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Asked to move at the gym

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CatamaranViper · 22/03/2024 20:16

Firstly, the way our gym is laid out, you walk in and all the cardio equipment is either side of you, facing the walls. The equipment is all in pairs so it goes two treadmills, two rowing machines, two cross trainers, two bikes, two treadmills etc on each side.
When I came in, all CTs were free so I hopped on one. I usually do a 40 min program which is customised on my profile. All the cardio equipment has a big screen and you can watch netflix etc if you want. I usually do watch something.

So I was on the CT with my headphones in, facing the wall and about 10 mins into my workout. A lady taps me on the shoulder which made me jump and asks me to move machine. I gestured to the one next to me (I was a bit out of breath) and told her that it was free. She then told me that her and her friend like to do it side by side so I'd need to move for them. I was only 10 mins into my workout and I was quite settled where I was and she was rude. I said no, I'll be 30 mins or so, you can use it then.

One of the other pairs of CTs had a bloke on one so there weren't any two free together, but plenty other equipment was available and in pairs.

She demanded I move again and I just put my headphones back in. A few mins later a staff member comes over and asks how long I'll be. The screens shows I have about 25 mins left now, he sees this and off he goes. Next thing I hear a bang and one of the ladies has stormed out the gym. The other one is glaring at me and saying something I can't hear.

I mean, I could have moved to another CT but i always find it difficult if I stop and start again on those machines and there were other free CTs, just not two together. I don't think I did anything wrong but thought I'd ask on here. So WIBU to stay on my machine?

OP posts:
teaandtoastwithmarmite · 22/03/2024 20:22

I wouldn’t have moved either. If it was a treadmill it would totally mess up my run time and on that basis I wouldn’t move at all. She sounds batshit

NCForQuestions · 22/03/2024 20:22

YANBU. Shit like this is why I'm no longer a member of a gym. People are so entitled.

Fuck. Off.

MolkosTeenageAngst · 22/03/2024 20:22

Not unreasonable at all. Interesting they approached you and not the bloke to move.

giveituplucy12 · 22/03/2024 20:21

napody · 22/03/2024 20:20

Were they (and the staff member) hassling the bloke as well, or just you?

Excellent point

DefenestratingZebra · 22/03/2024 20:21

Did at any point anyone ask the man on the other CT to move?

napody · 22/03/2024 20:20

Were they (and the staff member) hassling the bloke as well, or just you?

PeloMom · 22/03/2024 20:20

You did nothing wrong. If they wanted to work out together they should have been prepared to wait for 2 machines to free up

Loulovescake · 22/03/2024 20:19

You were not unreasonable! It's not a seat where you can do a quick swap, getting off and on would totally break your flow.

EmilyTjP · 22/03/2024 20:19

YANBU. You were there first. Tough luck that they can’t go on together.

Elephantswillnever · 22/03/2024 20:18

I don't think so it's unfortunate they couldn't work out together but I wouldn't of moved either.

ReluctantSwimMum · 22/03/2024 20:18

You were right. Not unreasonable at all. Very odd behaviour by that person.

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