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Asked to move at the gym

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CatamaranViper · 22/03/2024 20:16

Firstly, the way our gym is laid out, you walk in and all the cardio equipment is either side of you, facing the walls. The equipment is all in pairs so it goes two treadmills, two rowing machines, two cross trainers, two bikes, two treadmills etc on each side.
When I came in, all CTs were free so I hopped on one. I usually do a 40 min program which is customised on my profile. All the cardio equipment has a big screen and you can watch netflix etc if you want. I usually do watch something.

So I was on the CT with my headphones in, facing the wall and about 10 mins into my workout. A lady taps me on the shoulder which made me jump and asks me to move machine. I gestured to the one next to me (I was a bit out of breath) and told her that it was free. She then told me that her and her friend like to do it side by side so I'd need to move for them. I was only 10 mins into my workout and I was quite settled where I was and she was rude. I said no, I'll be 30 mins or so, you can use it then.

One of the other pairs of CTs had a bloke on one so there weren't any two free together, but plenty other equipment was available and in pairs.

She demanded I move again and I just put my headphones back in. A few mins later a staff member comes over and asks how long I'll be. The screens shows I have about 25 mins left now, he sees this and off he goes. Next thing I hear a bang and one of the ladies has stormed out the gym. The other one is glaring at me and saying something I can't hear.

I mean, I could have moved to another CT but i always find it difficult if I stop and start again on those machines and there were other free CTs, just not two together. I don't think I did anything wrong but thought I'd ask on here. So WIBU to stay on my machine?

OP posts:
Alicewinn · 24/03/2024 20:10

Omg, good for you! Such childish behaviour, were they 12 year olds?

letitlego · 24/03/2024 20:07

Everyone knows that you just do another excercise if the machine you want isn’t available

They should have started with something else . Totally unnecessary

ftp · 24/03/2024 19:58

No reason why she should not ask you, but no reason why she should not accept a No. Personally I would have moved, my regime is not sacrosanct, but if you are so fixed on yours that is your right

hoxtonbabe · 24/03/2024 19:49

Nanna61 · 24/03/2024 19:39

This sort of thing infuriates me. YANBU. The swimming pool I use is divided into Fast and medium swimming lanes and there's a section for less serious swimming. There are two swimmers, I use the term loosely, who swim up and down chatting in the lane sections and are most put out when asked to move to the area for less serious swimming. They have been told on several occasions by the life guards and repeatedly offend.

Oh this pisses me off no end! I actually had to stop going swimming at my local because every week I was going off on these kind of idiots and was doing nothing for my high BP.

As for the original post, I would have loved for that person to try that with me. I’m very serious/focussed with my workout and to bother me for such nonsense mid cardio session ( I don’t mind it so much on the weights) would not have ended well for her!

Toptops · 24/03/2024 19:44

Glad you didn't move!

CuttingMeOpenthenHealingMeFine · 24/03/2024 19:44

Nanna61 · 24/03/2024 19:39

This sort of thing infuriates me. YANBU. The swimming pool I use is divided into Fast and medium swimming lanes and there's a section for less serious swimming. There are two swimmers, I use the term loosely, who swim up and down chatting in the lane sections and are most put out when asked to move to the area for less serious swimming. They have been told on several occasions by the life guards and repeatedly offend.

We have the opposite problem at our pool, there are very serious swimmers gunning it up and down the open section of the pool which is usually full of the less strong swimmers and huffing if anyone gets in their way when the lanes are empty. I think they just like being miserable clearly because they get so worked up and annoyed and I just don’t get why they don’t go to the lanes which they would usually have all to themselves.

BaaBaaBlackSheepOfTheFam · 24/03/2024 19:43

She sounds bonkers. I can't believe the staff member actually entertained her nonsense by coming up and asking you how long you were going to be!

Nanna61 · 24/03/2024 19:39

This sort of thing infuriates me. YANBU. The swimming pool I use is divided into Fast and medium swimming lanes and there's a section for less serious swimming. There are two swimmers, I use the term loosely, who swim up and down chatting in the lane sections and are most put out when asked to move to the area for less serious swimming. They have been told on several occasions by the life guards and repeatedly offend.

LalaPaloosa · 24/03/2024 19:27

Oh my goodness! How rude they were. You had every right to stay where you were.

Sennelier1 · 24/03/2024 19:21

@ThursdayTomorrow , I don't think OP should have moved. She is nót a doormat, being walked over by other customers of the gym. She was in her rhytm and had every right to finnish her exercise. The other ladies hadn't started so were perfectly able to wait or go to another machine.

Whycantiwinmillionsandsquillions · 24/03/2024 19:07

Yanbu
Some people are entitled. They also need reminding that they do not own the place and will have to wait.

Boysgrownbutstillathome · 24/03/2024 19:03

It's like when I go swimming and two women hog half the pool because they have to swim side by side very slowly, with a big gap between them, chatting as they go.

Noodles1234 · 24/03/2024 18:57

I am so glad you didn’t move!
how entitled, that’s shocking to have even asked you. Good for you.

NannaKaren · 24/03/2024 18:54

They were wrong
you weren’t !

DisabledDemon · 24/03/2024 18:43

How rude! If they had wanted to make sure that they could work out together, they should have come in a bit earlier.

Loyallyreserved · 24/03/2024 18:41

YANBU.
On my swim today a man kept kicking me as we passed each other. After the 6th time of being kicked I stopped and asked him if he was OK and there ensued a verbal diatribe and he asked me to move out of the lane.
I told him 1) he never apologised 2) he never stopped to ask me to move over and 3) I never kicked him.
It ended with him getting out of the pool in a hissy fit!

Me? I carried on swimming.

letsallmeetupinthehyear2000 · 24/03/2024 18:38

You did nothing wrong - they were being ridiculous

fetchacloth · 24/03/2024 18:36

YANBU with knobs on.
I really can't understand why grown ups behave like this and try and get away with it.😡I'm sure the gym staff have better things to do too 🙄

CatamaranViper · 24/03/2024 18:34

Went to the gym earlier and the two women were on the CTs together. They weren't really chatting from what I saw but did go round the whole gym together.

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SuitcaseBursting · 24/03/2024 18:26

Tamarapiano · 24/03/2024 17:37

Life can be tough can’t it. I guess it’s important to not let oneself get consumed by this sort of stuff and just try and get on with one’s day. Better not to expend energy on this . All the best. Saving energy for the important stuff is the way forward

Edited

I don’t think AIBU is the place for you!

Icamehere4love · 24/03/2024 18:20

Just WOW. I particularly like the reply
”"no, you are not worth more than me, kindly fuck off".
hahahaha!!

Some People!

Havinganamechange · 24/03/2024 18:15

YANBU. She would have had a very rude answer for even touching me in the middle of a workout. Privilege at its worst 🤦🏼‍♀️

Rachand23 · 24/03/2024 18:05

I would of exercised two of my fingers!

NoDought · 24/03/2024 18:04

Nah, you were in the middle of a work out programme, they were unreasonable and quite childish to get staff involved and bang stuff around? Did they antagonise the man too?

louberrypie · 24/03/2024 17:57

This is an incredible cheek! How awful for you. I would need to know why the staff member interrupted me too. That’s so unreasonable.

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