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What makes you middle class?

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Singlemum90 · 25/03/2024 23:39

So a comment from my mother a few years ago has stuck with me ever since then really. When I was no longer a single mum, and found myself a little less skint, she said 'oh it's so good now you're just a nice middle class mum, I'm so proud of you'

Aside from her clearly looking down at me before this, and deciding class was what defined how she felt about me- I have often wondered what made her decide I was middle class at this point.

How do you define it? (I feel it's very subjective) Is it what family you are born into? Your income?(And what income makes the 'classes'? Is it a specific job type? The way you stick your finger out when you drink tea?
Or is it just a shitty way to divide people and how they feel about themselves?

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UpsideLeft · 26/03/2024 06:37

It's how you think, where you live, who your friends are and what you do and say or don't say. Also how you dress

PuttingDownRoots · 26/03/2024 06:37

Its a state of mind. A mixture of upbringing, employment and circumstances.

Your lifestyle might not match your own inner feelings and mindset.

And its all complete tosh.

UpsideLeft · 26/03/2024 06:36

You can definitely change your class

It's why so many immigrants want their DC to go uni and become doctors for example

Education is key to opening up the class divide in some cases

AristotelianPhysics · 26/03/2024 06:33

You cannot change your class.

Biscoffisthebest · 26/03/2024 06:31

But you can be working class and drive a Porsche. It’s upbringing, not wealth - certainly in the UK at least. Wayne Rooney will always be working class, for example.

AllPrincessAnneshorses · 26/03/2024 06:28

No worse than wanking on about being working class when you earn £££ and drive a Porsche.

Lifesucksthenyoudie · 26/03/2024 06:27

It’s a weird one. I think it’s a feeling and how you grew up. It can’t be salary or income related because plumbers (for example) often earn more than middle management but don’t necessarily consider themselves middle class. I’m not sure younger generations even care.

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