2024 14:24

Don't buy up North. Your house will decrease in value which will diminish your kids inheritance. It's anti-social in many places. Also lower life expectancy up there.

Rent out your house and use the rental to rent a place up North, so if you don't like it, you can move back home. If you're happy there after a year or so, then buy.

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🤣🤣🤣🤣

Yep definitely don't move up North to where I live. Beautiful countryside, hardly any crime, only 45 min drive to unspoiled coast or the Lakes/Dales. Amazing community spirit and kids can play out safely.
Definitely don't come here, it is vile 🤣🤣🤣

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