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Bus driver refused to give my teen DD ID back

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Mumforadecade1 · 28/03/2024 21:44

Posting from Scotland - we are very lucky that children get free bus travel , this comes in card form with photo and D.o.B . This card can be used as library card , ID , Free transport and shopping discounts etc . My DD Age 12 was coming home from school today when the bus driver said her card was damaged (slight bend in one corner ) however she had already been on two buses that day and it was still working on the machine . Bus driver snatched it off my DD and told her to order a replacement . At this point DD got on the bus with her friend and called me upset , I told her to ask the driver when she was getting off the bus to give her the card back and I will arrange a replacement. When asking the Driver refused to give her back the card and told her to get off the bus . I was furious and called the bus company who told me it is policy to remove damaged cards . I disagree with this and feel that uneasy that a bus driver would have possession of a card with DD photo and D.o.B - and I’m miffed I will now need to pay for travel and DD cannot access library etc until the replacement comes . AIBU ??

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Notmyuser · 28/03/2024 22:14

BobbyBiscuits · 28/03/2024 22:04

It seems weird. But basically the card is the property of the bus firm, if in the t&C's.
It's no loss really is it, if it can't be used why bother need to keep it.

It has nothing to do with the bus company. The card is a Scottish government card.

likepebblesonabeach · 28/03/2024 22:11

This happened to my DD, the bus was collecting them from school. I called the school office who sounded utterly exasperated and said she thought the driver was on some sort of power trip that day as they had kept lots of children's cards and she had had lots of complaints. She advised my dd to go to the school office the next day and true to her word had got every child's bus pass back for them which proved there was no need for the driver to keep them.

BobbyBiscuits · 28/03/2024 22:04

It seems weird. But basically the card is the property of the bus firm, if in the t&C's.
It's no loss really is it, if it can't be used why bother need to keep it.

GingerLiberalFeminist · 28/03/2024 22:02

This happened to me as a teenager. My parents complained loads but it did no good.

SwimmingFree · 28/03/2024 22:01

xyz111 · 28/03/2024 21:55

I'd speak to them again and ask what their policy is on data protection. Especially if it has her dob on it.

This is a good idea. You have a right under data protection to ask for any data being held on you.

SwimmingFree · 28/03/2024 22:00

I'd be so very angry too. If it's the same as us the card is also used for lunches at school, he should not have been able to remove the card from a child. Seems a mad policy.

xyz111 · 28/03/2024 21:55

I'd speak to them again and ask what their policy is on data protection. Especially if it has her dob on it.

Itsmychristmasdress · 28/03/2024 21:55

What if she needed to get a second bus home? That's ludicrous and surely a breach of gdpr?

Mumforadecade1 · 28/03/2024 21:53

I am not disputing in anyway that the card shouldn’t be used anymore but I can’t help but feel really uneasy that an individual has my daughters picture , name and d.o.b and I have no proof that the card was destroyed or handed back to the bus company ?!

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MsFaversham · 28/03/2024 21:49

What a stupid policy which could leave a young child stranded an unable to get home.