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Aibu to ask if you have a famous DH

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MeadowL · 29/03/2024 21:02

Does it bother you? I have a semi famous DH, he gets paid to gig and go on podcasts etc if we go out locally he does get asked for selfies so we tend to go away for weekends as a family.

I do find it slightly annoying but I guess it pays the bills 💃

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faffadoodledo · 30/03/2024 09:48

MyDHusedtobeanMP · 30/03/2024 09:37

My DH used to be an MP and his minor celebrity it was an inconvenience at the best of times and horrendous at others.

The inconvenience was some people fawning over him or awkward conversations when people were slagging him off. Being lectured by taxi drivers and others. Every time I bought and paid for tickets to something getting accused of freebies. I could never express my opinion online in case it ended up in the local paper as MP's wife says...

Horrendous varied from hate on social media through to rubbish being dumped in our garden, threats of violence, having to carry attack alarms, emergency plans with school for the children's safety. Having to install CCTV on the house and twice being told by special branch to leave our home for days for safety.

He's no longer one and enough time has passed for him to be lovely and obscure again.

Friend of ours will be standing next election. I'm astounded that he'd want to put himself through all this tbh. His wife is being very stoic about it but must be bricking it. He has a good chance of winning too.
Gulp.. and your story is presumably from a few years ago too, when things weren't apparently as bad. Awful. Bet you're glad your DH left politics!

Palmtreechacha · 30/03/2024 09:47

A singer from a still famous band asked me out in the 90s but I said no because I didnt find him remotely attractive.

I am lol at SHABBA 😂

Sidebeforeself · 30/03/2024 09:47

I wish posters doubting my claims to be Camilla would stop being so rude and judgey.I could have you locked up in the tower.

Anyway, I once wrote into Magpie and got a badge “Eight for a wish” I think it was.

Everythinggreen · 30/03/2024 09:46

Hoppinggreen · 30/03/2024 09:35

My friend (who I met on here but we have both NC) has a v famous comedian Husband. She messaged me as we had something in common and we discovered we live close to eachother and arranged to meet but as she uses her maiden name I had no idea. Before we met I looked her up on FB to make sure she wasnt an axe murderer and saw a photo of her with her H, googling confirmed who she was.
We then had an odd situation where I didnt ever refer to it but she dropped lots of hints when we met like "H lives mostly in London" and "H is in television" and I pretended not to have any idea who he was until eventually she asked if I had heard of X as he was her H and I was torn between acting surprised and admitted I had known all along - I actually admitted it and we had a good laugh about it.
They live somewhere quite unassuming as she has MH issues and needs to be near her family, sometimes there will be rumours on the local FB page that X was spotted in Sainsburys or whatever but most people just say thats ridiculous as what would he be doing round here. I have never met him but watch him on TV sometimes

I've always thought the very famous who are unassuming are the ones who are in it for the craft and not the fame, and fame is just a consequence.

murphys · 30/03/2024 09:40

I went on a date with a singer from a band that were pretty well known back in the day.

There was no second date as he was a prize prat and talked about himself and his has-been days the whole time. And he was about 10 years older than he claimed, although it was partly my fault for not checking that out first.

It was so bad that every now and then during his speaking (which was non stop) he'd sing the line out 🤣. Talk about drying up a fanny instantly.

I deleted his number as I got back into my car to go home.

ItsVeryHyacinthBucket · 30/03/2024 09:40

Not my DH, but one of my extended family was really famous actor in the 90s. He has worked since but nothing so main character/high profile, eh he was in GOT but a small part only. He gets recognised very occasionally, but hasn’t really worked since, struggled a lot with mental health and addiction, etc. Fame is no guarantee of anything.

Hoppinggreen · 30/03/2024 09:38

ChinnyChin2 · 30/03/2024 09:13

HOLD ON - YOU WERE PAID???!!

I only got a letter and probably a badge, can't remember.

They diddled me, the cheapskates 😡

I got £50 for a letter in Readers Digest around 10 years ago.
Made the whole thing up (the letter not this post)

MyDHusedtobeanMP · 30/03/2024 09:37

My DH used to be an MP and his minor celebrity it was an inconvenience at the best of times and horrendous at others.

The inconvenience was some people fawning over him or awkward conversations when people were slagging him off. Being lectured by taxi drivers and others. Every time I bought and paid for tickets to something getting accused of freebies. I could never express my opinion online in case it ended up in the local paper as MP's wife says...

Horrendous varied from hate on social media through to rubbish being dumped in our garden, threats of violence, having to carry attack alarms, emergency plans with school for the children's safety. Having to install CCTV on the house and twice being told by special branch to leave our home for days for safety.

He's no longer one and enough time has passed for him to be lovely and obscure again.

RamsayBoltonsConscience · 30/03/2024 09:35

WrenNatsworthy · 29/03/2024 22:38

I was on an episode of 80s TV show 'Why don't you?'

I was once on an episode of Beat the Teacher and I did! OMG! I'm famous and I didn't realise!

Hoppinggreen · 30/03/2024 09:35

My friend (who I met on here but we have both NC) has a v famous comedian Husband. She messaged me as we had something in common and we discovered we live close to eachother and arranged to meet but as she uses her maiden name I had no idea. Before we met I looked her up on FB to make sure she wasnt an axe murderer and saw a photo of her with her H, googling confirmed who she was.
We then had an odd situation where I didnt ever refer to it but she dropped lots of hints when we met like "H lives mostly in London" and "H is in television" and I pretended not to have any idea who he was until eventually she asked if I had heard of X as he was her H and I was torn between acting surprised and admitted I had known all along - I actually admitted it and we had a good laugh about it.
They live somewhere quite unassuming as she has MH issues and needs to be near her family, sometimes there will be rumours on the local FB page that X was spotted in Sainsburys or whatever but most people just say thats ridiculous as what would he be doing round here. I have never met him but watch him on TV sometimes

Auvergne63 · 30/03/2024 09:31

KeinLiebeslied54321 · 30/03/2024 09:30

We are amused.

Not as much as we are!

KanyeJohnWestTuna · 30/03/2024 09:31

Does he earn gazillions from a scaffolding company and you live in West London, if nah then he’s not famous

Mooshroo · 30/03/2024 09:31

MeadowL · 29/03/2024 22:31

Cry some more 😭

Was going to add a useful reply to the thread until I realised it was started by a 12 year old

MrsReevesButDontTellAnyone · 30/03/2024 09:30

I knew a micro-local radio DJ so I arranged a meeting with a retired HUGE (in the profession, not of physique) TV executive (who I had met dog walking) for his input. TV man asked DJ “Why are you doing this? Do you want to be famous?” and the DJ replied “I am famous.”

There was a silence and the meeting closed shortly afterwards. TV exec guy and I never spoke of it again.

KeinLiebeslied54321 · 30/03/2024 09:30

Auvergne63 · 30/03/2024 09:28

I beg your pardon? I am Camilla!

We are amused.

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Auvergne63 · 30/03/2024 09:28

Sidebeforeself · 29/03/2024 21:18

anybody can claim anything on here and who is to know any different?

Yours, Camilla

I beg your pardon? I am Camilla!

AllThePotatoesAreSinging · 30/03/2024 09:28

We are both sort of well known in niche film circles. A film historian included us both in his thanks and dedications in a recent book. We’ve been recognised a couple of times from that at events we’ve attended when we’ve introduced ourselves to new people (are you the same X&Y that Z thanked in his book?), which is always funny as we are just film fans. Something to tell our kids about. No royalties though!

That level of fame takes careful management but we’ve so far been able to keep our feet on the ground.

WillYouPutYourCoatOn · 30/03/2024 09:23

Dated one of the wealthiest men in the world on and off for ten years.

Amazing, lifestyle wise. Shameless sleazy type of women would literally throw themselves at him in front of me. It got to the point, that I couldn't put up with the constant disruption from this really low level behaviour. He was quite jaded from it. Never really felt anyone was his friend, just there for the perks. And 99% of the time this rang true. Such a shame, he was honestly one of the smartest, well read, funniest men I've ever met. Absolute victim of his success.

Because he's not famous like a movie star, these women had researched him to even know what he looked like (and his peers) and essentially stalked whoever was in their vicinity at the time. He tried having a butler once, who tried to blackmail him. He has very limited staff and does most things himself. It's fun for a month, but long term, it's no life.

AGodawfulsmallaffair · 30/03/2024 09:22

Everythinggreen · 30/03/2024 09:14

My nieces loved that show, I cursed it though. If I took them out they'd start shouting "bogies" 🙈

The bogie sketches will make me laugh until the end of time. Especially in the library 🤭

XelaM · 30/03/2024 09:21

12FreeRangeEggs · 30/03/2024 09:20

No, thank goodness. My Dad was sell out stadium tour famous and that was awful (aside from my private education for which I am extremely grateful).

Ozzy Osbourne? 😝

HelenHywater · 30/03/2024 09:21

I dated someone who was on Blockbusters once.

I recently dated someone else who was a tv presenter in the late 80s through to early 2000s. I don't think anyone would remember him though

I know someone who shagged Shane Warne (I think lots of people could claim this though).

I have been on tv lots of times, but don't think anyone outside my industry would recognise me

MrsWinkly · 30/03/2024 09:20

Does your husband drive a bit of a banged out soft-top 'status vehicle', sporting the complex numberplate 'Big G', around the environs of coastal Dorset?
Just checking.

XelaM · 30/03/2024 09:20

Trulyme · 30/03/2024 08:56

Oh dear!! 😳

Not murder or anything like that but infamous nonetheless 😂 I've always counted myself lucky that he's my ex...

12FreeRangeEggs · 30/03/2024 09:20

No, thank goodness. My Dad was sell out stadium tour famous and that was awful (aside from my private education for which I am extremely grateful).

JJathome · 30/03/2024 09:19

KeinLiebeslied54321 · 30/03/2024 09:18

Enough attention yet OP?

Even fat boy slim doesn’t feel the need to,leave his locale of a weekend.

maybe the op is just really impressed she has married the village dj and got a bit drunk and fantasised he was semi famous.

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