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To be fed up with all the threads about high earners feeling poor

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trekking1 · 23/03/2024 17:46

It's always the same condescending "I've worked so hard and only have a 3 bedroom house in a great location and an expensive car", as if 1. that's not a lot 2. people who make 5 times less do not work as hard!

And the suprised pikachu face that having a degree did not magically get them a 500k job. That is not how capitalism works folks

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Meow8989 · 23/03/2024 22:54

Beezknees · 23/03/2024 22:48

I'll believe it when I actually see it to be honest.

It’s already happening - multiple countries are actively recruiting nhs qualified doctors.

You also won’t see it tangibly in population -600k of taxpayers are high earners that’s ~1% of the population.

last year’s immigration was about that amount.

You’ll see it in the slow degradation of the country. Everything getting worse which is already happening

Bakewellpuddingandcustard · 23/03/2024 22:53

InterIgnis · 23/03/2024 18:48

Is it that difficult not to read them then?

Mumsnet isn’t just for those with smaller incomes, and there is no one room that only said group are qualified to define. I find the complaining about it more annoying tbh, as it reads like “how dare you consider your own problems when you should be thinking about ME?”.

Totally agree

Beezknees · 23/03/2024 22:48

Meow8989 · 23/03/2024 22:47

There approx 600k high earners ~20% aren’t Uk born if they decide to relocate plus British nationals

as a straw man of my peers it’s not a stretch. But be pedantic… that’ll change the sentiment! 🤷🏽‍♀️

I'll believe it when I actually see it to be honest.

HungryBeagle · 23/03/2024 22:48

Beezknees · 23/03/2024 22:46

Sure, but that tax is already going on other things. To subsidise more childcare, the government would absolutely expect the public to fund it through more tax.

Also, it’s fine to express dissatisfaction at not getting something without expecting that it’s actually going to be something that changes. Am I mildly annoyed that we paid £3.5k a month childcare? Yes. Do I actually think the government are going to step in and fund any of it? No. Still a bit annoying though.

Autienotnaughtie · 23/03/2024 22:47

@SeeYouInMyDreams

for me it's the way when people complain about it, it's as though it's a new thing. Like there hasn't been financial suffering for well forever. The cost of living crisis apparently only started when it affected the middle class.

Also the fact that when the poor complain about being poor they get told they need to work harder, get a better job. The amount of posts about lazy people on benefits. So much judgement.

So tbh I struggle to sympathise for a group who when others struggled they at best looked the other way and at worst judged and sneered.

I am also not a high earner, my husband is a slightly higher than average earner and we absolutely do not vote Tory

Meow8989 · 23/03/2024 22:47

Beezknees · 23/03/2024 22:41

You're in a group chat with every high earner in the country? Wow.

There approx 600k high earners ~20% aren’t Uk born if they decide to relocate plus British nationals

as a straw man of my peers it’s not a stretch. But be pedantic… that’ll change the sentiment! 🤷🏽‍♀️

Beezknees · 23/03/2024 22:46

Meow8989 · 23/03/2024 22:43

Proportionately they’ve already paid - 100k salary is 27k income tax and 4K ni. Think for 3 years ~ £80k is enough ubtil school steps in?

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Sure, but that tax is already going on other things. To subsidise more childcare, the government would absolutely expect the public to fund it through more tax.

HungryBeagle · 23/03/2024 22:45

Beezknees · 23/03/2024 22:38

The whole point I'm making though is if you wanted to benefit from it, more funding would be required to sustain that. There's a cut off for a reason.

I have no real say in how my taxes are spent. I have private health insurance and educate my children privately. And we pay over £80k a year in tax. I don’t think it’s unreasonable for people to hope for some return for the taxes they pay. Especially as we need the childcare in order to be able to be able to do the jobs that enable us to pay so much tax.
It’s irrelevant anyway, as it’s not going to happen. And we’re nearly out of the childcare years. Any additional tax we pay in the future is likely to be ploughed into the gaping hole that is the NHS.

earinfection · 23/03/2024 22:44

And perhaps had I asked for help sooner I wouldn't be in the mess I am now. Except for all the reasons and prejudice you posted, I didn't.

Meow8989 · 23/03/2024 22:43

Beezknees · 23/03/2024 22:39

I don't have any childcare costs so no skin in the game. But for higher earners to benefit from childcare help who pays for it?

Proportionately they’ve already paid - 100k salary is 27k income tax and 4K ni. Think for 3 years ~ £80k is enough ubtil school steps in?

earinfection · 23/03/2024 22:43

Never claimed a single benefit in my life and now I fuxking need it. Yes could be and have been a high earner. What of it? That's why there are criteria that are not morally predetermined. Stupid divisive post.

BrightMorning · 23/03/2024 22:41

WhatWhereWho · 23/03/2024 18:16

I agree. I earn millions every year and do not brag about it on here.

😂

earinfection · 23/03/2024 22:41

Christ. The judgement.

Beezknees · 23/03/2024 22:41

Meow8989 · 23/03/2024 22:39

a big portion of this thread should be hoping many of the high earning millennials and gen z don’t do what most of our group chats focus on - moving country.

majority of us for years have been happy to pay in for the greater good but with the highest tax. Burden + student loans most of us are looking for our escape route. Be prepared.

You're in a group chat with every high earner in the country? Wow.

WithACatLikeTread · 23/03/2024 22:40

whistleblower99 · 23/03/2024 22:12

I am going to laugh my arse off when the welfare system collapses.

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Heaven help us if there is no welfare system. Didn't you learn history at school about life before a welfare system?

Beezknees · 23/03/2024 22:39

HungryBeagle · 23/03/2024 22:32

We probably will be paying a far amount more tax over the next few years, as we’ve both still got a promotion in us. Pretty sure it won’t mean we get free childcare though.

I don't have any childcare costs so no skin in the game. But for higher earners to benefit from childcare help who pays for it?

Meow8989 · 23/03/2024 22:39

a big portion of this thread should be hoping many of the high earning millennials and gen z don’t do what most of our group chats focus on - moving country.

majority of us for years have been happy to pay in for the greater good but with the highest tax. Burden + student loans most of us are looking for our escape route. Be prepared.

Beezknees · 23/03/2024 22:38

HungryBeagle · 23/03/2024 22:35

I said to benefit from some of the childcare support that is currently available to others. You were the only person who mentioned free childcare for all.

The whole point I'm making though is if you wanted to benefit from it, more funding would be required to sustain that. There's a cut off for a reason.

HungryBeagle · 23/03/2024 22:35

Beezknees · 23/03/2024 22:34

Oh I see. Your post said you were unhappy about being excluded for childcare help though? So to make that possible for higher earners it would need funding.

I said to benefit from some of the childcare support that is currently available to others. You were the only person who mentioned free childcare for all.

Meow8989 · 23/03/2024 22:35

HungryBeagle · 23/03/2024 22:22

Yes… when as a family we pay approx £80k a year in tax, I don’t think it’s unreasonable to be annoyed to be excluded from help with the childcare which is needed to enable us to earn those salaries and therefore contribute that amount to the public purse.

Agree, we pay similar and I am fully planning to salary sacrifice both our salaries down as needed when we have children. We’ve paid 100s of k since graduating, barely used the NHS - the least we should get is some childcare support when we have kids

burnoutbabe · 23/03/2024 22:34

@SeeYouInMyDreams oh I ageee. Threads started in say the money section should be treated respectfully and not allowed to be derailed by "you are so tone deaf"

There was a nice thread a while ago about what higher earning women did for a job and how they got there (and not how their husband did!)

Tons of scope for threads to be helpful about saving tax -and yes I advise people at work around the £100k mark to consider extra pensions payments to avoid it and particularly if have childcare to consider.

Beezknees · 23/03/2024 22:34

HungryBeagle · 23/03/2024 22:33

I didn’t say I thought we should have free childcare for all, you did.

Oh I see. Your post said you were unhappy about being excluded for childcare help though? So to make that possible for higher earners it would need funding.

SeeYouInMyDreams · 23/03/2024 22:34

Autienotnaughtie · 23/03/2024 22:30

Well the destruction of the tories has finally hit the middle class and they are pissed.

100k salary use to buy luxury. Now it pays the bills and gives basic treats.

What the middle class need to understand is while they are moaning they can't go long haul or afford private school. The people earning 20-30k who previously would have been paying the bills with extra spare for treats are now choosing between eating and heating, are worrying they will lose their home.

I’m sure lots do understand that. It’s still understandable for anyone to be pissed that their standard of living has decreased, do you expect them to say nothing?

I’m not a high earner but my partner is. We’ve never voted Tory in our lives.

Autienotnaughtie · 23/03/2024 22:34

betterangels · 23/03/2024 18:22

It's the 'I work hard' for me. So do very many people on a low income. Stop it.

Exactly this - carers, factory workers etc work bloody hard long hours for next to fuck all and are often treated poorly to boot.

HungryBeagle · 23/03/2024 22:33

Beezknees · 23/03/2024 22:32

Of course it is, but I'm saying how do you propose to fund free childcare for all? We would all have to pay more tax.

I didn’t say I thought we should have free childcare for all, you did.

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